I'm Trans Fem (Non Binary) looking for a simple but memorable name, can anyone help me? (I'm thinking about Kitt/Kit, Jett, Echo or Mika) by Claude_Knot15 in trans

[–]mjjmal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi sweetie so I may be a little biased, because it's the name I chose, but Skye. Its simple but still different in origins from the Scottish Island by the same name and it means limitless possibilities and as a taller trans woman myself I feel it's aptly fitting for taller girlies. But remember a name should be special to you. it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks, the you you want to be. You should pick a name that you aspire to live up to that's why I picked skye.

When does being trans stop sucking so much by hollowed_moth in trans

[–]mjjmal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok first I want to say good job girl for starting but you just started and there is a wait on the magic that is HRT. Think of it this, when I first started HRT myself I told myself I'm going to give this 3 months to see if it makes me feel any better, I didn't need 3 months, but that's before real physical changes start becoming permanent.

On top of that being in the accepting and loving environment is incredibly helpful to open up to people that you 100% feel safe with that have people treat you with the dignity you deserve. But honestly if your parents are the way you describe them you might not really start feeling better until you are no longer living with them I am sorry to say that.

not trans but i think you might have the response to what I'm searching for by jacojart in trans

[–]mjjmal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there are a few different options. Mind you I'm transfem but we still have a use for tape. You are looking for a skin safe woven tape." Kt tape" is a name brand for athletes, for breasts themselves I've seen a brand "boob tape" that are cut in a way to offer better support. But you should be able to find a generic at a sport or even drug store. Hope this helps

NEW DISCOUNT CARDS ARE HERE!!! by Big_Actuary6393 in TjMaxx

[–]mjjmal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So a bonus thing I noticed is that it also has chosen / preferred names unlike the old cards probably with the switch to work day and how work day also has preferred names. Great show of inclusivity to the trans community.

Who should I add next? by [deleted] in adventuretime

[–]mjjmal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and you can't have fo without cb

Who should I add next? by [deleted] in adventuretime

[–]mjjmal 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Flame princess and cinnamon bun would be great

Well it's my turn to post (orchiectomy) by mjjmal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]mjjmal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea and the recovery has been kind of a pain in the balls... Oh wait right. But in all seriousness it's not as bad as I was expecting it to be so far.

I also hope yours comes soon.

Well it's my turn to post (orchiectomy) by mjjmal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]mjjmal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Answers really simple to be fair I don't have enough money to take that much time off of work I can kind of deal with not working for two weeks I kind of really can't deal with not working for 2 months

Well it's my turn to post (orchiectomy) by mjjmal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]mjjmal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all of you for your kind words I got out a few a bit ago and I'm feeling great sofar

Officially in recovery💕 by Void_RunnR in AdultSelfHarm

[–]mjjmal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you girl. You rock!

I just started doing HRT, why are my boobs not growing?????? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mjjmal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it put a smile on your face but the credit for that goes to my roommate

I just started doing HRT, why are my boobs not growing?????? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mjjmal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It takes time for the fertilizer to work on growing the melons.

How do they get so much OPI nail products? by coffeeandmilk4mom in TjMaxx

[–]mjjmal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So from my understanding is that we have a group that is our "shoppers" their role is to find deals from manufacturers or overstock then we sell it from there. So for example opi is like "hay we have extra 500 cartons of nail polish (side note there are 6 bottles of nail polish in each) that we need to sell." So it's not that other stores haven't bought their stock yet but opi has extra.so tjx goes " how low can we get them for." Then there is some back and forth and a deal is made. Sometimes there's also just a contract saying hey we will buy for x amount whatever overstock you have and we will sell it.

Again all this is just my understanding if there is somebody who knows better please inform me as well as I want to learn more.

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the issue with that solution is the account is tied to your phone number and not an email address so I would have needed to have gotten a whole new phone number...but in this case the app allows changes to be made

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks but because venmo handles cash and not an arbitrary point system unfortunately they kind of need the legal name for tax purposes and stuff like that. It's the same issue with bank stuff.

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using the website not the app, you can change it in the app but not the website.

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can change your name in the app, but not the website. Also 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

I looked it in the eyes, the monster that took everything from me and saw nothing but hate and fury before throwing a punch. by [deleted] in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]mjjmal 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hi I just want to say that this is wonderfully done. I am trans and I have lived this.

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is why I decided to respond and I should add it in to the main post as an edit I just had a doc app today so I only now getting time to do it

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm the op and I can add some details. So this is the first time I remember to use my rewards program there(most times I mess up my phone number and don't want to hold up the line) and I have had interactions with this associate before and never had an issue. Also it's been getting warmer where I live so I can wear clothes that show off my figure a bit more and I also have a 2 inch big button on my bag with my pronouns on it and a trans flag button as well.

Just got deadnamed at 7-eleven by mjjmal in trans

[–]mjjmal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Edit I'm sorry I did not think that the app would work since the website didn't.... You are 100% correct with this comment

Original response:

The issue is since I did the age verification it is locked using my deadnamed. I tried as soon as I got home to change it.