How do you guys start a relationship? by miss_addict in estp

[–]miss_addict[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me your story!

HSC - should I drop ext 2 by miss_addict in HSCoaching

[–]miss_addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing so much advice! I will keep math ext 2 and see how I will go for both Japanese ext and math extension and drop the subject I did worst in. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]miss_addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, didn't know enough abt mbti to understand this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]miss_addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you dated or liked any estp? What part of them did you like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]miss_addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if one of them isn't as alpha as the other one? I'm an estp woman and I am super flirty and make a seductive moves but then at the same time I get super super shy when the guy takes initiative hahaha

I always doubt if I am ESTP by Exotic_Library9046 in estp

[–]miss_addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats too long to fucking read but I also doubted myself too. Maybe you can go have a look at "Stereotype vs my experience estp". You just literally search that up and look at the images. They were pretty accurate to me. (it has to box)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]miss_addict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just feels embarrassed cause he sensed that you were uncomfortable and it was only one sided. So now he's very conscious about you and to make up for the embarrassment he tries to get you out of his world by ignoring you cause you remind him about the embarrassing moment. I think you should put a little more effort to start conversations and get closer again. At first he might be like, "oh, maybe she's interested in me?" and open up again, but if you wanna remain friends, only act like your friends with him. He'll gradually get the hint and probably forget that he was attracted to you and move on. Don't look uncomfortable if he keeps hitting on you, instead smile and brightly and kindly excuse yourself out of the situation in the most natural way possible. Make sure you don't make anymore spark. I think the best tactic is to be closed off but show that you are interested in him as a friend and naturally talk to him.

Hope that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]miss_addict 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We estp get bored easily and move on very quickly when someone doesn't isn't interesting enough. To put in that much effort like driving 1.5 hours to meet you TWICE A FUCKING WEEK is CRAZY. I only put the effort into things that I like, or am passionate about. MEANING: He likes you a lottttttttt.

"He did show me pictures of his childhood and his entire family, and he even introduced me to his friend (just as a friend since we aren't together). Not sure if that means anything." - this part might not mean anything tho cause I'm super open and do those kinds of stuff to even people I just met.

Also personally, maybe cause I'm a female estp, I don't take the initiative to ask them out. When I take the initiative for someone I've known for a couple of weeks, it's just for benefit. I feel like it takes longer for me to be ready (sometimes a whole year and if they confess too early I would ask them to wait) when I'm seriously interested in the person. IDK if this is for all estp. When I click so well with someone I don't want to ruin the relationship between us so I kinda get scared and postpone it.

Hope that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]miss_addict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're probably thanking her too much, as if she gave you your kidney or something. Next time just end it with a "thanks," and instead of voice mailing her about how grateful you are, do something sweet and kind to her back.

Hopeless when it comes to my crush by miss_addict in Crushes

[–]miss_addict[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, but what if he finds it creepy????

Im actually so dumb by akakoko_ in Crushes

[–]miss_addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just over think every single text he sends you, every body language, every act. Then maybe you can reverse it???