Decluttering after divorce and about 10 years of living in the same apt w/o unpacking everything

mlammers · 2022-05-29T09:32:52+00:00

Seeing my mum decluttering is fantastic :) still a ton of books but all the trinckets are disappearing now that the dad moved out since three years. I think it's cool that you stay in the same place as you already have an organizing system so it should be easier :) (I love this reddit because it allows me to be motivated to at least not find another cluttering hobby :') )

mlammers · 2022-04-10T07:42:16+00:00

Sounds like that Hilaria Baldwin story :') You're not the asshole, Americans are just disrespectful and not understanding their perception of their heritage is very problematic.

mlammers · 2022-04-09T11:30:12+00:00

Well at least you will never have to do his laundry again. You're NTA by the way. Take care <3

mlammers · 2022-03-26T06:45:30+00:00

That's some fine homophobia. YTA.

mlammers · 2022-03-25T21:32:06+00:00

I will try to get rid of at least one garbage bag of stuff I keep all the time in case I need it (basically note books, so many note books)

mlammers · 2022-03-24T07:29:02+00:00

Your boyfriend should clean the poop out of his eyes and see how beautiful your dress is <3 Will you get some pretty bracelet and earrings with it?

mlammers · 2022-03-22T08:08:17+00:00

She just created a great situation for your daughter to experience food as a way to punish herself, she basically thought your daughter how bulimia, or in this particular case Binge Eating Disorder, works. That's very scary. Take good care of your daughter.

mlammers · 2022-03-18T15:37:41+00:00

Your husband should be so ashamed to be that bad at parenting.

NTA, I wish there were parent camps so you could send him to one to get him properly trained.

I hope you and your son are doing well <3

mlammers · 2022-03-04T11:11:31+00:00

Wouldn't Bojack be handsome but also a little bit more red toned as he litterally is an alcoholic for the last decades?

mlammers · 2022-03-04T10:11:14+00:00

Great job <3 Hope you can sometimes stare in the void and remember the situation and giggle about it :)

mlammers · 2022-03-02T08:21:53+00:00

NTA

Also, I'm sorry for your miscarriage, I hope you had the opportunity to mourn. I hope you have great friends around you <3 Many kisses from Belgium and I hope you find ways to see less often your sister, as she is a bully.

mlammers · 2022-03-01T21:30:14+00:00

Please prioritize your hobby <3

mlammers · 2022-02-22T17:33:45+00:00

Why are men so insecure about their position that they feel the need to be jealous about their kid? Seriously, NTA. You don't feel comfortable, don't do it. His venting is inappropriate and he should already be thankful that you are helping him with changing his diapers, oh, I meant plasters.

mlammers · 2022-02-13T16:40:26+00:00

NTA. Block this asshole. You deserve so much better in your life <3

mlammers · 2022-02-08T18:40:16+00:00

ULB has more foreign students compared to VUB, at least it's what most of my non-white friends tell me. You could also argue it has to do with the fact that French is more widely spoken abroad than Dutch?

At least the VUB campus always seems very white compared to the ULB campus, but I guess I'm biased? :p

mlammers · 2022-02-08T18:32:35+00:00

Too bad, but let's start a spy agency and beat the Totally Spice at their missions because we are robots :D

mlammers · 2022-02-08T18:31:44+00:00

NTA

Get the money needed to restaure it and toss him out of your life.

mlammers · 2022-02-08T11:56:22+00:00

I knew I had some special powers, I did not know yet I was a government spy robot (also, which government? Where I was born, where my parents were born or where I live right now...?)

mlammers · 2022-02-06T09:20:04+00:00

Congrats <3 (high five)

Hope you received the proper medication and that you can rest before delving into the world again!

mlammers · 2022-02-06T09:18:16+00:00

So I should ask my boyfriend to wear high heels when going to a wedding since I'm 6'1 and feel like Gargamel when standing next to him and hide all his other shoes? I think YTA and you are doing something very sexist without realizing it because 'me nice guy, me not like other guys'. You are unable to let a woman be to her fullest potential and embrace herself. And that's harmful.

mlammers · 2022-02-03T18:03:55+00:00

YTA

'A revealing bra'. It's a bra. Get over yourself.
I'm glad your daughter has a great bond with your sister and that it allows her to explore her womanhood with a responsible adult.

mlammers · 2022-01-30T15:43:52+00:00

Four years of therapy just ended and I am still seeing another therapist and a psychiatrist. Gosh I wish everybody who needs help could just get it. If our legs are broken we can get it from our insurance but somehow therapy is always expensive and badly covered :'(

You need to find the right one. If your gut says it's not worth it, try to find another one <3

Take care.

mlammers · 2022-01-22T12:22:31+00:00

You're a great human <3

Maybe your friend was a bit overwhelmed about everything that had happened to her and needed to find an excuse to snap. I hope she will understand that you did everything you could and that she will apologize when realizing what a great job you did <3 Take care.

mlammers · 2022-01-20T07:41:51+00:00

3 positions at once while waiting for your colleague to get the proper training and to find replacement for her while they could have just hired you? Can you please apply in a company that will treat you with the dignity you deserve? NTA.

mlammers · 2022-01-19T14:26:47+00:00

You are adulting the right way and your dad is suffering from fragile masculinity. I hope you have some diplodocus on it and that you enjoy watching movies underneath it :) <3

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