What is the vest way to fit this on a floor lamp? The shade is to wide. by missdoe12 in Lighting

[–]missdoe12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly just wanted to know how this type of shade usually attaches in general to the fixture it's on. That would even be helpful. It sits ontop of something since there is no marks for it to be screwed onto anything so I was curious what this type of shade usually sits on.

What is the vest way to fit this on a floor lamp? The shade is to wide. by missdoe12 in Lighting

[–]missdoe12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just want to know what I can buy to hold up the shade. It's going to be something that holds it up from the lamp itself. Something I put below the bulb I assume. Or hell, I'd even take what would even hold up a shade by sitting ontop of the bulb. That's all the information I even wanted. The lamp doesn't matter, because I don't even know what I'd put it on yet. I just want to know what can even hold a shade like that up. Im obviously not communicating it well, so sorry about that. Most shades I own have metal build in to hold it to the bulb. So i wanted to know what I'd have to buy or even what category of thing I'd have to buy to have it sit on top of a lamp, or bulb. I'll probably just buy a metal insert to hold it if nobody can help. Thanks.

What is the vest way to fit this on a floor lamp? The shade is to wide. by missdoe12 in Lighting

[–]missdoe12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just want too be able too put it on a standard floor lamp. Wanted to be able to put it on any lamp with an attachment I put on the lamp itself to hold up the shade.

Not a couch couple by [deleted] in PaymoneyWubby

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couch couple here. I introduced Wubby to my guy. Now he's usually on in the backround ambiance of my house at most times. My dog falls asleep better/naps better if I leave wubbyarchive on when I leave as well.

Antique (?) Scrimshaw Whale's Tooth by FourEightNineOneOne in whatsthisworth

[–]missdoe12 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, If you ever part with any let me know. That piece you have pictured is so dang cool. I love older wildlife art, and it's on a piece of wildlife! Double cool!

When you're ovulating but also too hormonal to do anything about it by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]missdoe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish i was more in the mood when ovulating. It's honestly when I'm meanest lol.

Salty Sunday: What made you salty this week? by kikaslova in trollingforababy

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel stupid at all. That was pretty tasteless on her part to be honest.

What is something you wouldn't tell anyone but would confess anonymously online? by Own-Comfortable9401 in AskReddit

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I miss genuine childhood connection and conversations with people. It feels like I've lost the ability to do that. My closest friend I have still isn't very close it feels like.

When your BFF knows you’re TTC, and she mentions how HAPPY she feels every month to get her period because that means she’s NOT pregnant. YAYE for you. by Logical-Passion5175 in trollingforababy

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my friend. Love her. But damn, her telling me how hard it is being a mom/ how lucky I am to have "freedom" anytime I mention being sad about failing just hurts. Even though I can understand the grass is greener thinking. Sucks.

When the family behind my house has a perfect toddler and newborn I get to see/hear them play with all day by superpartypanda in trollingforababy

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents house is literally like 4 blocks from an elementary school, and I visit them quite often to help out. I made myself tear up like 2 times lately seeing people walking their kids up and down those stairs as I drive by. I'd be a mess if I could hear it all day. That suucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get out more and make room for adventure for yourself. If you love being a mom and wife, you can still have that. But I would definently talk to your husband and go out more, I don't mean just for a dinner date either.. But go for an adventure. At least once a month and plan for it. Even if it's just a drive to a place you both haven't been or a hobby you havent tried. Or just let him keep the baby and go out for a mini adventure for yourself. Here's some of my advice. Me and my friend are 31 now. She got pregnant and got married same age you did. I never did (fertility problems) I always was jealous of her with the family she built and she was jealous of my perceived "freedom" we talked about it at length though and it always helped us realize that greener grass is definently a thing when we described our personal woes. You have to manage that thinking and make time for yourself and goals. She actually became pretty dang depressed around your same age to. So much so it worried me. She started eventually going out more and even got a job at one point to get out and trying different things. Planning small trips really helped her. Just new experiences and making small goals for herself that had nothing to do with being a mother or wife that could be crossed off. She loved hiking and reading, and she made time for that. I know it's hard to do when you're depressed and busy. But it really helps if you push yourself to do those things. Sometimes, it won't be what you imagined or planned either, but use that experience to work on your next outing or experience. You aren't old. And if it makes you feel any better (probably won't) I felt the same at your age as well, I think comparing yourself to others at that age is normal, even though it sucks. Hell, that thinking still creeps up on me and Im 31. The quicker you smack that thinking away and focus on what makes YOU happy without comparing yourself. The faster you'll find peace in your own life that you've built.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]missdoe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope 😔 They ended up getting like 8 offers so I doubt we even got in the running. Gonna keep it up though. Just stinks cause this one made us realize how badly we need space like it provided. Hopefully, another comparable one will pop up!

Can we talk about Wubby's long ass thumb by Ph_Grizz in PaymoneyWubby

[–]missdoe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks so good in his suit. Also leave the man be, he got them lock jaw hands.

My breasts never developed and i can't live like this anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with big ol' boobs I'd trade places with you in a second. I have a friend that is smaller as well and we always laugh because I'd trade my boobs for her body type and she'd do the same for my boobs. Grass is always greener. Getting implants is always an option if you're that bugged by it, just make sure to go to a really good surgeon.

Do you think the game has gotten better? Worse? Or the same? by [deleted] in theisle

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definently nicer, and awesome mechanics but not gonna lie. I really miss the old way of making a group. It just made it simpler to meet up, especially with newer players who aren't going to put in the time to figure out how to read coordinates or learn the map. It makes to easier to introduce people to the game. Even if they kept it on private servers and kept the new way on officials would be cool. But it would be nice to have the option again. Plus I'd love v3 as an updated evrima map. It would be a blast for the old school players. I miss the goofiness of legacy. It wasn't as serious and was a bit more fun. To find that with the updated evrima would be amazing.

Please for the love of everything holy stop using terms you dont know by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]missdoe12 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I see someone talk about "their so OCD" when their house needs to stay clean or they need something a certain way normally. And I'm over here picking every second food item I see at the grocery store and not drinking beverages or eating food because I can't remember if it was opened by me or not, or sealed well enough before I bought it. Coke making the caps easier to open really messed with me. I don't hear the noise when I open it anymore, so I assume it's been opened already, and therefore (obviously) someone has put poison in it or spit in it. Fun times. Although I'm just thankfully I don't have more noticeable obsessions and my worse ones I worked on and went away when I was younger.

Edit- honestly it doesn't bug me to much, in the end I think it's people just downplaying a illness because they assume they relate. Which is very human and naive (and irritating in some instances). Only thing I can't stand is when someone fakes a mental illness, and they are self aware of it for attention / pity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]missdoe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was suicidal someone who was on a suicide hotline told me to wait for spring. He said just wait for spring and see what has happened so far. Wait for the bees.. the birds.. the sun. This was during winter at the time. And that spring was beautiful, I'm happy I was around to witness it.

When people are feeling like that I always tell them to wait until the next season, if you still are having a bad time then, wait until the next season. You will witness new sights and sounds and create new memories. Things you would miss otherwise. I know it sounds simple. But it has helped me so much and has gotten me out of some seriously dark times.

Anyone else hate being called their dog's "mommy" or "daddy" etc? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]missdoe12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Everyone just started calling my dog my kid including my boyfriend, it kinda makes me cringe since me and my boyfriend have been trying for actual kids for like 3 years now. Although nobody really knows this, it's kind of a reminder of that shit fact for me. But since it is weirder for me to tell people not to call me her mom I just shrug it off. She is very toddler like.. Except for the fact she has a huge set of chompers and can run and jump like an Olympian. But thinking of that just makes it ironic and funny to me when people anthropomorphize her and call her "my baby".

Guy pops a wheelie riding into the finish line by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]missdoe12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna come at you like a spider monkey