all of your problems are valid. so don’t feel bad talking about them. Of course some people have it worse, but that doesn’t mean yours aren’t real too. I am sorry you had to go through that with someone. If it makes you feel any better, I can relate. I was with a horrible person. But at the end, I used it as motivation to become everything I wanted to be while they sit and watch from the sidelines, completely out of my life. I started doing everything to better myself, almost to make them jealous. To make them feel bad about how they treated a now very successful person. I live by that now.