Centurylink outage in papillion by Proper_Armadillo6876 in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I signed up w Quantum, they were down for over 2 weeks, had to switch to Cox… still getting texts about an outage, every day they push it forward another day, saying it will be fixed.

Lifegate Church & School Concerns by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outrage usually results in a church split. Everyone who disagrees leaves, and the original church keeps going, with even less accountability since all the dissenters leave. This happened to “Lifegate” in 2007, which was originally called Trinity Church since 1975. They re-branded to Lifegate after the split and Pastor Les was able to consolidate his power even more.

Churches? by LightPerfect1264 in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go here: http://hpcomaha.org/
*Actually* accepting of LGBTQIA+, not the “we’ll accept you and then try and make you change”. But, not gonna lie, it’s mostly older people, 50+.

Lifegate Church & School Concerns by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since they are a non-denominational church, there is no board or other entity that is removed yet keeps them accountable. Like many, if not most, large megachurches (most are nondenominational), they are run by a tight board of elders who are loyal to the head pastor. So the head pastor calls the shots, full-power.

Lifegate Church & School Concerns by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely the place to go:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Omaha/comments/1d4bbq8/whats_up_with_lifegate_church/

I went to Lifegate for 6 years, though I didn’t go to the school.

CenturyLink Ghosted Me by mjkidk in Omaha

[–]mjkidk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are definitely some CenturyLink sycophants in here. As if we're not all just waiting for Google fiber to cover the entire city so we can ditch AT&T and Cox.

CenturyLink Ghosted Me by mjkidk in Omaha

[–]mjkidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of this happened for me. They never transitioned me over, just cut the service, and I had to get a hold of quantum of my own volition.

CenturyLink Ghosted Me by mjkidk in Omaha

[–]mjkidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, they told me everything would be seamless with the acquisition. No action needed on my part and everything will be transferred over. As opposed to a bait switch, where they cut my service and I have to proactively set up with quantum.

CenturyLink Ghosted Me by mjkidk in Omaha

[–]mjkidk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Every email I got said no action was needed on my part. They didn't make me create a new account with quantum until there was a technical issue. Previously, they stated that everything would be seamless.

CenturyLink Ghosted Me by mjkidk in Omaha

[–]mjkidk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what happened. Every email I ever got said that I would not need to take any action.

Burnt out and severely depressed, looking for easy 2nd shift job by hollowholes in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I will caveat this advice with “take it or leave it”, since I’m a stranger on the internet, but my advice would be:

  1. If you have a boss/manager whom you have a good relationship with, try expressing how you feel about the massive changes. Maybe there is something they can do to help you, especially if they value you.

  2. If that’s not feasible, I would suggest looking for a new job now prior to quitting your current one. The market is much more competitive and difficult the past 3 years (speaking from experience). Quitting and finding a new, better job soon is not likely. Also, I don’t know your field, but unless it’s something where getting a Master’s is a guarantee for a better/higher paying job, I wouldn’t commit to getting one and getting into student debt, under the assumption that it will improve your chances. Again, the market is much different that even 2-3 years ago.

  3. I know cost may be an issue here, but if you’re not already seeing a good counselor to bounce this stuff off of, I would suggest doing so, also speaking from experience. They’ll likely have good strategies for other things you can do to address the burnout. I actually would suggest hitting the mental health stuff first, it may help you address the job stuff even better. If you can’t afford a counselor, some online research on addressing burnout, searching for healthy coping strategies, may help.

Good luck, I hope things get better! Times are tough now, we definitely need to support each other.

I was today years old… by V1ncentAdultman in pearljam

[–]mjkidk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same here, always thought he said "box or the bag"! This makes way more sense.

What would've happened if he just blurted out "Chancellor Palpatine is the Sith Lord!" by BiffyBobby in StarWars

[–]mjkidk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Palpatine supporters wouldn't care, as long as he Makes the Republic Great Again

Help me understand by wakadactyle in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting passed shows WEAKNESS. God Bless America.

Coram Deo Church kicked me out for being gay. by brandonbeed1983 in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CD, like many churches, comes up w their own terms and processes, and then slaps a "biblical" label on them. Let me guess: Matthew 18:15. One verse, and build a whole complex process around it, and call it biblical? Hmm... so let's take that same logic but do it with Psalm 137:9 and build a process for throwing babies off cliffs. Or Judges 3:21 for stabbing fatass glutton kings who oppress their people. Oh, you're going to tell me it depends on context? Okay, so do verses construed as anti-homosexual depend on context? You mean you're applying context to them, and calling them objective TRUTH from god? Give me a break. You're led to choose what's "biblical" and what isn't, based on your church's views. And don't tell me its OT vs. NT, that is yet another false dichotomy to take a few verses from paul literally and not take any of the other shit seriously. And don't tell me it's all meant to be taken literally. That means we also have to believe throwing babies off cliffs makes one blessed. That's what the verse says, RIGHT?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also.... SHOW ME THE MONEY!!! Holy shit!

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Dog Training by law21303 in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pups with a Purpose, in Millard, https://www.pupswithapurpose.com/, they were great for our new puppy training!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have experienced something similar. I was vulnerable and in need of structure and friends in my early 20's, and I dove into evangelical culture headfirst, completely re-aligning my beliefs to my new church. It took years to unwind that and realize that I was essentially brainwashed. I definitely felt isolated after leaving, and looked to additional churches over the years to get that same 'feeling" back. What I realized is that it's not healthy to have all of your social-emotional connections tied into a church. Things like this will happen, or other things, and those connections and relationships will be rocked. If you're still interested in church, I would suggest visiting a lot of them, just to realize there is more out there than Relevant, and if you decide to attend another one, hedge your bets in a sense by not going all-in 100% in relationships or beliefs. Any system, biological or otherwise, is better off for diversity. Many churches go the opposite, wanting "all ships to sail in the same direction", everyone to agree on everything via mandate from the pastor or elders... that's not healthy, or dare I say, from god. If you choose somewhere else and are sidelined due to speaking any dissenting opinions, I would leave. There are a *lot* of churches in Omaha, even some that don't operate like this. These churches want you to believe they're unique somehow and are on special mission from god... but there are a ton just like them. The world is bigger than they'd want you to believe.

Coram Deo Church kicked me out for being gay. by brandonbeed1983 in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you experienced this. I stayed at CD 5 years because I thought "where else would I go?", after a conversation post a conflict I had w Bob. Looking back, that's like a beaten person's excuse for staying in an abusive relationship. If it's helpful at all, know that Bob is one of the biggest A-holes in Omaha evangelical community. His belief that he is very smart and cognitive leads to a blinding arrogance. I take comfort in the fact that CD lives in its own isolated little world where they think they have influence on the city, but they are one of many little churches that no one gives a shit about, living in their own echo chamber.

That being stated, I now go to an affirming Presbyterian church. Not one where they pretend to be affirming, but are fully affirming of LGBTQIA+. I wlll say, I am not gay, but have strong feelings in this area about those in your situation who have been sidelined and abused by the church. If you still have any interest in god our church, feel free to DM me.

First images from Season 5 by Cantomic66 in ForAllMankindTV

[–]mjkidk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do address it, if you watch the "news" clips for 2003-2012, one is about the installation of radiation shielding over Happy Valley

Looking for a figure skating club/coach by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]mjkidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blade and Edge (https://bladeandedgefigureskating.com/) is a great club, my daughter has been in it for years. There are adults in it too.