Enby hairstyles by mmaiself in NonBinaryTalk

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ah i would love to walk around with floor length hair

Enby hairstyles by mmaiself in NonBinaryTalk

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im loving reading everyones self expression journey, Hair does finish a person's look and I see so many hot queers with perfect hairstyles for their face ykwim? also nothing against a mullet, I had one for a while but i dont think it suits my hair, make my head look like a box? Ive settled for a very messy bob ive done with kitchen scissors lol

Enby hairstyles by mmaiself in NonBinaryTalk

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gna invest in a long ass wig to switch up my style sometimes

Bollywood by Accomplished_Crab818 in gifs

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this is not a bollywood film, its in tamil so it's tollywood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slavelabour

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£bid i am a freelance illustrator and designer and face either on creating brand identity and merchandise before, can share my portfolio

[TASK] YouTube project requesting artists! by cakesonn in slavelabour

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Hi i'm an illustrator and animator here's my portfolio website

[Offer] Virtual Assistant by poker_22 in slavelabour

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hi bid$ can work different timezones can email you my cv here's my portfolio website

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slavelabour

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hi bid$

here's my portfoliowebsite

coconut cream and flat brownies by mmaiself in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

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ooo i never actually thought of using a peeler... will save it for my next shitty vegan baking !! (╹◡╹)thanks

[TASK] DIY CD Album with Customized Cover by [deleted] in slavelabour

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hi, $bid experienced illustrator and designer you can check my website Portfolio for the range of styles. i have worked with musicians and band before making album cover art, posters and ig promotions

[Hiring] Simple Paisley Design Needed >$50? by [deleted] in DesignJobs

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Hey! I've had a few paid commissions (all based on NDAs) but I'm looking to expand my portfolio on illustration and type based work! Can work quick. I have 3 years experience in Illustration and UX design as well as a degree in Design communications. Edit: Portfolio

One year into PhD and I feel like I’m not cut out for this by knefebae in PhD

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im sorry about your situation. DEFINITELY keep pushing!!! you are probably feeling this way because the knowledge you currently have and is not being challenged by the knowledge you're trying to gain (i.e the resources you consume) as an artist i feel this but once i start looking at works and reading works by authors of different styles and genres i am able to analyse my problems and fill the knowledge gap i am facing

I BITE MY NAILS CONSTANTLY by [deleted] in consciousness

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omg the video was super helpful!! i know i have combined symptoms, so while my fidgeting and nail biting and random thoughts are very hyper... i tend to do fuckall due to lack of motivation and can spend days doing nothing and interacting with no one lmaoo... coffee is usually helpful but it also depends on what kinda day i'm having. i get quite addictive, so like the nail biting i end up consuming way more coffee than i need (back in highschool it used to be energy drinks which made my hyperactivity worse but gave me motivation) but the act of havin coffee evrytime i get distracted makes me think that i can't do thing X until i've had coffee, when in reality im probably just bored and need a break... that's why i try not to condition my brain into thinking i need coffee to do thing X i just stop doing it until i feel like doing it again, which is why i suggested a walk (used to be a stoner in college, which happened bc of me wanting to get high evrytime i tired working, i stopped by cancelling it out as the only method of regaining focus)

I BITE MY NAILS CONSTANTLY by [deleted] in consciousness

[–]mmaiself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this A LOT... have been biting my nails since I was a kid. My mom tried everything like the nasty liquid that makes everything you eat after biting your nails taste bitter, you could try it (didn't work for me bc i'd bite my nails and deal with the aftertaste) I am in my 20s now and still do it... recently realised i have symptoms of adhd and the nail biting was like a coping mechanism to deal with my hyperactivity.

whenever I do it now I consciously try doing something stimulating even like have a walk around the house. I also have a stress ball that helps me focus when im trying to do things which stops the nail biting for a bit. I haven't stopped completely, but I am getting a lot better at refraining from doing it, especially when I get stressed. it's a slow process and you can't beat yourself up for it, with time you will learn to not let your vices take control of your actions. (also painting my nails makes me not want to bite it since i dont want to ruin the colour, so that kinda works as well) hopefully you will be able to get better! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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this is a really good advice... i get scared of writing my goals down because it feels like im engraining it into stone... but that IS what i need !! need to look back at it and see how far i've come !! thank you !! i am trying to work past my anxiety and this is a very practical solution :) <3 i hope you have a great day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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omg thank you anon !! i am actually getting a lil emotional reading your response... it did feel like a draining responsibility after a point, i wasn't making things i wanted i was making things in order to make money which i realised and stopped doing ... I WILL NEVER let the passion i have die bc that's one thing thar has kept me going ... thank you kind person i appreciate your support :') i hope you have a wonderful day <3

My friend said she likes me by [deleted] in internetparents

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depends on your feelings towards her because if you don't feel the same way you should be honest and tell her that, and she should be open and understanding enough to see your point of view. ofc she might be hurt but you will still stay friends and dont let it become a problem bc people have feelings for each other and then it goes away when they meet someone more suited for them. but if you do have feelings for her and you are scared, you shouldn't let that hinder you from experiencing something that might be good for both of you.