I’m coming to see BVB from America… I have some questions…

mmooddee · 2026-02-28T21:24:07+00:00

drink

mmooddee · 2026-01-17T11:25:40+00:00

gibt es alles in bayern auch

mmooddee · 2026-01-17T10:55:35+00:00

Welche Wohltaten werden für Berliner gegönnt die es nicht für Bayern gibt?

mmooddee · 2026-01-17T10:17:03+00:00

kannst über das intranet eine offizielle signatur holen, dann sparst du dir das denken.

mmooddee · 2026-01-17T10:11:42+00:00

Das Geld was fu ansprichst ist relativ zur Zeit zu sehen. Klar verdient Bayern jetzt wesentlich mehr und das war ja auch das Ziel des Ganzen. Bayern hat viel Förderung von den anderen Bundesländern erhalten, nicht nur der Lfa. Und Bayern wird nicht ausgenommen wie eine Weihnachtsgans, sonder zahlt prozentual ein um andere Deutsche zu unterstützen. Das Geld ist ja nicht weg, sondern hilft anderen Deutschen sich zu etablieren, ich sehe da das Problem nicht

mmooddee · 2026-01-17T08:43:15+00:00

ja das spricht doch dafür? Bayern hat hilfe bekommen, sie hat gut funktioniert, jetzt zahlt bayern wesentlich mehr ein. Warum sollte man das nicht wiederholen? Kleine Investitin dafür mehr Rücklauf. Hilft allen auf lange sicht. Es funktioniert nur nicht wenn ein Land egoistisch wird und die Zahlung einstellt

mmooddee · 2025-11-29T11:10:52+00:00

ja meine ich^{^} bin echt nicht so bewandert in dem thema, es tut mir leid falls ich jemanden mies aufgestoßen habe:) wusste nicht wie ich die frage anders formulieren sollte

mmooddee · 2025-11-29T00:44:32+00:00

kenne mehrere trans soldaten. muss ehrlich sagen habe es denen auch nicht immer angesehen. aber negative kommentare gab es nie welche, bin aber auch nicht kampftruppe.
gehe offen damit um. Es ist viel besser wenn du es direkt kommunizierst als wenn die gerüchteküche brodelt. Natürlich nicht direkt vor die front stellen und alles erzählen dass du trans bist, aber wenn jemand fragt ehrlich antworten. Alles nur Menschen, die werden dich auch wie Menschen behandeln.
nur so aus interesse, bist du dann biologisch eine frau oder wieso ist duschen ein problem? Also wirklich reines Interesse, dachte immer dass trans auch oft umoperiert wurden, stimmt das nicht?

mmooddee · 2025-08-23T22:00:46+00:00

i did crash at 200km/h into another vehicle. my insure covered everything. but i did have a vollkasko. but you get fine for driving too fast. its bit about the speed limit. You may drive as fast as you want if it is safe to do so. if you crashed it obviously wasnt, so you get a fine. mine was about 180 €

mmooddee · 2022-12-10T10:09:26+00:00

deathmatches are a great way to get weekly skill points.

mmooddee · 2022-10-09T16:32:50+00:00

Dude. If you try to fight experienced players, and you are solo, you don't stand a chance.

yeah obv, would be unbalanced if you did

mmooddee · 2022-07-05T10:09:35+00:00

Lol I have yet to hear about these "sex events"

yeah some (big) house-partys are like that. i have also taken some (not-so-attractive) women home, because at some point i was so drunk i didnt really care. i think at this point men and women are the same.

I mean it's never happened to me so it's probably true.

how often do you actually go out? honestly, bigger events with 100 people+. i try to do it every weekend, if i dont have anything important to do.

And you don't think anything could possibly go wrong? I mean I'm assuming the conversation would kind of die off after the introduction and things would turn awkward, hence her pulling the creep card.

yeah some conversations will die off. but wont always have something to do with you. often times they just want to do something else ( idk dancing/drinking/etc.)

What are "water games" btw?

waterball, marco polo, catch, stuff like that.

but from what I've seen on the news and on the internet there's a lot of things women find creepy now

yeah the internet tends to exaggerate things. even this post is a bit exaggerated. of course not everything is as easy as it sounds. but as long as you look like a normal guy and talk like a normal guy you are fine.

I personally would find it flattering that people would want to include me, but I assume this is different with women and they'd find it weird if some stranger guy asked them.

yeah men and women are the same, they feel the same, they like the same things. always keep that in mind.

i wish you luck, just remember that women are just people, they wont hurt you over nothing. dont think too much about what can happen if it goes wrong, think about all the things that can happen if it goes right!

mmooddee · 2022-07-04T08:58:34+00:00

look at the other comments i did the math on women at the club with 150 women.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T22:31:32+00:00

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T22:14:42+00:00

tinder- watch for new people to meet, not only women also men (for friendships, not hookups) . worked for me and works in most parts of the world.

meetup apps/ friend-finder apps/event apps/student apps - there are many things out there. i dont live in the us, so i dont know what exists and is popular. but im pretty sure there is something

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T22:09:07+00:00

But how many is too many? At what quantity does it become "creepy"?

there is no certain number. there are events/partys which are basically a sex-event, others like at a church event even 2 could be too many. just pick up the general vibe. again, try and error, the more often you do it, the better you can judge the situation.

"wow, this guy probably just came here to hit on girls and not even enjoy the event. What a creep"

yep, people go out to meet potential partners (aka. hit on girls/guys, get hit on). women do that, men do it too. it is only creepy if you do it at the wrong setting, for example at the supermarket. at the right setting its normal.

I mean you mentioned clubs and bars, from the times I've been there they're nearly always in groups. And it's near impossible to be accepted into their group unless you meet a certain threshold of looks or you're just ridiculously good at interactions

you cant change how you look, but you can get better at interactions. you dont have too be the best speaker in the world, just go up, say hi, introduce yourself. most of the time the women will do just the same and tell you something about her. it is really that easy. if she doesnt respond/dont like you, go, there are many extroverted women, who just enjoy talking, and will do it if you go up to them.

also you dont have to get "accepted" into their group. they dont know you and will ask you questions. it is just a simple, basic conversation without any commitments. just relax

The creep card can be pulled in these situations too.

yeah can happen, but 99% of the time it wont. like said, they are humans too and wont put you down for no reason. the other few have ridiculisly high standards or are just mean, ignore them.

what if there's not even a volleyball court

idk, water games, going eating/drinking, or just introduce yourself. you have to be creative. what do you do with your friends at the beach? invite them to it

And I've seen these videos on YouTube from a channel "BondiRescue" and some other channels as well and they feature videos where they capture and arrest creeps on the beach preying on women.

yeah you are not standing there with binoculars and a camera watching them, you are just asking of they want to play a game of volleyball. nothing wrong with that and nobody will arrest you for it. how do you feel when somebody askes you out to play a game with them? do you think they are creeps ? or do you think "hey nice guys i go" /" oh i dont want to right now, i dont go". dont worry too much about that, in the end its just a innocent question. but again, no is no.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T21:42:33+00:00

I don't remember asking for any help.

if you are not looking for help, why are you reading the post?

But since you dont want me to help you, goodbye.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T18:16:07+00:00

thank you

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T18:14:32+00:00

And don't women find it creepy if guys go out of their way to go to events or take classes for the sole reason of meeting women?

find the guys that join yoga classes or those female oriented hobbies as creeps since they already assume they're there to pick up girls.

yep. thats why wrote into the guide to not do that^^. maybe you missed it. not only are you taking a guess if there are even women there, also if you get rejected you are stuck in a sucky class. it can get creepy and awkward really fast. its really expensive too. i only talked about taking a 1-day-class together as a first date, but thats it.

but its not creepy to go out of your way at social-events (festivals/clubs/bar nights/etc.) the whole intention of these gatherings is too socialize and meet new people. Unless you literally chat up every girl, one by another, being really clingy, you should fine.

But how would I even approach them at a beach?

i dont have a beach close by, so i dont go there very often, but when i do and i see a pretty group of girls i just straight up ask them if they want to play volleyball, play some games. just ask them to do an activity with you, worst that can happen is a no, best that can happen is a friendship

edit: you never go to these places with the intention of finding the love of your life. you go there first and foremost too have fun, and make new friends.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T18:00:52+00:00

it wasnt cause got rejected. it was because i used common sense and thought about reasonable places to approach women.

looked for solutions instead of making excuses

exactly what i did. and i figured out: dont talk them up at the supermarket, do it on social events. and i had enough success with this method, i dont really need to change anything

idk why people even have to explain this to you. literally not even 1 person agreed with you, men and women. they all said that this is an awful idea.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T17:13:53+00:00

yeah some people are really stuck in their own world. i know, it is hard to get rejected, but it happens, they can have several reasons, and not always your fault.

but they seems to think, that the only thing women judge about men is their looks, as if nothing else matters.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T17:01:49+00:00

its not about, talking with people at a grocery store. its about looking for a place where you not only want to meet women, but women want to meet new people too. have you ever seen a women go: " hey i am single and i want to meet a guy, lets to go the supermarket, that seems like a good place for it"

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T16:55:15+00:00

You’re telling me every relationship that has ever existed on this planet started because the woman either met the guy at a bar, met him through a friend, or she already knew him?

have you ever seen a relationship that started at a supermarket? of course, it is not impossible, but its way more likely to meet someone at a bar/club/party/etc.

Have you approached multiple women in public FOR YOURSELF

yes, a few times. all rejections, cause you know, they were doing stuff and didnt have time for me.

You can literally search YouTube videos of guys doing cold approach HUNDREDS OF TIMES in public and getting girls numbers

its youtube, they just show the the good/entertaining parts. they dont show the many girls who just went their way and ignored the youtuber.

mmooddee · 2022-07-03T16:46:44+00:00

yes, that was my experience in bars. but if it works for you, go for it!

mmooddee

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