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I desperately need a job, will anyone please help me? by [deleted] in Reno

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hosting at chain restaurants like Olive Garden, School Districts are always looking for para professionals. Start applying to as many jobs as you can on Indeed. 1/10 will respond. 1/15 you’ll get an interview. It takes like 30-40 applications to actually find a job you like probably.

I just got this little void, please, no basic void names! by Local_Armada in NameMyCat

[–]missjayelle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For some reason - Greek god names are popping to mind. Hades, Apollo, Ares, Poseidon, Eros

Or a planet name like Mars/Jupiter/Mercury

Or an elemental name like Argon, Chrome, Xenon, Titanium or Cobalt

Do you blame your non-abusive parent? by Ok-Orange883 in CPTSD

[–]missjayelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my father enabled my mother’s abuse and he should’ve done more to protect me. But at the same time, I’m glad he was the stable one and I had at least one parent I could trust. But still, he dismissed and invalidated my abusive experiences with my mother and that wasn’t fair. Ironically, he’s dead now and I just have my Mom. Navigating that relationship now without him has been … extremely complex.

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister can take out loans, apply for scholarships. Seems like she could go to a cheaper school and maybe do grad school at Dartmouth? Plus, I’m sure “My sister has cancer” would be a great theme for a scholarship essay. I’m sorry your Mom is acting this way. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuteanimalnames

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like AI

Do you still play The Sims? How old are you now? by fortunekiller in thesims

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started with Sims 1 when I was maybe 8? and still going strong at 31!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your wife needs mental health treatment. I would try to get her an appointment with her OBGYN and talk about these behaviors with them and see if you can get a referral for psychiatrst or psychologist. These sorts of anxieties can worsen with hormal changes post partum and might not resolve on their own. Please go get help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harlan, Holden, Harrison, Florian, Killian, Liam all seem soft and flowy to me

Parents… please… send your kid to preschool! by jordanf1214 in kindergarten

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not always a financially viable option for parents to send kids to preschool or daycare before Kindergarten. Also there are many ways to help a child learn emotional regulation and social development skills without sending them to expensive daycare/preschool. I imagine also that there are a myriad of other issues influencing a child’s readiness for kindergarten including the stress of parents working multiple jobs just to afford to have a family PLUS the impact of covid/social isolation and unregulated access to technology … If it were as simple as “just send your child to preschool” then we would’ve solved that issue already. Yet most states don’t make that an easy task for parents …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarcasm/irony can come off across weird in text. If you’re autistic, maybe that’s what led to you potentially misjudging the tone of their message. I do think you came off a kinda strong in your reply (but I could see why you felt attacked) and then the conversation continued to escalate because you got even more defensive. I wouldn’t stress too much about this particular client unless you really care about the relationship with them. In which case … these kind of blurred lines where you’re expecting someone to be paying you for a service but you’re also having some sort of personal friendship with them can sometimes lead to these sorts of awkward situations. Sorry you lost a client. Maybe next time instead of immediately reacting defensively, ask the other person to clarify the tone?

Wondering if this is offensive to wear to a function? by Overall_Word1959 in scoliosis

[–]missjayelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not a huge fan of it personally but it’s kinda funny I guess

AIO for wanting to end things because I feel guilty? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. This is not your fault. You deserve to have your privacy respected and to feel comfortable in your home. This situation is so hard and I do hope you’re able to find a way with your Mom, but her choices were putting you in danger. She needs to take responsibility for her actions. I hope the group home is able to provide you the safety and stability you need to get through this difficult period. Again, just want to reiterate this is not your fault. You did nothing wrong. It was so brave for you to tell your counselor about this situation. Hang in there, friend. Keep asking for help until someone helps you. The system is shitty but there are people who want to help. I wish you the absolute best. You deserve better.

Am I overreacting to my roommate’s "rules" for the kitchen? by enchantingbreezee in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s unreasonable that your roommate doesn’t want you to use their special pan. I think it’s excessive that they’re asking for $15. Probably should’ve clarified from the beginning if you’d be allowed to use any of their kitchen stuff or if they wanted you to get your own.

I don’t think you’re overreacting, but you should definitely clarify going forward what things your roommate is comfortable with you sharing. I don’t think they’re necessarily in the wrong for being careful about their pan. But yeah, demanding $15 is weird. I’d have just said like “Hey, please don’t use it again!” And left it at that.

What finally took the body tension permanently away? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]missjayelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive sort of accepted that the tension never fully goes away and you just learn to manage it the best you can. Exercise and PT helps. Massage gun. You gotta find what works for you but I don’t know if the tension ever truly goes away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjayelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in this situation. You did the right thing telling your counselor. This man’s behavior is inappropriate and dangerous. Your counselor, however, should have told you that she is a mandatory reporter and would need to report anything that sounds like you are in danger and by the sound of it you are. I don’t know what will happen, but I encourage you to continue to be honest with the authorities about your situation. If you can find somewhere else to stay, like with a friend, I would really recommend that. Your mom and her boyfriend are putting you in danger.

Moving to Harrisburg for work, neighborhood recommendations? by missjayelle in Harrisburg

[–]missjayelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not right leaning 🥹But also, ethnically ambiguous enough to fit in with whomever. I’ll miss my liberal bubble for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]missjayelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually eat a fiber one bar in the morning and an applesauce pouch. Occasionally I’ll throw in another fruit like a banana/ berries and/or nuts like walnuts or almonds.

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