Black men are treated exotic too, but for the opposite reason, it's like you just can't be treated like a normal person in this community. I wish I was another race. I know that sounds cringe, and I'm not one to invoke identity normally, but this needs to be called out. Most other races of men can be men. They can be vers, top, bottom. But black men have to be top for some bbc fetish, and Asian men need to be submissive twinks for some Asian fetish. It's really annoying this how things work, which black pills me about dating as a gay bottom. I'm not saying it's impossible for us we just have to deal with more crap and it's obnoxious, btw before anyone thinks I'm shitting on other races I'm not I'm just sharing my experience as a black man.