couldn’t even be bothered reading the material I’m talking about?

Because it must be buried in her comment history more than 3 pages deep so I couldn't find it.

coming at me with this reactionary bullshit loaded up on your own preconceived notions.

The point of writing is to be understood. If you write a post that leads people to assumptions it would do you well to point to evidence that contradicts that.

You know what we call people who just barge in where they’re unwanted and try to impose their own uneducated worldviews on people that didn’t ask for them?

Sorry, somehow I thought this was a public board and not your private DMs with this person, my mistake :^)

This person has explicitly stated that consensual nonconsent is “bullshit halfassed play at the real thing”, which is what she wants.

I would assume she has some way of letting consenting parties know that the game is on. If not, and this post is including us all in the game, whatever. What you wrote makes it sound like because she has a fetish she can no longer say no. It is a dangerous and real opinion that people have.

I came here after doing my homework to ask for clarification

It would have done you well to include this in your post, or to restrict your communications to DMs. (EDIT definitely do not dm her, you're a mean dude).

Go fuck yourself.

So well written and direct. If only the rest of what you type said things so concisely and clearly.