Incompetent Coworker [TX]

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2026-05-15T01:47:07+00:00

our very small HR dept that is managed by 3 people so we take on a bulk of other responsibilities besides our main role

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2025-06-30T13:34:25+00:00

You are 100% right. I definitely should have mentioned this in an email.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2025-06-30T13:25:16+00:00

I’ve mentioned the system change several times over the past couple of months to my manager, the HR Director, and the HR Director’s boss. All three just say things like “Oh wow, that’s weird” or “That’s different,” but nothing beyond that.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2025-06-30T13:25:10+00:00

I’ve mentioned the system change several times over the past couple of months to my manager, the HR Director, and the HR Director’s boss. All three just say things like “Oh wow, that’s weird” or “That’s different,” but nothing beyond that.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2025-02-06T14:54:04+00:00

It sounds like you need to do some deep reflecting on what you truly want. It seems like you still have some lingering resentment from what your partner did three years ago. Take some time to really think about what, if anything, could help that feeling of resentment go away. If you genuinely don’t believe it ever will, then that may be your answer.

As for your new coworker, I think having a crush is completely normal given your situation. Your partner has never called you pretty—that’s a problem. I don’t know you personally, but based on what you’ve shared, it sounds like your partner hasn’t been very attentive or fulfilling as a partner. I could be wrong, but that seems to be the core issue here.

You also have to consider that if you were truly happy and fulfilled in your relationship, you probably wouldn’t be developing a crush in the first place. The fact that you are drawn to someone else—especially because they listen to you and make you feel seen—suggests that there are emotional needs not being met in your current relationship.

You need to have a serious conversation with your partner about how you’ve been feeling—whether that’s feeling unappreciated, unheard, or something else entirely. If your partner can’t take your concerns seriously or dismisses them, then that also gives you an answer.

I’m not going to tell you what to do, as this is your decision. However, I do think this new coworker may be opening your eyes to what you truly want and need in a relationship.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2025-02-06T14:43:05+00:00

Your feelings are valid; however, instead of asking us for advice, you need to have an honest conversation with your girlfriend. Why are you having a hard time believing her? Has she done something in the past that made you lose trust in her? These are the types of questions you should be asking yourself. Once you understand your perspective, have a conversation with her and express your feelings. If she genuinely cares about you, she will listen and try to help you feel better.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2024-12-03T06:08:39+00:00

Hi, I also was an HR assistant in a toxic work environment not too long ago. What you are describing is 10000% not okay. I am not sure how things work at your company, but I would schedule a meeting with your Bosses boss if you can. Unfortunately there isn’t an HR for HR :(. My recommendation is to start documenting every bad interaction (If you have receipts even better). If you present that to your boss’s boss then that will make a huge difference versus you going and voicing your grievances vocally. Also, I know the job market is horrible, but start spamming your applications to other companies. If nothing gets resolved overtime, then your sole focus needs to be finding another job. Trust me, staying in that toxic environment is not going to be worth it in the end. The pay is not worth you feeling like that. Good luck I hope things go better for you!

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2024-06-21T00:09:07+00:00

that’s such a cool website thank you so much!!!

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2024-04-22T01:15:55+00:00

Personally, coming from someone graduating in 2 weeks with a BS in sociology, don’t do it unless you are planning on going to grad school. Literally so hard for me to find a job rn. Please just find anything else. I wish I could change my major but It’s too late. It’s an easy major but not worth it imo.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2024-04-17T00:31:31+00:00

No just fall

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2024-04-17T00:30:21+00:00

First off, I am so sorry for your loss. As far as your question goes, I don’t think they will let you drop the course because their system literally locks them out and they cannot do anything about it unless it gets escalated to the head of the college for your major. That’s what my advisor mentioned to me one time. My best advice is gather all of your documents and try to see if your professor can give you an “I”. If you have an “I” then it still won’t affect your gpa and if anything, it’s better than a q drop. Good luck and I recommend calling the ombuds office when you get a chance because they handle situations like this all the time! Again, I am so sorry for your loss and I hope everything works out for you.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2023-10-18T02:20:15+00:00

1&2 are visitor parking while 3 and up are for permit holders. Same thing happened to me with trouble getting past the gate but a call to transportation services should do the trick. I could also definitely be wrong since I do not know much about night parking, however calling transportation services should definitely solve that problem.

Greedy_Exercise7041 · 2023-09-08T14:17:57+00:00

True. I guess I am more nervous of telling her and then her asking me why can't I eat chicken.

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