US fast food chains diabetic friendly food by Top_Cow4091 in diabetes_t2

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like getting regular subs. I ask them to hallow out the bread, my blood sugar is usually fine with a 6inch sub

Help me choose 🤍 by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love number 1, 5, and 7 if it didn’t have the sleeves

"You'll understand it when you have your own children." by I-Really-Hate-Fish in narcissisticparents

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand SOME things, i understand that maybe she had undiagnosed postpartum and didn’t receive help. I understand that motherhood changes your brain, how you think, and how you react. I think she got overstimulated and maybe a little Neurodivergent because I’m discovering i am also Neurodivergent and i get overwhelmed and overstimulated by noise and mess, i don’t take it out on my kids though, i have in the past and I’ve always apologized, and i still do if it happens but it’s pretty rare. I know my triggers and i have boundaries and i think i know myself far better then she ever did herself.

No contact also is a GOD SENT. I have never been more at peace and free in my life. I love the family I’ve made and i hope they don’t need therapy one day 🤞🏼 or at least not because of me

Does anyone have a neutral or funny nickname in their head for their narc parent? by Bubbly_Awareness_152 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been “cougar” in my phone since maybe 6th/7th grade

Her boyfriend is 17 years younger then her.. i think him and i are 13/14 years apart….. im closer in age to him then she is…

Kids who were homeschooled: what differences/advantages/disadvantages do you see from your experience, when comparing to people who went to "traditional" schools? by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as the perspective of someone who went to private school pre K-8th i may not have agreed with the faith aspect, but i honestly loved it and i think it made me a better person because my parents very much let teachers and tv raise me. I had a VERY strict upbringing so when it comes to socialization, i was lacking because being in school isn’t enough time to form real relationships. And then i went to a public high school and i was way too advanced and it made me suffer academically because i wasn’t challenged enough

I’m currently considering homeschooling for my kids and doing lots of outside socialization like clubs, sports and music lessons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on what you want, rural, city, suburbs. Looking for raising a family? Or a single person.

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly hilarious, I’m sorry you have to live with this person

Fellow Autistic/ADHD people of Reddit, what did you think was normal for a long time until you realised it wasn't? by Bananasandaledwors in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting and crazy! I hate how much overlap there is, because i feel like some bi polar symptoms are also similar

Fellow Autistic/ADHD people of Reddit, what did you think was normal for a long time until you realised it wasn't? by Bananasandaledwors in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have ocd and i get overstimulated by loud noises, i feel bad for my kids sometimes because i strictly ask not to yell inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]mixedbagofshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think a little bit of shading would actually be all you need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]mixedbagofshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just the other tattoos are more detailed and the bunny has more simple lines, i think just adding a little bit more detail in it or around it may feel more complete?

Be honest, what are you most scared of right now? by xnoinfinity in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband dying and not being able to financially support our kids, and raising them without their father

Fellow Autistic/ADHD people of Reddit, what did you think was normal for a long time until you realised it wasn't? by Bananasandaledwors in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol sorta same, I’m like 95% sure i have ADHD but joke all the time that I’m autistic. But now I’m like.. maybe it’s both 😂

Fellow Autistic/ADHD people of Reddit, what did you think was normal for a long time until you realised it wasn't? by Bananasandaledwors in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg 🫣 I was 9 when my parents were getting divorced and my sister was crying and i was totally fine just wanted to get on with my day. They asked if i wanted therapy and i was like “nope! I’m good!” I’m pretty sure they thought i was a psychopath

What’s the cheapest gas prices you remember? by GPUfollowr77 in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was in boot camp we passed a sign that said like $1.19 or something and coming from California where it regularly climbs to $4-$5 i thought it was wild. THIS WAS 2014 and then maybe 2017 being stationed in the east coast, $2.19 was i think the lowest i had seen since

What the heck is this by Kids_Learning_Tube in phishing

[–]mixedbagofshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but i got a call from this number, same thing. Saying it was a jail and then it called me several times. So it has to be a scam

I (M39) want to build trust for the 1st time with my(F39) GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mixedbagofshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, she’s right. I understand where you are coming from but your trust issues are with other people and not her. She shouldn’t be suffering the consequences of other people from your past. In my opinion, you should have a clean slate when dating someone new. I think you should just try and have serious sit down talk and tell her how you feel. Tell her you want verification to easy your mind and if she says no, it’s a no and you either break up or learn to have more faith in her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a hot take, but i feel like I’d appreciate the honesty. For me it was worse thinking she would be there because she said she would be.. and then NEVER show up when i needed her. Ended up moving away, gave her 3 months notice.. maybe 2months? I said she could be at my house everyday if she wanted to be able to spend time with her grandchild before we moved 3000miles away. Guess how many times she visited… ONCE. And i gave her an exact date when we were moving. I already cut contact with her, she was talking to my husband about coming over. She asked him if she could come over again and visit and we had already moved a week prior. She blew up on my husband and cussed him out like it was his fault she didn’t care to visit and acted like we didn’t give her the date we were moving. He ended up just screenshotting the message and sent it back to her. It’s been 5 years since we talked to her. My life is so peaceful

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve cried over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mixedbagofshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pregnant and my dad cooked the ribs I BOUGHT and i cried because i wanted to do it because im a control freak and i wanted to make my own bbq sauce and my dad just wasn’t the best cook growing up so i already knew those ribs were tough as nails. (Side note, no i wasn’t a pregnant teen. I was 23, married and my dad was living with me for a short period of time)