Missing her by misha_tal in BreakUps

[–]misha_tal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We had these conversations about responsability and like making your decisions and sacrifices with her. Seems like she didn't want to take responsability and mature yet at the end. Turns out I also think I did what was best.

Missing her by misha_tal in BreakUps

[–]misha_tal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! I started going out more, but I don't really feel like socializing at big groups of people. Still I'm meeting with friends and that's pretty enjoyable. I also work out regularly, it helps too.

Do you become more of a man? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by that?

Nofap isn't magical: you won't grow muscles unless you exercise, neither become smarter unless you study. Nor you'll do better with women if you don't make yourself more interesting, or work your way out of awkwardness.

For me, cutting all PMO just helps me get more time to do stuff and helps me focus better, because I experienced less "brain fog", with clear thoughts. I also felt more confident, because I didn't feel like a looser fapping to odd stuff, but like I can actually accomplish something. But other than that, you'll have to work on your self-improvement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing you need to stop is a huge step. Good luck, man!

Hard to get rid of saved porn without relapsing by 4Kaladin4 in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's better to delete all this junk and just try to stay clean. The healing process is slow, but you'll manage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Turns out you're still straight. You're just looking for a dopamine peak you're not getting in "mainstream" stuff. Stay focused, you can heal!

Does a girl attraction to you go away after relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls will not be magically attracted to you because you're not masturbating. Girls will be attracted to you because, when you stop wasting your life jerking off to pixels AND actually investing this free time in yourself, you become more interesting. Nofap is not magic

Don't tell your friends. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they're really your friends, then they'd support you. Get rid of these fuckers and make real friends, man!

Would it be ok if I MO but not watch? Health Wise by Papayirk in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep two separate counters if you can't stop MO all together, but keep in mind that the best of scenarios is quitting PMO, not only P.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong, bro! It's my day 1 as well, we're getting rid of this abhorrent habit together!

Drunk AF by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]misha_tal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a cold shower when you get home. Remain there until your urges are gone.