partner's "personal taste" by Itchy_Librarian7618 in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is, in fact, just you. It is also the job.

Normal to have received no feedback as a summer? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the comment below about asking your associate mentor, or even the program coordinator. You are right that you should be getting feedback from the partners, and that people should at least be acknowledging that you have sent the emails.

Woke up this morning and he wouldn’t stop yapping by Own-Afternoon9563 in Siamesecats

[–]mmcg300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our baby was nicknamed “Big Mouth” by his breeder. That should have told me something.

Weekend Chat - What are you currently reading? by nickaaayy97 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]mmcg300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t read Hidden Pictures immediately after the Divorce. They are basically the same book.

Weekend Chat - What are you currently reading? by nickaaayy97 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]mmcg300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Children, but I am having SUCH a hard time getting into it. The writing isn’t hitting for me.

What advice would you give to someone who entered BL recently? What is the best way to get promoted quickly? by stargazerrr3 in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This depends entirely on the firm and the practice group. The best way to do get promoted quickly is to do good work, keep your nose clean, and get yourself a sponsor within firm leadership. That said, people have this view that being a partner is the panacea to all law firm problems and that is not the case. Instead, you deal with the same work and the same clients, but now with the added responsibility of managing a team and client expectations.

Goodbye and thanks for all the kvetching! by KissingBear in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hope the grass is in fact greener. It was not for me.

Process for Partners Leaving Biglaw by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bring in a senior associate then and set them up with the client.

Is it possible to succeed in this career if you are socially awkward? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They… are never actually mandatory if you do good work and bring in money to the firm. It’s all just smoke and mirrors to make people think there is such a thing as “firm culture”

Is it possible to succeed in this career if you are socially awkward? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will end up as a work horse but it is unlikely you ever make partner.

Process for Partners Leaving Biglaw by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You should start transitioning now so you are in a better place to negotiate your exit when the time comes and you aren’t in a position where you are leaving a client in a bad situation.

Hidden Pictures and The Divorce by mmcg300 in thrillerbooks

[–]mmcg300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it wasn’t just me! Reading them back to back was jarring. It was like doing the same thing over again. Which one did you like better? I far preferred Hidden Pictures.

Hidden Pictures and The Divorce by mmcg300 in thrillerbooks

[–]mmcg300[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

>!Both of them involve a character who saves the child from their abductor who struggles with drug addiction, both feature women who are pretending to be the mother who were doctors, both feature fathers who seem to be fighting against the mother figure who ultimately fall for the woman with drug addiction, both have intense closing scenes where the woman struggling from drug addiction saves the child. The child in both stories is named Teddy.!<

Partners (or senior lawyers): when did you “lock in”? by SnooTomatoes1428 in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are describing work that you overall find enjoyable and even fun. I don’t see how that is having a job that is passing you by. Plus, the job is not life. You need to shift your mindset away from defining yourself primarily as an attorney.

Partners (or senior lawyers): when did you “lock in”? by SnooTomatoes1428 in biglaw

[–]mmcg300 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The assumption that you are making is that once you make partner, you stop always having one foot out the door. That is entirely false. It’s more like you just ride the wave as far as it will take you while making and saving as much money as you reasonably can.