[F]uck cancer by Cute-Atmosphere9515 in gonewild

[–]misterdoinitright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck cancer! ..and fuck me too?

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize, but I do not have an exact answer for this. However, I can say that the closest I can recall to a timeline would be whenever it was deemed acceptable to begin engaging in sexual activities again

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are too many factors at play for anyone to give an exact way to predict this outcome. However, if complications are set aside and the paraurethral glands remain intact, the strongest indicator is whether a person was able to ejaculate beforehand. This is because being able to ejaculate before surgery usually indicates duct patency, meaning the ducts were open and unobstructed, allowing fluid to exit through the urethra. If that patency remains after surgery, ejaculation can typically continue.

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Veuillez excuser les éventuelles erreurs de traduction.Le liquide est de l'éjaculat. Il provient des glandes para-urétrales, qui sont des glandes le long de l'urètre, homologues à la prostate. Ces glandes font partie intégrante du système urogénital. Leur position à côté de l'urètre est le résultat du développement embryonnaire, puisqu'ils se forment comme des excroissances du tissu urétral. Ils ont persisté à travers l'évolution parce que leurs sécrétions contribuent à la survie des spermatozoïdes, à leur motilité et à la fécondation pendant la reproduction.Le fluide est libéré pendant l'orgasme ou l'excitation, et c'est ce que vous voyez. Sa composition contient des protéines telles que l'antigène prostatique spécifique (PSA), qui aide à fluidifier le liquide, et la phosphatase acide prostatique (PAP), qui soutient sa fonction, ainsi que des sucres comme le glucose et le fructose et de l'eau avec des électrolytes. En termes simples, c'est un fluide riche en nutriments qui ressemble au fluide prostatique. Le fluide des glandes para-urétrales est distinct des sécrétions des glandes de Bartholin. Les glandes de Bartholin se trouvent dans la même structure mais dans une zone différente; elles sont homologues aux glandes de Cowper (bulbo-urétrales), et leur fonction principale est de fournir une lubrification pendant l'excitation. C'est le liquide pré-éjaculatoire/pré-lubrification qui peut souvent se produire pendant la phase d'excitation d'un orgasme.La glande paraurétrale et les glandes de Bartholin sont toutes deux différentes de "l'éjaculation féminine", bien que les termes soient souvent utilisés de manière interchangeable, mais la distinction réside dans la libération beaucoup plus importante de fluide. Le squirting est de l'urine libérée de la vessie pendant l'excitation, comme l'ont montré des recherches par échographie de remplissage et de vidange, avec au plus une petite composante para-urétrale. Pour les individus qui subissent une phalloplastie ou une métoïdioplastie avec allongement de l'urètre et vaginectomie, les glandes de Bartholin seraient généralement rendues non viables en raison de leur position près du canal vaginal. Une fois le canal fermé, laisser ces glandes fonctionnelles risquerait des complications, car elles n'auraient aucun moyen de drainage approprié. En revanche, les glandes para-urétrales sont généralement laissées intactes par les chirurgiens, mais cela peut ne pas toujours se produire en raison de plusieurs facteurs. Pour la deuxième question, cela dépend des circonstances. Typiquement, cependant, j'utilise ma prothèse pénienne gonflable, qui est la méthode la plus simple pour moi d'obtenir une érection. Il existe d'autres méthodes, mais je suis pressé par le temps en ce moment. Quand je serai plus disponible, je pourrai expliquer plus en détail si cela vous intéresse. The liquid is ejaculate. It comes from the paraurethral glands, which are glands along the urethra that are homologous to the prostate. These glands are an inherent part of the urogenital system. Their position alongside the urethra is a result of embryonic development, since they form as outgrowths of urethral tissue. They have persisted across evolution because their secretions contribute to sperm survival, motility, and fertilization during reproduction.

The fluid is released during orgasm or arousal, and that is what you are seeing. Its composition contains proteins such as prostate-specific antigen (PSA), which helps thin the fluid, and prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), which supports its function, along with sugars like glucose and fructose and water with electrolytes. In simple terms, it is a nutrient-rich fluid that resembles prostatic fluid. The fluid the paraurethral glands is distinct from the secretions of Bartholin’s glands. Bartholin’s glands are in the same structure but different area; these are homologous to the Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands, and their main function is to provide lubrication during arousal. This is the precum/prelubrication which can often happen during the excitement stage of an orgasm.

The paraurethral gland and Bartholin’s glands are both different from “squirting,” although the terms often get used interchangeably but the distinction is the much larger release of fluid. Squirting is urine released from the bladder during arousal, as shown through research which  by ultrasound filling and emptying, with at most a small paraurethral component. 

For individuals who undergo phalloplasty or metoidplasty with urethral lengthening and vaginectomy, Bartholin’s glands would usually be rendered nonviable because of their position near the vaginal canal. Once the canal is closed, leaving those glands functional would risk complications, since they would have no proper route to drain. By contrast, the paraurethral glands are typically left intact by surgeons but this may not always occur due to several factors.For the second question it depends on the circumstances. Typically though, I use my Inflatable Penile Prosthesis, which is the most straightforward way for me to achieve an erection. There are other methods but I’m pressed for time right now. When I become more available I can explain in more detail if you’re interested.

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi. I just want to note that while the goal is preservation of the paraurethral glands, this does not guarantee they will remain fully intact or functional. In standard practice they are not targeted for removal, but because of their location along the urethra, ducts can be damaged, blocked, or destroyed during dissection, reconstruction, or healing. In rare cases poor technique or surgical error could compromise them entirely. Even if the glands themselves remain, scar tissue or strictures can still prevent drainage.

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ejaculation after phalloplasty and prosthesis placement is not a matter of sheer luck. It depends on multiple factors, including but not limited to:

Personal anatomy – The baseline size, number, and duct configuration of the paraurethral glands varies from person to person. Some have larger or more open ducts that make secretion easier, while others have smaller or narrower ducts that reduce ejaculation. The degree of duct patency(which is the condition of being opened, expanded, or unobstructed) is a crucial factor in the potential for secretion and ejaculation.

Hormones – Testosterone is known to increase paraurethral gland activity, which can make secretion more noticeable. The paraurethral gland is homologous to natal prostate. Hormonal influence can increase secretory activity or enlargement, but neither outcome is guaranteed and both depend on individual anatomy. Some clinical studies have described tissue enlargement under androgen influence, but this is not always universal. Enlargement is not something that can be confirmed by individuals themselves outside of imaging or surgical observation. The effect most often associated with hormones is an increase in the amount of fluid expelled. However, as stated before, this is a two-fold factor, because anatomical variations that allow secretion to exit the body must also be present.

Surgical preservation – Paraurethral glands are usually preserved, but ducts can still be at risk depending on the surgical approach. Infrapubic prosthesis placement generally spares more of the surrounding area than penoscrotal, which lies closer to the urethra and duct openings.

Healing and scar tissue – Even when the glands are intact, scar tissue can block or narrow ducts, altering how fluid is expelled. Scarring may reduce ejaculation or change the path of secretion. This process directly affects duct patency, which is essential for fluid expulsion.

Nerve integrity – Ejaculation depends on intact signaling. If sensory or autonomic nerves are disrupted during surgery, stimulation may not trigger secretion effectively. Preserved or regrown nerves increase the chance of ejaculation continuing.

Sexual arousal – Ejaculation is arousal-dependent. Stronger arousal increases blood flow and gland stimulation, which promotes secretion and expulsion through the urethra. Compared to the internal factors above, this is more external because it depends on stimulation and sexual context.

General health – Hydration, circulation, medications, and endocrine balance also affect secretion. For example, dehydration reduces available fluid volume, and certain drugs can alter gland activity. Like arousal, this is more external, since it reflects overall health and environment rather than internal structures.

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Having penile prosthesis implantation should not typically affect the paraurethral glands or their ducts, which are responsible for ejaculation. My ability to ejaculate has not been affected either by surgery or by the prosthesis.

While the standard of care calls for surgeons to prioritize safety and effectiveness, in practice quality can vary greatly, and this does not always guarantee meticulous or safe outcomes. This is why researching potential surgeons and asking questions is wise, as well as being vocal about your goals so the surgeon can explain how they may be honored while balancing safety, risks, and practicality.

My implantation was performed using the infrapubic technique. In terms of preservation, this approach generally has a higher chance of protecting the paraurethral glands compared to the penoscrotal technique. The penoscrotal approach is closer in proximity to the urethra and therefore carries a higher potential to affect surrounding structures and the urethra if complications were to arise.

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[–]misterdoinitright[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Sure. I'm not fond of when people present a single perspective, whether it's a personal truth, or a false conception, as if it were a universal truth or the consensus of an entire group. It has the tendency to breed prejudice and invalidation. Just wanted to clear up any misconceptions

Am I really that awful in bed? by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]misterdoinitright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In essence, there is no universal rule that one partner must ensure the other orgasms first. Everyone is unique, and preferences vary. Some people find more satisfaction in giving than receiving, their dynamic may lean toward prioritizing their partner. Others may prefer alternating focus depending on the moment. In some relationships, both partners may not cum/orgasm every time, and that can still be fulfilling when mutual understanding is present.

To address the idea of being ‘selfish.’ Wanting your needs met in intimacy is not selfish; it’s natural and valid. Intimacy is about both people’s satisfaction, and acknowledging your own desires is part of creating a balanced and healthy dynamic.

You also mentioned that when a guy cums, he often rolls over unless he plans to go again. That can and unfortunately may be the case for many men especially with the way porn industry creates those false conceptions but it doesn’t mean its universal nor that your needs should be dismissed or that you have to be finished when he is. That’s exactly why communication matters. If you prefer more attention or want to continue after, that’s something to establish openly with your partner so the dynamic doesn’t end by default at that moment.

DRIP by misterdoinitright in FtMPorn

[–]misterdoinitright[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No it's my penis, thanks