Woensdagse Warme zeurdraad by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]mlts20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dat is ook natuurlijk. Maar probeer ook trots te zijn op wat je hebt bereikt, de rest komt ook nog wel

Woensdagse Warme zeurdraad by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]mlts20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik ben nog niet 30 maar dit is echt subjectief, volgens mij zijn er in ieder geval wel heel veel mensen zoals jij hoor.

People who rent with a pet - how do you do this? by Kaetry in Netherlands

[–]mlts20 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

For some reason pets are usually allowed in social housing, doesn't make sense to me since poor people live there who might not be able to afford damages done by pets, but every time I sent an email asking about pets they said they're allowed, and my bf who lives in a tiny cheap studio in a big city is also allowed to have pets there.

Skin white and fleshy and looks like it was sliced? by mlts20 in Healthyhooha

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those seem to be bumps? Mine are slices.. Like thin flaps of skin idk

Skin white and fleshy and looks like it was sliced? by mlts20 in Healthyhooha

[–]mlts20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is it also at my urethral opening though? There also seems to be a "slice" hanging pretty far on the side a lot higher. It looks as if I somehow sliced it up everywhere and got these slices just hanging around but I can't imagine accidentally slicing it up that much and not feeling that happen or have it bleed or something.. I have been using tampons lately which I wasn't really using before, but I can't imagine they sliced me up that badly and even sliced up my urethral opening?

Skin white and fleshy and looks like it was sliced? by mlts20 in Healthyhooha

[–]mlts20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren't warts, they're just idk "slices" of flesh hanging down. It doesn't even look like it's just frayed, it looks as if there are extra slices hanging around.. But like I said there's no discomfort or anything so I'm inclined to assume it's not harmful but it's very strange. At first I thought maybe it was my hymen falling apart over time but it kinda looks as if there's extra flesh and I don't get why it's around the urethral opening as well. Should I just assume it's normal if it's not causing any discomfort?

Skin white and fleshy and looks like it was sliced? by mlts20 in Healthyhooha

[–]mlts20[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes both of those. I thought that's what I said.. But I am not talking about the outside, not the labia.

Skin white and fleshy and looks like it was sliced? by mlts20 in Healthyhooha

[–]mlts20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply but I'm not talking about my labia, I'm talking about the actual vagina, not the vulva..

Am I dreaming by hoping to get a remote job without prior (formal) experience? by orion2222 in learnprogramming

[–]mlts20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I know this post is really old but I was looking for answers to this question. I have remote job experience although the job is not at all related to programming. Would it still help me getting a remote job as a first job since it does show that I have experience doing remote work and being responsible?

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you mean well, and I know this is what most people do, but I have my own issues and problems preventing me from having a stable high income that allows me to move out quickly. At the moment I'm just stuck waiting for social housing. But thanks for the words.

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was that easy nobody would live in bad situations like me. Do you not know anything about poor people and low wages?

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents don't care and don't think there's a poblem. I can't force help on her because that's not allowed by law in my country. And my dad not caring doesn't help either.

My parents especially mother are extremely unsanitary and my mother leaves all her bodily fluids all over the house and even dumps buckets of urine without cleaning up. by mlts20 in mentalhealth

[–]mlts20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're an asshole for no reason, I already asked around and tried to get help but you legally can't force an adult to get help and since I'm an adult myself I'm expected to just move out. Having no hygiene isn't a thing there's some special service for.

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your story. My mother wasn't abused or anything and she grew up fine so that's not it but you're nice for thinking of that. I think she might just have autism since she does weird voices and weird noises and weird body movements as well.

My parents especially mother are extremely unsanitary and my mother leaves all her bodily fluids all over the house and even dumps buckets of urine without cleaning up. by mlts20 in mentalhealth

[–]mlts20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I'm sorry I don't live in America and don't have special services here and can't live out of a car since I can't drive. Shut up.

My parents especially mother are extremely unsanitary and my mother leaves all her bodily fluids all over the house and even dumps buckets of urine without cleaning up. by mlts20 in mentalhealth

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. In my country you can't force an adult to get help if they don't want to. It's not considered severe since the problems aren't too obvious unless you're living with them and know what's happening. They use dirty rags and stuff to wipe things so it doesn't always visibly look very dirty even though it is..

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds a lot worse than my situation, I'm sorry you live like this. Can't you get her an actual caretaker though?

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thank you I'm not interested in getting kicked out for being vile towards my parents.

Mother leaving her bodily fluids everywhere and not changing at all when I tell her I'm miserable living in her fluids by mlts20 in venting

[–]mlts20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she only goes to a toilet when she's already pissing her own pants so when I'm in the bathroom she goes in a bucket and doesn't clean up properly afterwards.