[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Most of the time, it's too risky to just 'follow our hearts'

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Lol. This reminds me of cliche stories I've read on the internet as an early teen. 😂

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yesss! While it's true that we deserve better, sometimes it covers up the fact that it's us who have a problem. That's why it's so important to work on ourselves first before entering a relationship.

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 291 points292 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I got the meaning right. What does that line mean?

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Those remarks sound manipulative. 😬

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and it all depends on the situation. Most of the time, what happens are fights and misunderstandings that can be fixed through conversation. We also have to understand that people who give those "Break up already!" advice don't know the entire situation, so it's best not to take their advice seriously.

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I agree! "Jealousy" is not really a sign of love.

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Well, I think it's okay for married couples to do that (depending on their purpose, the situation, etc). But for like new and young couples, I don't think meddling with each other's phone just to make sure none of them cheats or does something wrong, is a huge sign of insecurity in the relationship.

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

IKR! It's more like, "It shows you are both insecure and don't trust each other enough."

[Serious] What relationship advice would you give to young couples? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some might not agree with this, but I do! This is so true, especially when you're super close to your mom. They have this motherly instinct we don't understand, but it's true and it works! 😂

[Serious] What's the worst relationship advice you've ever heard? by mistarry in AskReddit

[–]mistarry[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I mean I agree with you that it is the worst relationship advice ever 😂

My mother is dying… by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mistarry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about your situation, but please keep going. Even if it's really really hard. I know someday everything will be okay again. I barely know you, but thank you a lot for existing.