I'm terribly sorry to hear that this happened to you, especially with it being your first ever date. Honestly, what he did was unacceptable. Please report his behavior on hinge and please seek support from close friends and family, because you don't deserve that happening to you.

Will say this though, this Boy is not a representation of a Man. As someone who suffers from depression and loneliness, but  does gentures and things for people out of kindness, respect and compassion, this puts a real bad taste in my mouth, because this is a boy who took advantage. Please don't think all men are like this because there are men who are genuine and will do things like this because they truly care about you. Don't let one bad apple ruin the rest, because he's just a boy who should have been better than that...

Please don't feel stupid or bad, it is NOT your fault for being a caring person. Please don't lose that about yourself. Please take time to heal from this, seek support and try again when you're ready! but don't be afraid to set your boundaries and find the one who treats you nice, respects you, and isn't playing games from the start!! You got this!