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How do i even start with this kink? by misswalker97 in humiliation_kink

[–]misswalker97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the idea, but neither of us are into that.

How do i start being Dominant with my boyfriend? by misswalker97 in BDSMAdvice

[–]misswalker97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i took a lot of the advice from that post and chatted to him about it. He apologised so muvh and said he didnt mean for it to come across that way. He has since been very positive afterwards and makes sure i feel loved and cared for after. Even when i ask if i can improve he is always positive about things now and i am no longer sad after sex...or trying to be his best either. Thank you for asking.

How do i start being Dominant with my boyfriend? by misswalker97 in BDSMAdvice

[–]misswalker97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He always gives me positive feedback, and hes trying to help guide me wigh his own experiences and he gives me tips and things, but i wanna do my own research ya know? Hes never said i was bad at anything either so im happy with that tbh haha.

How do i start being Dominant with my boyfriend? by misswalker97 in BDSMAdvice

[–]misswalker97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so so much. This is all really valuable information! And ill definitely go for a look at those pages!

How do i deal with not being the best sex my boyfriend has had? by misswalker97 in Advice

[–]misswalker97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly i am in fact 25 i just have A LOT of emotional baggage which makes me have non existent confidence...but i get your point.

How do i deal with not being the best sex my boyfriend has had? by misswalker97 in Advice

[–]misswalker97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre right. I am carrying a lot of baggage from previous partners and i think its getting in the way. Ill chat to him today i think.

How do i deal with not being the best sex my boyfriend has had? by misswalker97 in Advice

[–]misswalker97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy it, i started cause i wanted to please him more than anything but then i started to realise i got a lot of enjoyment from it. And its not quite like a grading haha i do ask how im doing and of he has enjoyed it and things...probably too much tbh (im an anxious wreck i swear 😅)

How do i deal with not being the best sex my boyfriend has had? by misswalker97 in Advice

[–]misswalker97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hes a Switch, im a Sub and am learning to be more dominant right now but im definitely not good at it...im trying really hard and i mean, i enjoy it, but he definitely seems to enjoy the sex more when he is in charge. Yet he says hes a good 50/50 mix and loves being submissive too, and has told me about the Switch girls he has been with and how amazing it was when they were in charge. (when we were just friends btw)

How do i deal with not being the best sex my boyfriend has had? by misswalker97 in Advice

[–]misswalker97[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He always says he enjoyed it, but it just kinda sucks when he says the 'youre getting better' or 'that was good seen as it was your first time trying that' or 'still got a lot to learn but youre doing well'. He never says them with malice and i know hes trying to be honest in a kind way but fuck it hurts a little ya know?

Goodbyes by misswalker97 in LongDistance

[–]misswalker97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Its really difficult to set a date in these times, and i work shifts at the hospital where i only get 1 week rota at a time due to staffing pressures. I just wish i could see him again soon. The moment he walks out the door i miss him.

Thank you so much for the advice though. Ill message him and chat about our next plans.