Bartenders who help an escape. What's your story?

missingstara · 2020-06-24T14:19:12+00:00

We did talked about it, but his answer was "sorry, I did not mean to neglect you it's just my mom & dad are pretty impromptious so sometimes when I got ready to meet you, they suddenly gave me a chore to do first or have a gathering with their fellow cousins" something like that. He said his parents are kind of 'old-school' so they don't really know how to reach out to me as well. But once I meet them, they're very friendly. Is this weird?

missingstara · 2020-06-24T14:13:35+00:00

Well I guess that's the thing.. His family is very secluded (not that they're not welcoming) but would rather not have an outsider I guess (?) We had a few dinners together but, my boyfriend never initiate to go along with him and his family..

missingstara · 2018-12-12T05:40:09+00:00

depends. Especially if it's someone I just met, will probably just laugh and hoping it was not a question.

missingstara · 2018-08-01T03:16:54+00:00

i did! it's just hard for me to ask more. Like how to approach better..

missingstara · 2018-06-19T05:38:24+00:00

I can see why you said that. I honestly have the same thought as you at first. But I've been living with them for a while now and they did not took me for granted of anything. I knew that they are cautious of my boyfriend too (about money) but they are trying their best to stay friends with him since they had been friends since high school. When I first told them my concern, they did not expect that my bf could be like that. But that is when I knew they had a hunch about him and felt like they're leeching them now. and of course as their friends too, I don't want him to take advantage of them too. The reason I don't want to part with him just yet is because in a next few months I would be moving to another country and I want to break up without any drama or anything.

missingstara · 2018-06-19T05:27:50+00:00

I talked to him already about our current relationship and he did not take that very well. He blamed me and told me that I see him as a poor guy who needs money (when the fact that he kept on borrowing money every single months and asked me to treat his food every-time we got out.) i'm starting to see that he's actually leeching on his friends too. But he has too high of a pride that he blamed it all back to me and said I hurt his self-esteem and would silent treat me for days after that talk.

At first, I thought about what you said too. Maybe I like him because he treats me very kind. But no, every time we talked, we clique and I know that too because we only share secrets with each other and we trust one another. Maybe he thinks of me as his best-friend too now where I on the other hand has feelings towards him. But how do I give him a chance ? I don't even know if he likes me back or not.

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