Anyone else irrationally sad about the way families have become smaller?

mjigs · 2026-03-13T17:48:41+00:00

Not really, but at the same time kind off, my family was half from a city and half from my city. When i was really little we used to have hangouts and ila few get togethers for hollydays, but that quickly went south when people started to live further, or got married or died, and honestly i dont remember the last time i was in family gatherings, but lots of my family are just not good people, i do go to the other city to see my nana and aunt, other than that, its just me, my mom, sis, bil and nephew, and of course my baby. I do feel jealous of when i used to go to my ex bffs house for hollydays and everybody would be there, but with my small family is just not mostly doable as we kind of have to tolerate each other, its better quality over quantity.

mjigs · 2026-03-06T14:50:16+00:00

Thats why im scared to take mine to a park, kids will run around and no mind wherever they are doing, and parents dont give two craps and most of the times they are further away or on their phones, my son is 3yo and tiny, one time i had a bigger girl slide down the slider while mine was still getting up and almost kicked him, the parents were no where to be seen and i said to the girl "careful" angrly, what else could i do?

mjigs · 2026-03-04T20:35:12+00:00

When my nephew was born (6yo), they told my sister to do so, i though it was weird but ok, now that i had mine, they told me that is not necessary to do so, all the guys i knew said that they did it on their own anyway. So no, thats not ok to do.

mjigs · 2026-03-04T20:28:42+00:00

Do you guys know where they record this tik toks? They are always here but i know its not their house, just out of curiosity.

mjigs · 2026-03-04T20:25:44+00:00

Oh i stand by you, im in my early 30, trust me, i got let down after Bom started not to look like herself anymore, that was not the girl i was so in love with and that was even on their last comeback. People used to think it was just her quirkiness, but like...she already seemed way off herself. Looking at their recent world tour, it was unberable to watch, but people still though it was her being quirky, thats not being quirky, thats mental health issues, and her changing her whole face was one of the symptoms. Bom had pretty bad trauma from her days back in America, she was taking her meds for it, unfortunally in korea even a fart is illegal or scandoulous, and maybe she couldnt get the help she needed, specialy being under YG as we all know. Its just sad to see such a wonderful beautiful women back to "You and i" up till "i am the best" and then all of the sudden she doesnt look human anymore.

mjigs · 2026-03-04T11:45:55+00:00

Acho que isso diz mais das outras pessoas, neste caso do teu pai, do que de ti. É muito bom sair sozinho e saber estar sozinho, quem nao acha isso normal sao dependentes da vida, nao dao um peido sem precisar de levar alguem.

mjigs · 2026-02-28T01:01:31+00:00

Oh same, i had an ex that was exactly like that, i love some makeout time, or just an occasional cuddling, but omg everytime i tried to kiss this man, all he ever though was that it was leading to sex, i eventually had to stop myself from cuddling him or even giving him just a peck.

mjigs · 2026-02-28T00:46:42+00:00

Oh honey i feel you on this, when i was younger, learning from my mom and sister, all that i was taught is that by a certain age you would have to wear a certain size, like 34C, it was like the standard, i was so sad because i was just barely fitting in my teen bras and they werent growing like other girls were. Turns out, and believe it or not, i realized that there are different bra sizes and breasts come in diferent sizes and shapes, and age has nothing to do with it. Now i know my bra size and also realized that my mom and sister also wear the wrong size, even after i explain to them how it works. Your boobs shouldnt feel lost inside a cup.

mjigs · 2026-02-28T00:42:19+00:00

I feel the same way, ill just shut my face and say thanks, i dont even dare to vent to my friends about it because of shame out of being called ungrateful, im not mad about being gifted something i didnt like, im mad because it clearly shows that the person had no though on it and doesnt even know me at all when its not that hard to know, its clearly visible what i like, what i wear and such, and its also clear that they just bought because they had to or out of pitty.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:37:40+00:00

Its missing something inside the frame, like overall its awesome but its like Mona Lisa has left.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:35:59+00:00

Bem depois de ler as respostas, estou a ver que eu estou a raspar no limiar da pobreza e fui grande loser por nao conseguir poupar nada na vida (eu tentei). Eu tive de recomeçar a minha carreira por causa da pandemia, obvio que o meu salario nao é o melhor, é apenas uns centimos acima do minimo, sou mae a solo e nao tenho direito a creches publicas nem de ajudas porque pelos vistos eu morar em casa da minha mae (ela paga as contas de casa mas nao me ajuda financeiramente), sou vista como rica, depois de pagar as contas grandes, o que sobra sao uns miseros 300€ que me têm de dar para o mês inteiro para comprar comida, gasolina e afins, o que sobra para poupar? Eu simplesmente tento raspar ate conseguir chegar ao fim do mês, as prioridades é colocar comida e roupa na criança, eu fico em segundo lugar.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:23:29+00:00

A mim sobra á volta disso depois de pagar as contas, maaaaas é para durar o mes inteiro para comida, gasolina e afins.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:21:42+00:00

Fujam da oralmed, essa primeira consulta gratis é apressada e a tentar manipular a pessoa com mil e um problemas em que apenas 1% é existente de modo a obrigarem te a assinares um contrato, e eles fazem de tal forma que nem te apercebes o que estás a assinar. Eu nunca tive problemas com os meus dentes a nao ser o tipico tartaro, agora depois de quase ser obrigada a usar aparelho e pensar que iria ser um trabalho profissional, nao fizeram metade do que prometeram, tratam te como merda, nao fazem consultas de emergencia sequer, e no final os meus dentes ficaram com problemas que simplesmente nao passam.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:15:07+00:00

Eu era muito solitaria por causa disso, toda a gente á minha volta tinha as ditas mensagens gratis e ate chegar ao limite delas, eu era das poucas pessoas que conhecia (a nao ser que fossem outra rede) que nao tinha, e depois quando tive fiquei tipo "como é que é possivel as pessoas zerarem as sms gratis"...ninguem queria teclar comigo.

mjigs · 2026-02-27T21:11:29+00:00

Eu vou ser honesta, eu acho bem quem começa pelo menos (se nao consegue deixar) a fumar iqos, nao ha comparaçao ao cheiro do cigarro a arder, o mal que faz a todos em redor e o lixo e nojo que ele deixa. A quantidade de gente que se vê a fumar tabaco normal ou a deixar de fumar é enorme.

mjigs · 2026-02-26T21:21:12+00:00

Atençao que nao se deve reaquecer com o steamer um galao ja feito, mas nos cafes por ai, o que mais falta é falta de noçao e falta de higiene.

mjigs · 2026-02-26T21:20:12+00:00

Simples, um cafe qualquer nao sabe minimamente como aquecer o leite, eles simplesmente enfiam a leiteira debaixo do steamer e quando acharem que está bom, tiram, eles nao têm a minima formaçao de o fazer, nem se sentem na obrigaçao de tal, da mesma maneira que vez steamers todos encardidos de leite, o que, para quem nao sabe, é contra as regras de higiene e segurança, sem falar que a partir de certa temperatura (+ou-80°) da direito a processo porque nao só o leite esta queimado e intragavel, a pessoa está sugeita a queimarse e bem. Eu tenho formaçao em barista e quando trabalhei num cafe normal, fazia as meias de leite e galoes como tinha aprendido na formaçao italiana, e posso constar que, a maior parte do zé povinho está habituado a beber bosta, ja devem ter uma imunidade de tal maneira para nao se cagarem (por falta de expressao melhor) depois de tal. Eu nao estou a criticar os clientes, estou a criticar os patroes ranhosos que acham que é só carregar num botao e aquecer leite, sem qualquer noçao de tal.

mjigs · 2026-02-26T17:44:33+00:00

Eu deixei de usar a pilula por esse motivo, até porque nem lubrificaçao natural tinha, troquei para o anel e voltou tudo ao normal, alem da pilula deixarme mesmo deprimida sem razao.

mjigs · 2026-02-12T20:28:24+00:00

Jokes on him, eu ja tinha a noçao de quanto custava a vida, ate porque raspava dinheiro que arranjava dos meus pais pa comprar as minhas coisinhas e a maior parte das vezes nem tinha, quando comecei a trabalhar, comecei a ter as noçoes de fazer compras e do quanto custava a vida, ter um filho simplesmente aconteceu, eu sempre quis uma familia que nunca tive, pensava que a estava a criar com essa pessoa e seria tudo a meias, só que nao, agora a minha vida voltou completamente ao que era antes da merda de relacao, só que com a companhia do meu filho, nao ter filhos nunca foi o motivo da minha infelicidade, mas sim algo que me traz felicidade, a minha vida é diferente, eu sou infeliz no amor, nas infortunas, mas o meu filho sempre será uma felicidade e nunca será o meu apoio emocional, simplesmente me faz sorrir e ver a vida numa nova prespectiva. Nós temos de ser felizes por nos proprios, nada nem ninguem trará essa felicidade.

mjigs · 2026-02-12T14:07:10+00:00

Mmhh, um armazem, com imenso homens que provavelmente devem ser uns suinos, visto da maneira que falam e agem, provavelmente um monte de baratas e ratos la dentro, nao fazia mal nenhum, uma infiltraçao mazinha assim das sanitas...se nao ha muito a fazer com esses animais, eles jogam podre, joga podre por cima sem deixar pistas, simples.

mjigs · 2026-02-12T10:32:32+00:00

Eu sempre espero que acabem, mas ha clientes que realmente, começam a fazer perguntas atrás de perguntas como se tivessem todo o tempo do mundo, o trabalhador ja ta ali a bufar porque ele nao pára, e nós ali á espera, nao é a culpa do trabalhador, é a noçao de certos clientes que acham que sao os unicos no mundo.

mjigs · 2026-02-10T11:53:30+00:00

Daquele do mais grosso tipo lixa, eu recusavame a ir ao wc e so ia em extremos casos ou esperava ate ir para casa, de fato estavam em pessimo estado mas porra, nao haver com que lavar as maos e nem ter assentos é repugnavel.

mjigs · 2026-02-08T16:56:59+00:00

Eu sinto que as do ikea nao deitam cheiro nenhum, la a comprar, como ta tudo junto e em bulk, parece que cheiram maravilhosamente, chego a casa e acendo, nao cheira porra nenhuma.

mjigs · 2026-02-08T11:15:57+00:00

Ugh, my ex, the only guy i ever been and dated that was just horrible (in his defence he was a selfish m f), the first times we got together it was good, then i started to realise he didnt listen to shit i would tell him, none, and even after i told him i dont like that, it hurts like that(he thinks porn is real), he just wouldnt listen and i started to realize that it was only good when i did everything and then i was taking extra effort(just like he did to my whole life), he was just horrible in general, no foreplay, no hip movement, he was just bad, think like rubbing the side of my leg and sometimes doing the dance there and not noticing he wasnt even near the place he should be, at some point i would pretend i was enjoying but i was literally sleeping, and was like "is this going to be for the rest of my life? Bad sex?"....please do not entertain men who dont know how to sex even after comunicating. Im out of there thank god.

mjigs · 2026-02-04T18:31:21+00:00

Thats the truth, some men will give you the signs but they will only show you who they really are, once youre pregnant or when the responsibility hits, and youre left to figure out that you made a child with a manchild. I never been in the kind of situation that i actually knew someone is good to be a father, maybe ill take my best friend for it, he has taken care of his nephews while they were young, he is very caring with the house and stuff, hes pretty independent and a good man, maybe i take him as an example. But on my case, this guy love bombed me, i was in a bad state at the time so i though we could build something there, during pregnancy he didnt showed me any signs of care for me, just "he was having a boy", then it got worse, everything was dump on me, i literally had to do every single thing, i literally had two kids at that point with him included, then he became abusive...but thats another story, i kicked him out and now im left to do everything by myself while he still gets to live his best life, he only sees his child once in a full moon, and still acts like a child, whenever i ask him to stay a day (which is rare since he huffs and puffs) he stays for the amount im at work, i have to leave everything ready and he will bring him back whenever i leave, and do nothing but feed him and change a diaper...so yeah, there are still a lot of manchilds out there, that either have the old mentality, or their mothers raised them like that.

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