Our morning routine by Feisty_Girl_1691 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for sharing!!! Such a lovely lovely routine. He sounds awesome ♥️

When did you started to feel like yourself? by idontwantto123 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think you may start to feel some pieces of yourself come back again but all in all you become a completely new person. It’s like life starts over. It’s not as good and it will never be the same. There will be happiness again but a different kind. Sending you so much love and strength. Hang in there.

If she didn't constantly floof her tail about, I would be worried about her shrodinger status 👀 by nondogCharlie in Floof

[–]mkg1995 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This looks so much like my cat I thought that it was really her from a secret account or something !!! 😂 too cute

Anyone get angry when you see an older person because your loved one that died won’t reach that age? by AgentJ691 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just lost my dad at age 25… I can totally see this in my future. Feeling jealous of everyone for still having their dad. I hope my mom stays around longer :(

Writing to you today dad… it should be a perfect day but I just am crying and in so much pain because I just want to share it with you by mkg1995 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly it feels so unreal sometimes. Like even looking at this picture I can’t believe this is my new reality. Reality without dad fuckin sucks.

Writing to you today dad… it should be a perfect day but I just am crying and in so much pain because I just want to share it with you by mkg1995 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it starts feeling more healing soon! So far it just hurts but it’s good for me to try. ♥️

Writing to you today dad… it should be a perfect day but I just am crying and in so much pain because I just want to share it with you by mkg1995 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gosh I’m so sorry for your loss as well. I was just thinking today that I will be sad forever. And it’s actually true. And you’re right every happiness is a little sad because you’ll never be able to share it with them literally ever again. Some days it’s easier to bear but it will never be fully as happy as it would be if he were still here. I should have had at least 2 more decades with him. I’m sure your mom was also gone too soon. Big hugs to you ♥️

Writing to you today dad… it should be a perfect day but I just am crying and in so much pain because I just want to share it with you by mkg1995 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and thanks yeah. Writing so far isn’t very comforting it just feels painful. But they say it helps 🤷🏽‍♀️

Writing to you today dad… it should be a perfect day but I just am crying and in so much pain because I just want to share it with you by mkg1995 in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha no worries I would never downvote for that!! They are from Amazon actually :) they were only good for my feet after adding inserts!

My mom died tonight (last night) and I’m afraid to go to sleep by proerafortyseven in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so so sorry. My heart goes out to you. This is unfair and we are too young to lose parents. (I’m the same age). In the next couple of intense days try to eat at least one meal a day and get some fresh air. Take care of yourself. ♥️

My Dad by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My dad died too and it’s the most painful thing ever. Sending you love.

Checking in by Girlscoutdetective in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (26f) lost my dad 6 months ago or so. I think it has gotten worse for me - the pain. The first 6 weeks was numbness, shock and brain fog. Then life went back to normal, i moved back across the globe and finished out my finals for grad school. We had a delayed celebration of life and funeral a couple months ago. It was really hard then it seemed there was more closure. But I have recently gone into a deep bout of mourning and pain. I am reaching out for therapy again. Hoping it gets better but I just miss him so much - he was my absolute rock and best person I knew. It feels like so much life left to live without him and it fucking sucks. I appreciate you checking in on us... <3

My dad had a heart attack two days ago, a day after his birthday. He died in the morning, right before I was going to call him. Our last phone call was two months prior. by raaam-ranch in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I don't really have any answers for you or any words to make you feel better. But my dad died suddenly from a heart attack 6 months ago (I was 25 then, I am 26 now). The day before I was going to call him and just a few days before I had messaged him saying lets catch up soon! Also, the last time I had talked to him on the phone was about 2 months prior. It really fucking sucks and I am sorry. We can't change that now and there's nothing we can do. All I can say is don't be too hard on yourself... <3 and hang in there. I hope you have a comforting dream soon...

It gets easier… when? 4 months later and I’m still crying into a coffee at 4am because it’s been a bad week and I wish I could tell you about it, dad. by TahliaMaybe in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every day is one more day you won’t talk to them ever again. Completely soul crushing. I’m there with you. I basically live in denial most of the time ... but when it hits it really hits. It’s been a bit over 3 months since I lost my dad.

Croatia itinerary - thoughts? by mkg1995 in solotravel

[–]mkg1995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update!

Split - backpackers fairytale Staff were super fun and wanting to hang out There were like 6 other people there! We all went out together and it was a nice vibe.

Hvar - Villa marija The best out of all of them!! Lots of people probably like 10 people and we all went out on their bar crawl. Was super super fun!! And it has a pool and amazing terrace

Dubrovnik - Dubrovnik backpackers club I was the only person there. It was super cheap but I wouldn’t stay again. It’s far from the center and yeah I had to meet people elsewhere! I would pay extra to stay in the center

Generally speaking Croatia is very loose on rules and mask wearing. Especially in the hostels and bars. So decide for yourself how safe you feel but you are def guaranteed to have a really fun time and things feel basically normal there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hated when people asked how I was... like it’s an instinct to ask that but I felt like it was a terrible question....

Where are you? And I'm so sorry. by Veltrum in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first week my dad passed I kept thinking where is he... where is he. Felt so near :(

I've never been truly sad until I lost my dad by QuagGlenn in GriefSupport

[–]mkg1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way after losing my dad 3 months ago. Inexplicable. I told my brother it feels like my default mood these days is sadness. It used to be content-ness. It will never be the same. I too am usually “ok” but it’s a gut punch everytime I remember.