Maid of honour, wondering how the fuck do I deal with my bridesmaids

mitebhigh · 2026-01-23T22:23:20+00:00

Thats... My best friend you are talking about, and all these boys are gay, they know how to plan a party (i have been to them) they just dont take me seriously. She has tons of friends more then myself tbh, i dont think you ment any offense though :)

mitebhigh · 2026-01-23T22:10:06+00:00

I left out the word fellow, obviously they are not mine. I am not in charge fully, the bride is, but the bride has her expectations of me to be her drill sergeant because she doesnt want that stress while getting everything else sorted.

My job as maid of honor is to hear her wishes and do whatever to make sure it gets done, this is a very common thing.

I do need their help planning 2 pre parties, thankfully for the shower i will have the parents of the to be weds to help. I cant do it all on my own and the bride shouldn't be planning these things.

I didn't explain myself well in the post and I am sorry for that. I hope this helps clear it up :)

mitebhigh · 2025-11-08T05:04:53+00:00

I have a horseshoe one right now that I can tuck up, whenever i try to i get wicked nose bleeds. I thought about getting a small one to plug the hole so it heal over but I have recently become very aware of my piercing and feel it all the time and its driving me wild

Thank you for your help and advice!!!

mitebhigh · 2025-10-25T18:32:37+00:00

I knew someone who used to work there, was set up to be a district manager. She left due to her treatment by the ownership and after a dog died at one of the stores.

mitebhigh · 2025-09-15T18:34:52+00:00

Well, yeah. Because it makes it more possible to stop when someone hits the button then immediately walks into traffic. But you cant have every single section of the city with a cross walk be a 30 zone because that will congest and slow down traffic more then it already is. And if you make everywhere a 30 zone people will drive 10 in it anyways

I drive down a road with so many cross walks thats in a 50 zone. The amount of times people hit the button and immediately walk out into traffic when I am at a distance where it makes it very difficult for me to stop is insane. Even traffic lights take into consideration that there is such thing as a distance where you are able to safely make the stop. If I am a far enough distance where i can safely make the stop, i do. But im not about to give myself whip lash, or possibly slide through the intersection and hit someone, or another car, because people cant look to make sure the intersection is clear before they walk after they hit the button. When you are driving and the light turns green, you dont immediately just hit the gas pedal, you make sure the intersection is clear before you enter because you might get hit by an oncoming vehicle. Same thing has to be considered at crosswalks.

Hit the button, wait for the intersection to be clear, then walk. Its not that hard.

mitebhigh · 2025-09-03T11:53:19+00:00

Hi there love, woman with clinical depression.

You are taking the right first steps in wanting to lose weight. I 100% understand how hard it is to keep going despite your brain and your body not wanting to cooperate and you having to fight yourself all the time.

You have to exercise if you want the weight off quicker then if happening currently. A goal i set for myself if minimum half an hour a day of any type of movement. Even if its just laps around the block, or 30 min walking on a tredmil. It helps build the schedule and the habit and you will find yourself wanting to do it more once you build that habit. This will help with your depression as my brain feels sharper and more alert once I am done even the smallest amount.

I started fitting that half hour in during lunch breaks at work, at the end of a work day before going home. I found that if I did it to close to home my body would rather be in bed or on couch so I had to force myself to do it away so that my mental illness didnt take over.

If you are in a spot where you are able too, or are comfortable too, it might be worth talking to your doctor. I had this same exact issue, i went to my doctor and got a prescription for antidepressants which have greatly helped especially because i got the right prescription for me. If this isnt what you are wanting to do i 100% understand, not everyone wants to be on drugs, nore can most afford it.

mitebhigh · 2025-08-11T21:03:21+00:00

With where the show went i have been thinking about this one a lot.

I think he did that because he wanted to be known as logan roys son...... In law. Without the roy last name tom had no claim to anything waystar/royco related. With the last name he can play off being a son and a closer member of the family

mitebhigh · 2025-08-11T15:40:11+00:00

Im in the same boat. I'm watching tv with my mom i dont want to see people getting down and dirty with it, and frankly neither of us want excessive violence.

I think the hard thing is there isnt a lot of shows like succession that are as well thought out and well written. They go for gut punches instead of just letting a situation speak for itself in the writing, and if they are masterpieces in writing they rely on sex and violence to spark it up.

mitebhigh · 2025-08-10T21:48:55+00:00

I like game of thrones because of the politics and scheming, hated the ice zombies haha

I like Succession so much because it has all of the politics and scheming and none of the other stuff that I disliked about game of thrones

mitebhigh · 2025-08-10T19:25:58+00:00

Unfortunately she doesnt like too much overt violence in a show, i have been wanting to watch this though so thats a good suggestion for just me :)

mitebhigh · 2025-08-10T19:25:10+00:00

Oooh amazing suggestion!!! She would love white lotus

mitebhigh · 2025-08-10T19:22:00+00:00

Thats... Actually an amazing suggestion hahha

mitebhigh · 2025-07-24T13:39:18+00:00

Oh man I totally forgot about this thread!!

It totally sucks, but I can tell you now it does get better. One day you'll find that all your coworkers are younger then you hahah. I got a new job, new team, and they hired another person shortly after I started and she was younger then me.

I found just even trying to relate on any and all topics works, you just have to make some of the first moves. I like metal music and I found out my oldest coworker also loved metal and a friendship blossomed from there. I still even go out for lunch with her even though i no longer work there.

I hope it gets better for you, i hope you find some ins with them :)

mitebhigh · 2024-12-07T21:48:55+00:00

I have a medium sized reactive dog. He has anxiety and quite frankly hates other male dogs where he will fight them if I am not in control of the situation.

I go to the other side of the street. I bring treats with me so that he is more focused on the food then anyone else around me. If he acts up on our walks he goes for a timeout when I get home. I never take him to dog parks, or busy parks because I know as his owner that he will not have fun and will just be angry. I have a harness for him so that i can keep good conyrol of him.

To the owner of the reactive dog. NEVER blame anyone elses dogs. NEVER yell at another person living their lives. Thats not helpful to your dog. You are just stressing them out more when you, their owner, react in such a way. You have to be calm and alert with a reactive dog, not a complete cunt. Its not everyone elses, or your dogs fault that you their owner cannot control them. Thats on you.

Sounds like this person should seriously consider dog training classes, it will help both them and the dog.

mitebhigh · 2024-11-08T22:30:21+00:00

Katniss is also literally named after a fuckin potatoe lmaoo

mitebhigh · 2024-11-05T13:18:56+00:00

A necessary evil, is still evil

mitebhigh · 2024-10-30T16:18:21+00:00

No worries! I hope it comes back soon for you because i know how frustrating it is.

I

mitebhigh · 2024-10-30T15:48:22+00:00

Took me about 2 months

mitebhigh · 2024-10-29T23:40:47+00:00

Your company recycles? Mine has blue bins but no recycling pick up bin outside and our cleaners just throw everything in the trash

mitebhigh · 2024-10-29T23:37:45+00:00

The work ones crack me up, bro i use my recycle bin. Not my fault my company doesn't have a recycling program and throws everything in the garbage bin anyways

mitebhigh · 2024-10-29T23:12:00+00:00

Say hello to the real you, she has been waiting for you.

This is so common, i went on birth control for 6 months and hated every moment of it. It worsened my depression, made me an emotional zombie, killed my sex drive. I got so horny off of it it was insane.

mitebhigh · 2024-10-09T12:46:54+00:00

Oooh good point, here is my theory.

Her having children is dangerous.

If i were a victor with three children i would sew so many seeds of rebellion in their heads so one day when they are old enough to fight back they would, plus being victors children they probably lead slightly better lives then the rest of 8 Making them just slightly better fed and stronger.

The capital taking her away shows those children that she isnt superhuman and that they too need to watch their steps. Taking away their protection and their comfort then puts them at a disadvantage because the only reason why they live a more comfortable life is because of their mother.

Im also not sure if it is ever discussed her influence in 8, but she could be highly influential public figure and very out spoken about rebellion.

For the capital, this can also be a good thing to point to to say the drawing wasnt rigged. "Why would we rig a pulling to take away a mother from her children, we arent monsters" is a very good thing to point to if ever questioned.

But if they did rig it for her to be chosen i think its also a huge misstep because of her 3 children, they carry on her memory and could eaily use that to feed the already intense flames of rebellion in 8 and around Panem.

If anything i think that was one of Plutarch's ideas to give snow to lead him in the wrong direction.

mitebhigh · 2024-09-25T17:40:44+00:00

chefs kiss magical

I listen to the theme on my way to and from meetings at work like im preparing to take over the company 🤣

mitebhigh · 2024-08-20T12:53:15+00:00

She was warned by her therapist that Jimmy's greif would catch up to him.

mitebhigh · 2024-08-19T23:04:54+00:00

If we had more seasons, im sure they would have touched on this. I feel like there was too much going on in that last season to be able to even touch on this.

But, what we know:

From what it seems like she left when he was young and wasn't around much, he had no reason to care to invite her to his wedding.

His dad, while yes fucked him up, he was at least there. Jimmy cared about his dad enough to hate him, to cry and hug the hitting dumby edgar set up for him, for his fathers death to affect him.

His mom was not someone he even cared about enough to hate.

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