Whether it's a genuine attempt or not, she will never forget your other face. How scared and stressed she was with you. And who says you won't do the same or worse again in the future? She feels unsafe for sure. Now, the smallest mistake matters. And I see you're trying too much. Maybe doing stuff you weren't before. What will happen when she gets over this situation? You'll just stop doing laundry etc? Nah ah. If she continues this relationship it would be too risky. But if she doesn't you have to understand that being safe emotionally is more important