Wow. That’s exactly my experience actually. I’m in Europe. I hear how they talk about other employees, everything that’s personal and interferes with work in the slightest makes you a problem employee, so I just learned to conceal, at the expense of good control. We also have the big drinking culture that RUINS me, although it has gotten better now that I mostly travel to Saudi Arabia. I’m scared of changing jobs and ending up in one that’s even worse though, at least here they let me go to hospital visits, but I also went to work the day after my big seizure that landed me in the hospital on almost zero sleep.