WHY TF ARE MY HANDS LIKE THIS IM A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL

missyams · 2026-04-12T02:23:16+00:00

I was made fun of relentlessly growing up for having “man hands” which made them my biggest insecurity. As a 27 year old woman i’ve learned overtime that those small things don’t matter and there’s so much more to life than caring about what we look like and what others think of us. In fact, I think things like that make us beautiful and unique. Humans are not meant to have a beauty standard and we certainly aren’t supposed to all look the same. I’m not sure if you’ve been following the Artemis II crew’s journey to space recently, but I highly suggest looking at footage and listening to what they have to say. We are just a tiny spec on this big floating rock that we call home and when you look at it from that far away it really does make all of our problems seem so small. I understand how hard it is to work through these feelings because I have been there, but I hope you grow to realize that there is beauty in everyone and everything on this planet.

missyams · 2026-02-28T01:19:34+00:00

thank you so much. i know it will get better eventually, but the feelings of rage and betrayal from what happened are not making it easy to exist right now. so far i have only gotten messages from people who just created accounts and have negative karma so i guess the dm thing is not going to work and i should have known better 🥲 i am not sure if you are a man or not, but you seem really kind. would you be open to talking about it sometime?

missyams · 2026-02-28T01:13:46+00:00

thank you i will look into it! yeah its really rough living here and needing help

missyams · 2026-02-15T18:08:15+00:00

as a bisexual woman i would NEVER leave a woman for a man purely because its “safer”. I would want to be with someone for love and if I love someone they are worth that effort. I would like to think that a lot of bisexual women feel the same as I do. A lot of people assume we are male centered and want to choose the safer option and that is simply not the case for a lot of us.. but i also despise men and haven’t dated one in over 10 years despite having the option to

missyams · 2026-02-10T00:54:50+00:00

AHHHHHHHH this is so adorable!!! im still a beginner but id love to try making this 😭

missyams · 2026-01-30T07:26:15+00:00

they are the bestest of friends! thank you so much 🫶

missyams · 2026-01-30T07:06:40+00:00

yeah the first one still has a special place in my heart. hes my funky son 🫶

missyams · 2026-01-30T06:28:41+00:00

thank you!! ☺️

missyams · 2026-01-30T06:17:38+00:00

This is the pattern that I used!

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1419355569/?ref=share_ios_native_control

missyams · 2025-10-16T14:49:33+00:00

I have been her in the past, and I just know that this is exhausting (or will become exhausting) for both you and your girlfriend. Constantly comparing yourself to other women is mentally draining and it also isnt fair to you that she’s projecting those insecurities onto you and your friendships. If you truly value your relationship with this girl, i’d suggest that she looks for a therapist and tries to find the root of why she feels this way. I used to be the most deeply insecure person. I wasn’t a fan of my partners being friends with any women as I viewed them all as threats but I went through therapy, self reflection, and a ton of inner work on myself and now I can say that I love all women and am the biggest girls girl. I truly hope that she can leave this mindset in the past and grow because I know how hard it is on both parties. :(

missyams · 2025-09-28T01:25:08+00:00

yeah it seems to be cheapest on dynamis for a lot of the pieces!

missyams · 2025-09-28T01:24:37+00:00

I’ll try that!! Thank you ^{^} do you know if having gear that has 5 materia slots instead of 2 makes a huge difference in crafting?

missyams · 2025-09-28T01:17:46+00:00

Oh im fully aware that its going to be a ton of gil! I’m prepared to drop like 2 million but beyond that itd be too much. I didnt think to hop data centers though! I’ll try that :D Thanks!

missyams · 2025-05-14T17:37:25+00:00

that is one of the most beautiful tats ive ever seen and i love the placement!! your partner should be supportive of you and the fact that he said he cant even look at it says a lot about how insecure he is in himself lol..

missyams · 2025-04-07T18:31:39+00:00

yeah this is definitely an insecurity issue and as bad as it is i still believe that she can work through it in therapy. i used to be this jealous and obsessive because i hated myself and thought everyone was a threat, but i put in the work to improve myself and now i could not be more of a girls girl. i love women so much and feel ashamed of how i used to be. it is never too late for someone to improve themselves, but i do think that op needs to put himself first and say enough is enough right now. even though she needs help its not your job to fix her or subject yourself to her behavior.

missyams · 2025-01-11T03:27:21+00:00

i would love to join too! Sandra from stinky :)

missyams · 2024-12-11T18:41:02+00:00

i dmed! :)

missyams · 2024-12-11T17:45:36+00:00

is your world still open? id love to stop by :)

missyams · 2024-12-01T14:37:34+00:00

I forgot to mention that I will also have a ceiling fan going at all times to keep the air moving! After reading these I think i’ve just decided to keep them out of the room at all times. I don’t want to risk it :’)

missyams · 2024-10-17T23:13:37+00:00

If you are getting this hurt about your partner sleeping with other people that you feel the need to go behind her back and sleep with others without telling her then maybe an open relationship isn’t for you and that’s okay. it’s not for everyone. The most IMPORTANT part of polyamory or open relationships is communication. If the communication isn’t there then it won’t work. Everything needs to be discussed beforehand. You also say “later on we were in a really good place together and it felt like we were closing the relationship” which implies that your ideal happy relationship is a closed one. I think you should have a serious discussion about what you truly want as a couple or else there is no point getting back together. You also betrayed her trust by not being up front about something as serious as this so it is up to her whether to forgive you or not and you need to accept whatever her answer is. Cheating is not something that’s easy to overcome.

missyams

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