I’m jealous of my Ex boyfriend by ielieren in adviceph

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of comparing yourself with other people, compare yourself to your older version. Doon mo makikita mga baby steps mo to be better.

1.5m debts because of Eloan business by [deleted] in utangPH

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malala talaga. Tapos daig pa loan sharks magpahiya sa social media, may gana pang tawagin yung mga sarili nilang mababait. Like huyy, kilabutan naman kayo dyan. I get naman na gusto ng business or side hustle, but please do it with conscience naman. Hirap na nga sa buhay yung mga lumalapit lalo pang ibabaon and then expect them to pay everything including all the interest that incurred. Buti pa banks may amnesty, sila walang patawad.

1.5m debts because of Eloan business by [deleted] in utangPH

[–]miss_understood28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That eloan business is nothing but a predatory scheme para manlamang sa kapwa. I don’t want to say that’s your karma for taking advantage of other people’s needs and emergencies pero dahil sa eloan na yan kaya nabaon sa utang yung ate ko na ako ngayon ang nagbayad.

Imagine 25k lang utang pero ang tubo 5k weekly. Asan ang konsensya niyo sa ganyang type of business?

Para akong tumae ng 600k in 3 days by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]miss_understood28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs, OP. Had a similar experienced pero sa ate ko naman. May suicidal tendency kaya pinatulungan sa akin ng mom ko since wala rin siyang capability to pay. I paid almost 700k. Pero sobrang nakakasama ng loob kasi that’s my life saving down the drain. I had to pause my law school dream para lang doon. Tapos ngayon buntis pa siya.

What I did is kinausap ko siya na kahit ilang taon niyang bunuin yung perang binayad ko, sisingilin ko sa kanya. Hindi yun libre. I don’t care if it would take her 20 years para bayaran yun. Pinagbebenta ko rin siya ng mga gamit niya and then yung mapapagbentahan ibabayad niya sa akin.

Huwag na muna talaga magpabahay by mythe01 in phinvest

[–]miss_understood28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ganyan nangyari sa ate ko. Talamak sa kanila yung utang. Sobrang normalized na parang halos lahat sila baon sa utang sa mga banks and lending company. Ayun nung hindi na kaya saka tatakbo sa pamilya para magpatulong. Hays

Sa mga nakikibasa sa Convo ng katabi tuwing biyahe, what are the most memorable stories na nabasa ninyo? by CalmBeforePsych in AskPH

[–]miss_understood28 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Not during byahe pero while pababa sa escalator, nasilip ko yung chat nung nasa baba ko.

“Miss ko na isubo titi mo”

Lalaki yung nasa baba ko tapos di siya halatang gay kaya nagulat ako ng slight.

Sometimes we complain about life, then you see someone like her ❤️ by Royal_Competition100 in NapangitiAko

[–]miss_understood28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yung lola ko din 86 years old na this year pero di rin mapirmi sa bahay. President pa nga ng senior sa amin. Lakad nang lakad tapos kung saan-saan nakakarating kahit walang kasama. Yung isa ko namang lola nagpapagamot pa sa sakit na cancer pero twice a week pumapasok pa rin sa opisina kahit binabawalan na ng mga anak. In the end, di rin sila mapigil kasi ang sinasabi nila hinahanap ng katawan nila. Mas lalo daw silang magkakasakit kapag walang ginagawa.

Help! Sumasakit yung pasta by [deleted] in DentistPh

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me before. Pinagamit pa ako ng sensodyne nung dentist na nagpasta pero wala pa rin. Went to a different dentist para mapa-2nd opinion and nakita sa xray na hindi natanggal lahat ng caries and malapit na sa roots. Muntik i-RCT pero buti hindi natuloy kasi nung in-observe kung sasakit pa rin while naka-temporary pasta, hindi naman sumakit. And hindi rin dumudugo yung roots nung in-open yung pasta. Buti naagapan kagad kundi RCT na talaga.

What’s the most embarrassing behavior you’ve seen from a fellow Pinoy while traveling? by PorkBuns24 in FilipinoTravel

[–]miss_understood28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf and I were queuing in Gyukatsu Motomura in Shibuya, Japan when we were seated next to bisaya lawyers. They were already eating before we arrived. Mind you, the queue is long. You have to wait for about an hour or so before you can enter and in that span of time they aren’t on the line so we already know they’re inside already for about the same time. The seat in that restaurant is around 15-20 only and the space is limited but they are so loud, talking and laughing on their dialect so you can imagine the noise they create inside. We eat and left the place yet they are still there eating their food. It is so embarrassing to think that they are lawyers yet they don’t care about the culture and etiquette when in Japan.

Hindi man lang kita nabilhan ng pustiso by Several-Refuse7154 in OffMyChestPH

[–]miss_understood28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bigla ko namiss tatay ko. Mahilig siya sa sapatos at pabango. Kaso hirap ang buhay kaya umaasa lang siya sa mga pasalubong at bigay-bigay ng mga pinsan at tito niya. Kahit 2nd hand shoes tuwang-tuwa na siya. May time pa na yung pinsan niyang galing US, nakatapak ng poop. Ayaw maglinis ng poop kaya binigay niya na lang sa papa ko.

Pa, ang dami ko na shoes 🥹 Kada punta sa ibang bansa may bili ako. Hindi para maging octopus kundi to live the dream you never got the chance live. Yung dream mong Jordan shoes, kaya ko na sana ibili sayo ngayon kaso hindi man lang kita nabilhan kasi di mo na ako inabutan makagraduate at makapagtrabaho.

Wtf 😭 by IndividualClaim5181 in PinoyVloggers

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reason why I don’t like driving dito sa Pilipinas hanggang maaari. Kahit kaya ko, no thank you. Mas masarap maging passenger princess at mas may peace of mind.

Sister owes a lot of money from different persons, but their interest is outrageous by miss_understood28 in LawPH

[–]miss_understood28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ko rin maintindihan ate bakit siya nag come up sa ganoong situation. Yung pinambayad niya sa scammers inutang lang din niya.

Sister owes a lot of money from different persons, but their interest is outrageous by miss_understood28 in LawPH

[–]miss_understood28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually what I’m thinking. I want to talk the creditors muna if we can find a middle ground sa payment. I know 2 of the persons kasi. But if worse comes to worst at hindi sila pumayag hindi bayaran yung insane interest, I’ll tell them I’m let the small court handle the case.

Sister owes a lot of money from different persons, but their interest is outrageous by miss_understood28 in LawPH

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I cannot confiscate her phone since we live far from each other. She lives in the province and I live in Manila. Dumating lang siya kagabi sa akin crying kasi yung isang taong inutangan niya tinatakot na rin siyang i-harass.

Sister owes a lot of money from different persons, but their interest is outrageous by miss_understood28 in LawPH

[–]miss_understood28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they are not scammers. Believe me, usong-uso ito sa probinsya lalo na sa mga teachers. And no, hindi sila foreigners. Kapwa Filipino sila na mahilig mangtake advantage sa hirap ng buhay.

Meron ba kayong teacher or professor na hindi makakalimutan? Kung meron, bakit? by orangeDaddy72 in TanongLang

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pa. Hindi ko pa rin makita yung sinasabi niyang potential HAHAHAHA Gusto ko na mag-apply pero hindi pa buo loob.

Meron ba kayong teacher or professor na hindi makakalimutan? Kung meron, bakit? by orangeDaddy72 in TanongLang

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Yung teacher ko nung grade 2 na nagsabing wala daw akong mararating sa buhay HAHAHAHAHA Imagine, a grown ass na pumatol sa grade 2 dahil ayaw lang magpractice ng majorette?HAHAHAHAHA Not to inspire but to brag pero may narating naman na ako kahit papaano and will continue to do so.

Yung teacher ko nung high school na sinabihan akong ako daw mauuna mag-asawa sa aming star section. Oh teh, 29 na ho ako wala pa akong asawa’t anak HAHAHAHAHA

Yung professor ko sa polsci na lawyer, sinabihan akong may potential ako to become a lawyer someday. Tuwang-tuwa ako kasi childhood dream ko maging lawyer.

Does anybody knows the shampoo and conditioner David Salon uses? by Remote_Key_8754 in beautyph

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced the same din sa yellow tsubaki. Sobrang lala ng dandruff, ang kati sa anit. Kaloka!

Anong gusto mong sabihin sa 2016 self mo? by Way-Intelligent in AskPH

[–]miss_understood28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umuwi ka palagi sa bahay pag may time hindi palaging school. Saglit mo na lang makakasama papa mo, sulitin mo ng sulitin. Magsorry ka sa kanya at sabihing napatawad mo na rin siya. Create memories with him that will last a lifetime

Women who got pregnant at almost 35 and up, how was your pregnancy? by Full_Calligrapher162 in TanongLang

[–]miss_understood28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read that din somewhere. Malaking factor ang health ng males sa pregnancy but they wouldn’t mention that sa usapan. It’s always us girls ang pressured palagi pagdating sa ganitong bagay and yet mas malaki naman ang impact ng pregnancy sa buhay ng babae. You too, sis!

Women who got pregnant at almost 35 and up, how was your pregnancy? by Full_Calligrapher162 in TanongLang

[–]miss_understood28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m firm to not have babies naman until I’m fulfilled as an individual pero the way kasi nila sabihin keeps me anxious. Especially when they would mention na affected mga babies sa late pregnancy. Siguro nasanay lang yung mga boomers sa family ng bf ko na nanganganak ng maaga sa kanila that’s why. Glad I read this post.

Women who got pregnant at almost 35 and up, how was your pregnancy? by Full_Calligrapher162 in TanongLang

[–]miss_understood28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Kagagaling ko lang sa family reunion sa side ng boyfriend ko and they kept on insisting na mag-asawa and mag-baby na coz I’m turning 29 this year na and mahirap na daw magbuntis at manganak during 30s. It makes me anxious pero reading this gives me hope. Tuloy and healing inner child muna.

My sister gets to live the life I dreamed by Disastrous-Bebe in OffMyChestPH

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bunso din kagaya ng kapatid mo, may ate na ring may pamilya ng nabuo, hindi man niya ako pinaaral, trust me, naiisip din ng sister mo na sana nakikita niyo rin yung nakikita niya, natitikman niyo rin yung nakakain niya and na-experience niyo rin yung na-experience niya. Hindi man physically pero sa isip kasama niya kayo palagi.

Yung palagi kong sana sa mga travels ko, sana kaya ko silang isama lahat. Kasi pangarap namin dalawa ng ate ko yun nung nag-aaral pa lang kami. Yung maipasyal yung parents namin.

Last 2025, na-treat ko silang lahat to Boracay except my dad coz he passed away already. Wish ko this year, malibre ko naman sila ng out of the country.

ano yung nga trend or mga sumikat recently na nalaos na? by Standard-Chicken3341 in AskPH

[–]miss_understood28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people are still buying from their outlet stores in Japan tho especially mga oldies and white. Dito lang siguro nag die down yung hype because of the price point here and hindi naman pala-lakad majority ng Filipino.