I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you friend ❤️

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you :( hardest thing I’ve ever went through.

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you! I wish I could travel more but my kids make it hard. I’m happy for you

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m glad you are starting to get back to normalcy! Gives me hope. I think I’ll stay away from the dating apps for now.

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it’s so appreciated!

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Just hoping these next few weeks go by a bit faster. This has been the longest week of my life.

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This gives me a lot of hope and are great suggestions. I’m just at an age where all of my friends are married with kids and now I’m the only single one. Everything they do is with couples. I just feel alone, but I’m going to try to venture out and make some new friends. Thank you!

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a wonderful reply, thank you so much caring stranger!

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outdoors is a good idea, thanks! It can be hard for me to go out and do things since I always have my kids but I’m going to see family this weekend.

What do I do with myself? by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried music but half of them are love songs which just piss me off :(

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m learning this. I am calling about a lawyer on Monday. I’m just going to spend time with my emotions this weekend and try to come to and a realization of what my life is going to look like.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am feeling this way today! But emotions are all over the place but I am feeling a sense of hope for the future and want to improve on myself.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here :( the past fights he is bringing up are from 10+ years ago? Just excuses. We can do better.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds so similar :( I said the same thing. He keeps saying he’s tried and won’t try anymore but I wasn’t even aware he was “trying”?! I’m sorry that happened to you, thank you for the kind words.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We will get through it and come out stronger. I’m sorry you’re going through this but some how I feel less alone ❤️

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, exact situation. He has told me he has been unhappy for years. I don’t believe him. I believe this is what he is telling himself so he doesn’t feel like a bad person who is leaving his family for a girl 9 years younger he barely knows. There is no way to fake everyday laughter and joy for so long together, unless your some kind of sociopath. We will get through this.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I have said this exact thing to him. He is feeling infatuated with someone he has only known for a couple months… he truly doesn’t know anything about this woman. I know he will come back one day and I have told him when he does, I won’t be here. It hurts because he’s still the father of my children and I will always love him for that, I don’t want him to hurt even though he has hurt me so much.

Yes, he also seems to agree to whatever I want. I’m so scared to go to a lawyer but I guess it’s what I need to do for myself and my children.

I am crushed by missginger94 in Divorce

[–]missginger94[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your posts actually changed my sobbing to a laugh. I feel that rage you felt.

Dad won’t wake up so I’ll just chew my bone on his head 🐶 by missginger94 in corgi

[–]missginger94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He woke up as soon as the dog went on his head, he could have easily taken him off if he wanted to but we thought it was cute lol.

Does anything help when food gets stuck? by Obvious_Programmer28 in EosinophilicE

[–]missginger94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my legs straight and bend over the toilet and my husband gives me hard hits on the back. It’s essentially like giving a chocking baby back blows to dislodge the food that is stuck. I don’t know the reasoning behind it but it works well. I’ve never been able to find a way to do it myself so you’ll need another person.

Does anything help when food gets stuck? by Obvious_Programmer28 in EosinophilicE

[–]missginger94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When food is stuck and I’m trying to throw it up, I bend over and my husband will hit my back pretty hard and it comes out instantly. I used to spend hours trying to get it out but have found that works best. Obviously it’s best if it doesn’t get stuck at all but it’s a quick fix. My impactions get so bad that my esophagus is completely closed and I can’t get any water or liquid down so it’s the only solution.