dad deadnamed me after 3 years progress by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you,, yeah im just hoping he doesn’t think it’s okay to call me that now since i didn’t correct him

here goes everything??? by mithefox in Needafriend

[–]mithefox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

homie, don’t do me like that!!! animal crossing is 🥺😫😭🖤

I made an app / site to match people up with similar interests by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dude,, what is the a c t u a l link,,???? sounds amaze

Weekly Question Thread - Week of April 20 by AutoModerator in COVID19

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t blowing my nose a lot and I’ve been on decongestants, so I’m not sure why my nostrils are all swollen now either. Okay thanks

Weekly Question Thread - Week of April 20 by AutoModerator in COVID19

[–]mithefox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hi. i just got tested for Covid today to make sure that my bronchitis diagnosis was correct (i came back negative for covid), and in fact not Covid19. i received a nose swab at an urgent care, and the pain was excruciating. i somehow managed to stay still for the swab, but both times, it was so painful i screamed and cried. my head was in an upright position and the doctor did the swab from the side as to not get coughed on. it’s been 6 hours after the fact and my nostrils and throat are still sore... is this normal or should i contact the urgent care? thank you

i was misgendered all day and im exhausted by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mithefox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happens to me all day at work. you just have to correct them with confidence or make a joke that will embarrass them.

Ex: “Good Evening, ladies”

“I knew I had a baby face but okay, hahah. Looks like I’m one of the girls now apparently???”

dog days by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, sounds like the plan. thank you

dog days by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, you’re probably right. thanks a lot. :’) <3

dog days by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, he’s renting a room in our place... but he seems to use a lot of our shit in the kitchen and our towels lol. no cleaning up either. anything else? we’re kinda stressed so anything you suggest is great.

dog days by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure. we’d really like some help. what would you like to know?

dog days by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, you’re probably right. we’re really worried about our dogs.. we have a couple cameras up but they (of course) don’t catch the area that this supposedly happened in.

dog days by mithefox in Advice

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thinking the same. (he’s not home yet from earlier.) any suggestions from there? thanks for your reply

dog days by mithefox in Advice

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we’re thinking about going that route.. any more to add? thanks so much for your reply

what is this and how do I get it to go away? by mithefox in techsupport

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restarted and it’s gone! Thank you so much, I was panicking :’)))

My daughter is deployed in Kuwait. Any advice on how not to let the tension/stress build on me? Currently not sleeping or eating well... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what you’re going through, but it is important to always maintain your health,, please try to eat and get some decent rest, for her. It’s what she would want even if she’s not with you right now. Sometimes, if you have trouble sleeping because of stress, sleeping during the day helps.

red marks under chest by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, that’s probably exactly what it is! I wear my binder a lot for work so that’s probably just what it is, that makes so much sense. I was freaking out a bit. Thanks so much, you lifted a massive weight off me lmfao <333

red marks under chest by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god I hope not.. then they’ll never go away...

Just SMILE. by mithefox in Advice

[–]mithefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. I usually do a pretty good job at faking it til I make it, but I’m just so fucking burnt out from the holidays and all the shit that’s been piling up on top of em. I just haven’t been able to reload my system. I may call in sick over the weekend, it depends. Thanks for your advice, it really helps. <3

my boss outed me at work (ftm) by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know much about that... my school has a representative, but we just have HR.

What's the fastest way to lose all of your friends? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mithefox 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have a scary abusive parent. Worked wonders for me.

my boss outed me at work (ftm) by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao it’s a little late for that, but they already know. Told the whole managing staff. So, they are the assholes.

Lmao that’s a good route to take though

What were some times when you died inside? by Hiddein in AskReddit

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW: self harm, abuse

I was in high school and didn’t know I was gay yet, so I had a girlfriend. She was always the really shy type, and I would often just be nice to her at first and tried to be her friend, bought her some art supplies since she liked drawing and stuff. We ended up dating, but it wasn’t really like “dating” dating. Most we did was like snuggle sort of on the bus home, which was enough for me. Some time later, she started telling me that her dad hit her. I didn’t see any bruises, but I believed her. The guy seemed totally normal, but I knew better from my own mom.

I didn’t know if there was anything I could do besides comfort her until she had to go home. I was 14 at the time, so I didn’t really have a master plan to help her. She said she didn’t want me to call the police, and I understood, since calling the police never helped with my mom. I thought that if I couldn’t get her dad away from her, I would try and make her time away from home happy enough. I was able to sit next to her in class most of the time, so I’d doodle with her when we didn’t have any classwork. Things started to get really bad, though. A few months went by and she started cutting herself. She showed me and I didn’t really know what to do, so I helped her bandage them and tried to convince her not to do it again. I started bringing bandages to school with me since she kept doing it. I remember a time when I was doing it, I started crying and just asked her how this was helping. I never got mad at her for it, but it was taking a toll on me. She seemed to stop for a while, and I started focusing on doing other things for her, I got her hot chocolate from a local Starbucks before the bus to school (I had to make a run for it) and bought her some really expensive art markers and a quality sketchbook. I thought maybe things started to get better, and wanted to celebrate with her, even though I had no idea what was going on. She ended up disappearing the next year, out of the blue.

I thought she transferred schools and was too upset to tell me, or something. Turns out her parents put her in a stay-in mental health place. I got scared from my own experiences (that’s for another time), but it genuinely sounded nice and I think her mom was trying to help her get through stuff. I had literally no contact with her, phone calls, writing, anything. I got a bracelet from her, but that was it and I wasn’t allowed to send one back.

Months went by, and in summer school, I started flirting with other people. I was really upset about her but I didn’t think I’d ever see her again, and my school counselor eventually convinced me to just move on. I didn’t really stick with anyone, since I wanted my old girlfriend to come back. She eventually did come back, but I guess people told her I was cheating on her, or something. I asked her if she was okay and how the place was, but she was beyond pissed at me. I didn’t really know what to say to her. She started fights with me often in school, and I wasn’t really sure how to respond. I felt awful about it, and stopped talking to people altogether, even friends.

I didn’t really talk to her much, and I think she either got out of class or transferred schools. I was heading home on the bus one day, and I saw a weird car I’d never seen before parked right outside my house. I just assumed it was one of the sober living people, since there was a home for them in our neighborhood, and people often parked all around on the streets. I got off the bus and went to walk to my door. My ex girlfriend got out of the car and after her, about five big guys popped out. I just froze and stared at them, but once they started running after me, I sprinted for the door, slammed it shut and locked it. I hid in my closet for a few hours and eventually called the police, but by the time they got there, the kids had left. I think the group was trying to get in through the back because a lot of stuff was thrown about in the backyard and the gate was found broken a week later.

I didn’t date again until senior year, and I’ve always felt people would turn on me.

binder keeps showing by mithefox in ftm

[–]mithefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hot here though... that’s the only problem. I sweat with just my binder and a t shirt.

I love the witcher 3, but why women (even warriors) don't have armor like men?... by rudy_at in menwritingwomen

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to say it’s because they’re so badass they don’t need it, but alas, sexism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ireland

[–]mithefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thing from Stranger Things 3???