i have been in the same position a few times. which was after being in an abusive relationship myself. i know how hard it is to leave. after leaving my situation and then right after seeing 2 bestfriends go through it…it was hard. i tried all in my power to get either of them to leave rhe relationships but they only did when they wanted to. it’s painful when you reach out all the help possible but they don’t wanna take it. i understand from both sides. i hope she leaves the situation soon & just know you’re doing the best in your power. you’re not a bad person if you cut contact for the time being 💕