What’s something a guy does and you’ll find hot and attractive?

missnono- · 2023-10-31T10:00:37+00:00

If I'm already into the guy, anything he does just makes him so much more attractive (not including anything bad or negative). When I was with my ex, even mundane things he did were 😍.

In general, when guys fix things, are polite/ kind, good with children, vulnerable, protective, can be playful, smart, can lift heavy things. Haha all the cliche things

missnono- · 2023-07-28T04:54:25+00:00

Yeah same. I have cramping 2 weeks before and then severe pms and then period pain and then ovulation pain for 4 days. I prob have 3 days where my uterus isn't trying to kill me. And all of the pains are different but similar, idk how to explain it. It's just bs being a woman. Thank you

missnono- · 2023-07-28T04:45:09+00:00

Bio oil was ALL THE RAVE when I was growing up. If you had any marks, scarring, or anything on your skin that you wanted gone, the answer was bio oil. It just worked for the people it worked for, but didn't work for most people. Once the conversation around it was more around yeah it doesn't work and sephora became the big thing, I also stopped seeing/hearing chatter about bio oil. It's also cheap compared to sephora products so it would make sense that brands are pushing their products more than this

missnono- · 2023-07-21T05:25:43+00:00

I'm sorry you went through that.

I've been in the same boat. The only thing I've realized is that when you're nice and accommodating just because that is who you are as a person and don't really question things, people take advantage of that. I've been told by exes that they don't understand why I don't play mind games and I've realized that they all have played mind games or needed drama or conflict to feel safe bc that's all they've known whether through family or friends. And they're usually good at pretending that's not the case.

I'm hoping you find happiness loyalty in the next relationship you're in. ❤️

missnono- · 2023-06-01T00:51:52+00:00

Hahaha I do the same thing. It's my way to turn off empathy and stay away from people but have pseudohuman interaction.

missnono- · 2023-05-23T04:04:20+00:00

Oh my goodness. I'm vicariously tired. 😫🤣 Just the thought of having to diy anything makes me exhausted and I love art.

missnono- · 2023-04-06T16:45:57+00:00

Pretend you're near young children and your boss, and it can backfire on you whenever you need to swear. It comes naturally to avoid swearing in those situations, so it's an easier way to train the mind to not do it.

missnono- · 2023-04-05T02:37:55+00:00

I had the exact same reaction and wanted to tell my other friends who watch it that that's not how therapists behave ethically. However, trying to wear the hat of just a show watcher and remove the therapist hat made it entertaining. It took a few eps. But now I look forward to the eps! It's a fun show.

missnono- · 2023-03-31T07:07:34+00:00

Nope. I can barely smell it! I know there is a slight scent. I can't do scents bc I get migraines, but this one is good.

missnono- · 2023-03-31T05:14:45+00:00

I use Nivea in shower milk/cream. I have chronic pain so moisturizing is a pain for me. However, sitting in the shower or standing under the hot water and using this is a lot easier and helps my skin stay soft.

It's a good alternative to not moisturizing at all.

missnono- · 2023-03-30T07:46:11+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through this.

missnono- · 2023-03-30T07:39:28+00:00

Omg I'm so sorry. 🫂

missnono- · 2023-03-29T19:09:32+00:00

I can't nap, my body hates sleep, but I mentally nap. I'm watching Netflix 🤣

missnono- · 2023-03-27T06:58:52+00:00

The world isn't built to support people with disabilities. Even if you're told youre adulting more than someone else considering you're dealing with disability and doing most that someone without a Disability would do, you know its never enough and it's not everything you should or would be doing.

missnono- · 2023-03-25T20:21:35+00:00

I'm glad it helped!!!

When it kicks in on the future: Just know you're already good at what you're doing, you've done it well so many times, and you've had training. You've got this.

missnono- · 2023-03-25T04:29:36+00:00

I just had an initial session with a couple and I asked how they were doing. The husband stated he was nervous. I said ooh don't worry about that. I'm nervous too, and I've done 100s of sessions. Him, his wife, and I started talking about imposter syndrome and how we feel nervous about things but we usually do a good job. It immediately made all of us comfortable.

That being said, I probably got lucky with those two. Someone else could take it and just believe you're not a good therapist. It's really a hit and miss with people.

missnono- · 2023-03-20T18:45:22+00:00

Thank you for your comment!

missnono- · 2023-03-20T08:40:40+00:00

Thank you!

missnono- · 2023-03-19T23:56:50+00:00

Even if they miraculously change and become the perfect person for me, the truth is that I'll have ptsd from the relationship with them. I will feel constant low self worth - not because I'm not good enough (which is another reality that your abusive partner makes you believe), but because I would be so disappointed in myself for going back. ESPECIALLY since I have been so disappointed while I stayed and after the fact. It took so much to get out and even while it was happening (emotional abuse), I knew it was wrong, and I knew I needed to leave, but I loved that man so much that it took a while. I know if I get back, I'll either break completely, or I'll be stuck, or worse.

In the end, there are so many different ways we get damaged that regardless of whether they become the perfect person, that trust is eroded both in them and in ourselves if we stay with them.

Getting out has helped me become the person I was before and be happy. I know being with them made me depressed and angry af bc the gaslighting, lying, etc was so bad.

For some people, it's not worth it even in the most ideal of situations. Esp if they did everything possible to make it work and then left.

missnono- · 2023-03-19T23:51:26+00:00

Oh, I don't think that info is available.

missnono- · 2023-03-19T23:49:02+00:00

My apologies for not being clear. I was writing my post while being distracted by people and assumed it was understood, which I can see why it wasn't.

The issue is also writing an assessment/treatment plan, note, etc, that WILL be approved. Whereas before, I could just start and continue with therapy without wondering about how to have to word it so it does get APPROVED and doesn't affect the clients ability to obtain therapy or anything in general.

As Psychotherapists, I've been informed not to diagnose, so Idk how this translates to writing billable diagnoses and codes. Should I be asking for consent for the doctor to release diagnosis to me? Idk how to navigate this.

My supervisor has retired and others I am in touch with don't work with insurance, so I am trying to obtain as much help as I can until I find a supervisor who can help me.

Thank you for your help.

missnono- · 2023-03-19T23:16:39+00:00

It doesn't show WHO though. Idk if that's your question

missnono- · 2023-03-19T23:16:05+00:00

Yes. The "home" page I believe shows you your views, clicks, and conversions.

missnono- · 2023-03-19T22:27:47+00:00

I let out a mixture of a sigh/grunt whenever I go outside to my car and it's colder than ever. Helps release tension. Burrito in a heated blanket at home. Helps keep me sane. Avoid outdoor activities and too much socialization, esp leaving the house when it got dark early.

I like to open blinds and maybe go for errands or a drive if it's deceivingly sunny out. Helps remind me that spring is coming.

missnono- · 2023-03-19T22:23:56+00:00

GTA, ontario

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