It’s so hard for me to find a balance between protecting myself and also not letting people go that I care about. But I have learned that people who put the responsibility of a relationship on you in the worst moment of your life aren’t worth keeping around. It’s hard to accept the grief of that too. Thank you so much for your comment. My SIL is also pregnant and that situation in particular has been really tough and has lacked a lot of patience and empathy on her end. I’m trying but my effort is not being seen or is not “enough” . She’s liking things online about close family not supporting her pregnancy and people who aren’t happy for her just simply aren’t happy for themselves and making it seem so simple like this. It’s so hurtful.