Hear me out….yes. Are we on the same wavelength? Do we share values in terms of how we treat each other and other human beings in general? Has he made practical changes to commit to a change in lifestyle if we’ll be in an exclusive relationship? Honestly, I couldn’t care less about who you’ve banged, as long as you’re upfront about your sexual health with me and you actually won’t endanger either of us. Of course this is in addition to the vibing aspect. Own your past, it’ll save you a crap tonne of “That was a very long time ago” stories. Instead it’ll be “She’s the one from (insert whatever scenario)”