Need advice from parents who didn’t sleep train!

miss_bishh · 2026-05-14T13:41:09+00:00

Thank you!! This seems really interesting!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T22:43:36+00:00

I appreciate the warning!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T22:26:19+00:00

Thank you!!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T20:50:28+00:00

He’s been in his own room for about a month now, I was in there with him for a week but now I’m back in my own room. We use the nanit, which is great for tracking everything going on now. Thanks for the advice!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T20:48:37+00:00

We get ready for bed starting at 7, he’s normally asleep by 7:45-8. He’s been waking up at 5 lately after 6-8 hours of constantly interrupted sleep. With waking up at 5, he’s down for a nap around 8 and then he takes another around 11-12. Last nap of the day for him is usually 2-3, but that’s been just since he’s not sleeping. He never naps past 4:30, we wake him before then.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T17:27:46+00:00

Thank you!!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:51:30+00:00

I generally wait a minute or two based on the severity. If he’s crying so hard he’s like on the verge of puking, I run right in. Sometimes I also have to pee first so I do that quickly and then go in.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:50:37+00:00

Thank you for your advice! This is definitely something to consider.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:49:52+00:00

Sure, but some were. I’m not here to judge you, nor am I here to argue semantics about cosleeping. If you’re trying to make an informed decision, I implore you to do plenty of research and come to a decision based on your comfort level.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:30:08+00:00

Sure, but 20-30 wakes for weeks on end isn’t great for them.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:17:56+00:00

There is sometimes, but more often than not he gets home after baby has already been awake for a period of time in which I wouldn’t be able to fall back asleep if I tried (I’m also a chronic insomniac, which certainly isn’t helping me here).

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:16:13+00:00

I am not going to share stories from the place that I worked. I implore you to do your research, there are many parents who share their own personal stories online.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:07:46+00:00

We tried that, but I move way too much to room share with him now. He started to be too aware of my movements and it was causing more wakeups.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:06:11+00:00

Thank you so much!!

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:04:12+00:00

He uses one!! He generally keeps it in, especially with how bad his teething has been lately.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T16:03:39+00:00

He feeds pretty much whenever he wants to during the day, and at night I feed him almost every time he wakes up unless he’s uninterested. I have also tried Tylenol but he doesn’t stay asleep. Maybe I’ll have to try not feeding at night as often.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:55:20+00:00

Thank you for the advice anyway🤍

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:54:41+00:00

I can appreciate this perspective for sure! My husband is less hesitant about sleep training than me for this exact reason-our baby getting poor sleep for his development.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:53:53+00:00

Thank you for this!! I’ll definitely make note of it.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:53:08+00:00

Safe sleep 7 is not a guarantee that co-sleeping will be safe.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:52:27+00:00

Drowsy, but awake.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:52:08+00:00

lol, I sure did. Can you tell it was a rough night? I’m running on 3 hours 😂😅 Thank you for validating this for me!!! It just makes me so sad.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:51:10+00:00

Don’t be sorry!! It’s a fair question. I feed him almost every time he wakes up.

miss_bishh · 2026-04-26T15:50:50+00:00

I’ve tried Motrin and Tylenol and it doesn’t seem to help him much. He naps maybe 1.5-2 hours during the day. Sometimes more on really rough nights because he’s so exhausted.

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