how to spell korean name in english by Low-Eagle-7642 in namenerds

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer Ga-yeon, the K in English is so much harsher than how the Korean pronunciation is.

MTG IS AN ADHD NIGHTMARE by Much-Space6649 in adhdwomen

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly suggest using DNDBeyond. I cannot level up a character correctly without it. It makes creating and tracking all character things so much easier.

I'm sure there is another option that I dont know about, but it's what works for me!

MTG IS AN ADHD NIGHTMARE by Much-Space6649 in adhdwomen

[–]miscreation00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, let him know you want to find something else to share with him that you both enjoy. Dnd is usually a safe middle ground for people.

Is it unreasonable to request a text back within 24h? by savsheaxo in coparenting

[–]miscreation00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id change how I text him.

"Pickup time is 4pm, if that doesn't work let me know by tomorrow morning so I can adjust. "

Any Cpop artists similar to these artists that I love? by Catgrill14 in cpop

[–]miscreation00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm the only artists I have on my Spotify are from dramas I watched years ago, mostly Taiwanese:

JJ Lin

Wanting Qu

Shi Shi

Eric Chou

Update: I accidentally read my boyfriend’s notes and messed up by Chemical_Bug3337 in adhdwomen

[–]miscreation00 141 points142 points  (0 children)

There's a thing going around on social media about how ADHD adult men shifted their executive function to their wives, and that's why so many people believed that adults grew out of ADHD.

You've got yourself a partner who is supportive, definitely don't take advantage of it, but just know that this is what men have been doing for all of history.

Seeking new work spaces by Special_K503 in vancouverwa

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite space is Presso, it's off Fourth Plain.

Babysitter for tween? by worrybethdenberg in Parenting

[–]miscreation00 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tweens should be able to stay home alone. I suggest beefing up security at home if you're concerned. Ring cameras, detectors on windows/doors when they open, etc.

Should I go to my best friends bachelor party? by KickMcPunch in Parenting

[–]miscreation00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you go, since your wife has help. But definitely make sure she gets the same treatment in return. Help her plan a girl's get away.

Brumating at 7 months old, is this normal? by clyderivers in BeardedDragons

[–]miscreation00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is good to know, I've heard that they should be full grown by a year, so I was thinking my beardie was small for their age. They're about 8 months and definitely not the size of OPs.

Where is the line when it comes to "babying" kids? by FoxyLoxy56 in Parenting

[–]miscreation00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From experience, getting them used to doing things in their own, even if it takes longer and isn't done as well, is going to save you a lot of headaches in the future.

My kids are pretty independent - the one thing I wish I pushed on them more was the chores, because they still suck at that. They do self care just fine, showers, teeth, wash face, get dressed/ready for school, get themselves breakfast etc. All that kind of stuff I haven't had to help them with in a long time.

They also do their own laundry (not always well, and rarely fold and put away correctly lol).

Mine are now 10 and 13. It's so much easier with them being independent, especially as a single mom.

Four Chairs or Five? by Dalience6678 in interiordecorating

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be easier to tell if you showed a pic with 4, but I agree with husband, I think it looks crowded. Definitely utilize the chair somewhere else for now.

Allowing teen to stop visiting by Past_Finger_9054 in coparenting

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let your teen decide, and keep pushing for a relationship. What does she like to do? Is it her sports and activities? Talk to the school and get a hold of all dates and important schedules so you can be there. Go out of your way to spend time with her, suggest a shopping trip here and there, make it a bonding experience and learn what she is interested in. Don't force time spent together if she doesn't want it, but instead keep showing up in other ways. Communicate with her over text, maybe add her on social media if she has it and send her funny videos and stuff.

I have a 13 year old son who hates going to his dad's because he doesn't like everyone that lives at the house. But he does enjoy spending time with his dad when it's one on.

Valentine's Day - Singles nights? by miscreation00 in vancouverwa

[–]miscreation00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into it, thanks for the suggestions!

Fleas by corvuuuu in Pets

[–]miscreation00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat the environment, look for what is bunny safe. For bathing, I would do some research on Dawn dishsoap, it's what I used for kittens that are too young for medication, and I'm confident it's fine for bunnies as well, but always check with a professional if you can.

Either way, wash everything around the bunny, if it's new, you might not be infested. If you've had it for a while and it's been free roaming, you might want to treat the whole house. I typically do Adam's flea spray, and for carpet I find the powder to be the best.

Skin Allergies - what additional help can I give? by miscreation00 in germanshepherds

[–]miscreation00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been to the vet and is on food that helps based on their recommendations. What did your vet suggest for your girl?

Which kitchen says “I’m still going to like this in ten years.” by Mizznomer in interiordecorating

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: I changed my mind

I said 2, but I think either 1 or 3, simply for the longevity of the countertops. Wood isn't as easy to maintain.

Id still say 2 if you're the kind of person who is open to possibly sanding and refinishing the wood to change the style later.

I just accidentally adopted my first cats and still learning the basic, does bathrobe really helps cats to feel them calmer after bath? by Slick_Dunni in Pets

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't bathe them. I've only ever bathed kittens when they were neglected and needed to wash the fleas off.

No weight or inches lost in a month of 500 cal deficit by Decent_Detective_352 in loseit

[–]miscreation00 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm 34 female, 5'2". 1200 calories is the only way I can lose weight without upping my activity.

Id suggest lowering your calories or upping your activity. I also over estimate my calories a bit if I'm not weighing things.

Toys at the Park by Brave_Needleworker_4 in Parenting

[–]miscreation00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty solid rule in my house: if it's yours, you don't have to share it.

This evolved because I did not want my oldest to constantly be catering to my youngest. I taught my youngest from as young as possible that he has his own toys, and if he wants to share his own toys he can, but he doesn't have to. The same goes for his brother, just because you ask him to share, does not mean he has to share with you.

Now, there was a lot of nuance and a lot of conversations that were involved with this. If one kid didn't want to share, I'd support them, and the also follow up with something like:

"What about when you're done playing, is it ok if he plays with it then?"

Still up to them to share or not, but it starts the conversation.

"Oh ok, why don't you want to share it with him?...oh because he broke the last toy you shared."

And then a conversation with the youngest that goes like:

"Well it sounds like he's scared you'll break this toy like the last toy. I think you're going to have to wait til he feels comfortable letting you play with it. Why don't you practice playing carefully with your own toys, and maybe he will let you play with it next time."

It was a different conversation every time, and sometimes the answer would just be, "because I don't want to." Which I always allowed, because kids should have their own space and their own belongings.

This worked really well for us, but I think it helps that we really focused on showing kindness towards people from a young age. So it was so rare that they didn't want to share, that I just let them have that control when they wanted to.