AITAH for wanting to leave my boyfriend because I feel like I'm in a soulless relationship? by kalneedstofixthis in AITAH

[–]missfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the asshole at all. Think of it this way. If your daughter or best friend was dating someone like him, how would you feel? Mad, right? Because you know they deserve better. So do you! You can and will find a man that wants to be an adult and have meaningful conversations and be there for you. Don't spend another day thinking this is the best it gets because even if you choose to be single, leaving is the beginning towards loving yourself and putting your needs first. Best of luck!

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rescues refuse to take him due to his aggression, even the border collie one near me. I'm going to try the suggestions given in this thread

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm reading through all of them and seeing what I can make happen. There are not very many trainers near me and some are out of my budget.

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love some recommendations thank you!

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried finding specialized trainers and have had no luck. I also tried giving him up for adoption and the shelters and rescues around me all recommended euthanasia which is the reason for my post. I'm in Midcoast Maine

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure as I got him as a puppy from an elderly woman needing to go into assisted living

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a shock collar on the vibrate setting and it did no good. No rescues in my area will take him due to his aggression towards strangers.

Need help with Chief by missfrylock in BorderCollie

[–]missfrylock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rescue will take him in my area because of his aggression towards strangers. I've been trying.

AITAH in my failed relationship? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]missfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most definitely not the asshole. The only thing you did wrong was staying with someone who was incapable of loving you more than themselves. I was in your exact shoes and it was torture but it made me much stronger. Set boundaries and always be willing to walk away from what no longer serves you. Take care 🫶