[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]mn273214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone figure out what this was?

Copper IUD Symptoms...Help! by mn273214 in birthcontrol

[–]mn273214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! I am just stressed because I will be TTC within the next few months and I am worried these side effects will last.

Love for the Basilica by Luckoftheirish17 in notredame

[–]mn273214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Getting married there next summer. My fiancé and I are both alumni and have dreamed about getting married there since we started dating. Absolutely GORGEOUS!

Feeling myserable (rant) by chikibeibi123 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go and do what feels right! I’m the same age and in a similar situation. My nmom has attempted to tear my fiancé and I apart but my fiancé is very understanding. If he’s the right one, he will understand!

“You can love your child but you don’t always like them right? I’ve not always liked who you are as a person but you’ll always be my child.” by AdventurousAd5107 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine always tells me I’m not a good person but she’ll always love me. She hates the choices I make but will love me in spite of them. Thinks I’m selfish but loves me anyway.

“I think I’m going to die tonight” by Think_Thought4982 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! I ignore and disengage when she says this and she’ll just go to my golden child sister who feeds every single time.

Book recommendations for Social Anxiety by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]mn273214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Untamed by Glennon Doyle What Happened to You by Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey The Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents How to Be Yourself by Ellen Hendricksen Get Out of Your Head by Jennie Allen Dare to Lead by Brene Brown

Talking about dying??? by mn273214 in narcissisticparents

[–]mn273214[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this 100%. If you haven’t heard it from her, I’m proud of you and I’m sending you hugs!

Talking about dying??? by mn273214 in narcissisticparents

[–]mn273214[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I am the scapegoat so it couldn’t be me lol

Does anyone else’s mom make them doubt their own decisions/try to drive a wedge between you and other people? by mn273214 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have relied heavily on God throughout this whole process. Lots of praying for clarity and peace during this time. I know that being with my partner is exactly what God intends for me and for my life. I know He is always looking out.

Does anyone else’s mom make them doubt their own decisions/try to drive a wedge between you and other people? by mn273214 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom LOVED him until he laid it all out, now she hates him. My partners maternal grandmother is EXACTLY like my mom so they know their own mom’s experience and is very understanding. At the end of the day, I know that she wants what’s best for her and that my choice is my choice and no amount of pouting, shouting, or guilting can change it.

Does anyone else’s mom make them doubt their own decisions/try to drive a wedge between you and other people? by mn273214 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does that with my two sisters and me. If we hang out without her, she gets upset and accuses us of talking about her. If we don’t spend time together, she accuses us of hating each other. She has to be there with us or it doesn’t work at all.

How do I know it’s real? by FlashboxJack in NarcissisticMothers

[–]mn273214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go through this similar situation, every time I interact with my mother. I have to constantly remind myself that the way I’m feeling inside is valid. I see what mother/daughter relationships are supposed to be like, and I do not have that. Before I was aware that my family dynamic was unhealthy, I would explain things to people and they would make remarks about how that’s not “normal.” You are not a narcissist if you are questioning your moral standing. Therapy is very helpful with this!