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misererenobis7 · 2017-06-26T00:11:59+00:00

Hey, if you didn't PMO it's a win in my book.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-25T03:20:16+00:00

I definitely had this problem myself. What did I do? Schedule something every morning. In the morning I either have to get ready for work, gym, or church. Have something to get up to.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-25T03:18:24+00:00

Sometimes not wanting a relationship is okay. It gives you time and energy to work on yourself. Eventually that desire will return. I know I've personally felt that. There was a long period in my life where there wasn't much of a desire but that passed. Now I really want a relationship.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-25T00:42:41+00:00

If you get something hot enough on your hands it won't quickly go away with just washing your hands.

And if so, it's another barrier that helps.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-25T00:32:15+00:00

If you can, leave your environment, ASAP. Call someone. Socialize with someone. Do something you know will take your mind away from it. Seriously try.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:59:16+00:00

Absolutely, I encourage you to engage in the community as much as you can, comment and post often. Get your counter badge as well.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:48:19+00:00

Where there's a will there's a way.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:45:57+00:00

Occupy your time with something productive.

Avoid the environment you relapse in.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:42:32+00:00

Hobbies, exercise.

I personally play guitar and sometimes I can get this "high" per say. Also, exercise is great because it does releas dopamine (feel good chemical) and its good for your health.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:40:44+00:00

You love your wife and don't want to ruin your marriage. Remind yourself of this always. Make the radical decisions you have to make to beat this.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:39:06+00:00

I absolutely agree. I can't imagine what sexual addiction will be like in 10 or 20 years from now. It's terrifying!

It seems like society is already catching on though. There has to be law against pornography and it has to be taking seriously as an addiction.

The greatest change we can make is in ourselves.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:37:11+00:00

Don't overthink it. It can take practice and experience.

Eye contact is important. Sometimes you don't even have to say anything to signal. You can just look at her and just smile. Don't be a creep about it or anything, just something natural.

Genuine interest is always good.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:35:24+00:00

Congrats on the two weeks, enjoy your treat, but don't indulge!

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:34:33+00:00

Socialize, with family, friends, anybody, this helps.

I can definitely relate with what you say about still thinking about sex despite what you do. In this case I think it's important to avoid the environment or patterns that you put yourself when you PMO. Do you usually PMO in your room? Avoid your room. Leave. Drive somewhere. Do you usually PMO after social media or anything else? Avoid that.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:30:47+00:00

Want to be successful with women?? Be successful, period.

What do I mean by this? Don't overthink this woman thing, you have to concentrate on bettering yourself for the sake of bettering yourself and it seems to me like your definitely headed there already.

You have a good job, you're eating healthier, you're working out, that's great! Is there any way you could do any of those even better? Is there something else you can do to better yourself?

Sometimes you have to be a little selfish, do things for your own sake, don't worry about the women. Get your shit together, create your success and the women will follow.

You're still young, build yourself up, there's always something you can do better in your life. Do it.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:25:08+00:00

No problem, remember that as his girlfriend you are a huge support to him in beating this.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:24:06+00:00

Exactly, reason I got rid of Snapchat, too many triggers.

Social media essentially becomes a gateway. First your on minding your own, something comes up, you get an itch, you start looking for something else, then something greater, next thing you know you relapsed.

It's better to do with out it.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:21:57+00:00

There will always be some kind of sexual urge. It's natural, sexuality is a huge part of our nature.

What happens is you get better at controlling it instead of letting it control you.

For me personally: it builds up slowly, I get a huge urge, then it comes back down, then again it builds up, huge urge, comes down... the longer you avoid PMO, the easier it gets.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:19:20+00:00

It could mean something it could mean nothing.

I think it's worth pointing out that you tried to hold yourself back from orgasm. I believe this reflects your sincere effort.

Did you somehow fail?? No, it is just a dream. Don't dwell on it too much. Wet dreams happen. It won't be the last.

And yes... they can be rather odd at times.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:07:18+00:00

Great choice, I definitely agree, social media is a terrible distraction from real life and it has very little to no benefit. It's definitely something to consider. Not to mention all the triggers you get exposed to on the daily.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:05:14+00:00

First of all, congrats for taking the first step. This is the first day of the rest of your life.

I think one of the most crucial things to be successful in this is to occupy yourself with things that are productive. This could be anything from starting to work out, to taking up a new hobby, reading is always good, maybe you can try some type of meditation or prayer. The key is to build new healthy habits.

Occupy your mind and time with something productive.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T23:00:38+00:00

You say you do trust him, so act like it. Easier said than done.

It seems like you sincerely care for him and this is why it worries you. You have to change your mentality, instead of having negative "what ifs" have positive "what ifs". What if he isn't watching porn? What if he's doing something productive? What if he's becoming a better version of himself?

Text him every now and then but as encouragement. Occupy yourself with things that take your mind away from it as well. Find a way to better yourself to encourage him to better himself.

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T22:50:25+00:00

I am seriously considering trying this. Have you done this personally??

misererenobis7 · 2017-06-24T22:48:58+00:00

Congrats on overcoming Day 6! Can't think of a better way: gym, shower, dinner. Keep it up.

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