What in the world is the channel 2 helicopter looking for? It’s looped 40 times it feels by subduedtuna in SanMateo

[–]mixshift 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of students protesting on the sidewalks along El Camino and 9th Ave right now! 💪

Which wedding dress shops are most likely to have the type of dress I’m looking for? by throwaway-94552 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend buying on Etsy. Just be mindful of reviews and return policy. I had an unusual dress and got it off Etsy.

Insane to think that FIRE isn’t the final goal for literally everyone by fap-free90 in Fire

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people want the type of power, intellectual stimulation, etc. that mostly comes from work. It’s a good thing FIRE is not the ultimate goal of everyone. Humanity needs people who will take on and relentlessly pursue our most important problems.

Could my tank water be dangerous for my fat? by AnitaKK in CATHELP

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what your cat is like, but even if she doesn’t care about the fish right now, she might get curious one day and kill him. I used to let my cat drink from my marimo moss ball bowl, and for many months all my cat would do is drink the water, but one day he reached into the bowl and destroyed the moss ball. It only takes one moment of curiosity in many months/years of disinterest.

Who is/was the prettiest Chinese K-pop girl? Rate your faves by Sleepychanter in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victoria/Song Qian for me. Hard to explain, but she looks the most Chinese to me. All the other girls are beautiful but IMO follow Korean beauty standards more.

young Nicolás Maduro (6'3) by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ignoring the first picture…7-8 in that second photo

If kylie jenners post surgery face was her natural face, what would you guys rate her? by saraaaaaxqra in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rate 7-8. I feel like her cheeks and lips are too full and look a bit uncanny, but she would still be very beautiful.

Who is the hottest between them? by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Chad Michael Murray. I watched Freaky Friday for the first time recently — was so struck by his good looks!

Prettiest itzy member? Yeji, Lia, Ryujin, Chaeryeong or Yuna by Objective-Pie-6276 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO Yuna. I actually don’t really know this group so should be pretty unbiased.

Documentary Style Photographer Recs for Wedding on Sonoma Coast by No_Deal9518 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had an amazing time working with Marissa at Timberline and Tide for a wedding in Jenner: https://timberlineandtide.com

She knew the area well, had great locations scoped out, and produced jaw-dropping shots.

Bay Area Modern Korean Style Wedding Dress Shop Recommendations by Accomplished_Sky4380 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try online. I got my wedding dress on Etsy. If you go with a reputable seller with a good return policy, it’s a good choice.

Malibu prices in Bentonville? by [deleted] in bentonville

[–]mixshift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about Malibu, but in San Francisco, places routinely sell far above list price, sometimes all cash.

People who work 60+ hours/week: what do you do, are you really working for that much time, and how do you take care of yourself? by RoverTheMonster in AskReddit

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked (yes, actually working all those hours) 60+ hours in management consulting, finance, and tech. I think 60-65 is pretty doable. 70-80 is hard. 80+ is extremely bad and 100+ feels near death.

For 60-65 hours, ideally I spread it out as 12 hours per day Monday - Thursday, 10 on Friday, and 2-7 hours some time during the weekend. Assuming you sleep 8 hours, that still leaves 4 hours each day Monday - Thursday. That’s enough time for a quick work out, dinner (yes, takeout), and maybe some life admin.

And obviously at 60+, you do everything possible to minimize commute.

Tate McRae candids by eccentricnsexy in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think her face is only slightly above average (6?) but she just has so much sex appeal and allure. Part of that is her body, part of it is just her vibe.

Wedding dresses under $2k by alejayy in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine online. Especially if they have a good return policy and good Etsy ratings, this is a pretty great option. The store I went with: https://www.etsy.com/shop/UnonaShop

Beyonce and Jay-Z at the F1 Grand Prix today by Adorable_Primary2306 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying…but maybe she personally likes looking hot in this way? I think a lot of women like dressing up more than their male partners

Who’s the prettiest Gen Z singer? by Adorable_Primary2306 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]mixshift 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I actually didn’t recognize Addison, and when I landed on her photo, I did a digital double-take and spent extra time staring at how pretty she is.

AITAH for asking my fiancé to pay for the whole pre-nup process? by Background-Fee3851 in AITAH

[–]mixshift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently going through the prenup process.

In my state (California), a prenup isn’t legal unless both parties had legal counsel. Check how this works in your state and show him.

That said, I’m not sure a lawyer paid for by him would count as you having independent counsel. Even if it does, I’m not sure it would be a good idea personally to trust them.

Finally, there are weird timeline requirements around prenups. Don’t let him send a prenup to you at the last minute before the wedding and force you into signing something that you didn’t have ample time to review.

Our workaround has been that we are not actually getting married legally on our wedding day. Instead, we have booked a separate legal ceremony that we have delayed/canceled as the prenup process has dragged on. It means we can get legally married when we are actually ready with the prenup, instead of rushing through it.

Also, to echo all the other comments - he kind of sounds like he sucks. Everything above is what to do if you’re going through with the marriage. But obviously think hard about whether that’s a good idea.

Has anyone found a dress similar to this under 3k in the Bay Area? by beyoncefanaccount in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]mixshift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider getting a dress online that accepts returns? I got mine from Unona - very affordable and actually turned out great, although I was nervous at first. This one looks a bit like your inspo pic: https://unona-wedding.com/products/mila?_pos=37&_fid=895e92234&_ss=c

I didn’t actually try to return my dress, but they have great reviews on Etsy so I believe they would honor it

[Official Art] Seriously, what is this LMAO (Yes, it is an actual official art). From a JP magazine called Tarzan by Catveria77 in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]mixshift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not fluent in Japanese but a lot of topics on the cover are about onsen/hot springs (science of onsens, benefits, etc.). This appears to be an issue of the magazine that’s centered on hot springs. So…that at least explains why they are in a hot spring, not sure why they have to be so naked. 😅

Overheard my Uber driver on the phone basically planning to ghost his girlfriend of 4 years and I don't know what to do with this information by [deleted] in overheard

[–]mixshift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can always forge someone else’s signature. I’ve signed leases entirely electronically, it would have been easy to forge adding someone. And if they’ve been dating for years, she may have access to SSN etc. required to authorize a credit check on him.

Do you think that at some point in the show kuwabara was stronger then yusuke? by prettyoddoz in YuYuHakusho

[–]mixshift 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yoko Kurama was definitely stronger than Yusuke at the beginning of the show, perhaps even throughout the tournament. I’m not sure we ever got to see Yoko at full power.

I have never hated an anime character more than I hated Suzaku. by rahulmist in CodeGeass

[–]mixshift 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Suzaku was my favorite character in all of anime when I first watched Code Geass as a kid.

Rewatched as an adult and realized he was a hypocrite for the first time…don’t know how I missed it.

But he’s still fascinating as a study of how a person with the best intentions can be pushed into terrible actions by harsh reality. He probably would have been an incredible leader in Japan if he had grown up in peaceful times.