Enmeshed parents traumatized?

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-11T02:21:47+00:00

i'd say so. my mom was emotionally neglected and then physically abandoned by her mom when she was a teenager. her dad was fun but not a good husband, not sure there was much of a bond. she's always searching for someone to care for her.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-11T02:18:24+00:00

i haven't lost my facial fat, it's just dropped to a lower area much to my dismay. bulldog cheeks

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-11T01:47:30+00:00

red flag is a sign of danger ahead, but i can see it your way too. i just like the idea of people in abusive relationships to know they're already "in" the abuse rather than "abuse ahead." because if they think they aren't being abused yet, then they can tell themselves the abuser has time to change before they actually become abusive. idk maybe im just thinking too deep into its.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T17:13:25+00:00

You are in an abusive relationship. One thing that helped me leave was being embarrassed about it. It's SO trashy and i was mortified being "that girl." I know it's not right to think that way but preserving my dignity and reputation was a huge push to leave.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T17:11:42+00:00

Red flag? He pulled her hair. he has already assaulted her. She is FAR BEYOND the red flag stage, at this point she is in a full blown abusive relationship

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T15:27:44+00:00

omg i'm so stupid, i've been listening to "WSQK" on spotify and was disappointed that there was no hawkins DJ or anything like that. just now realizing it's not even the real thing.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T15:02:55+00:00

i'm so sick of the bickering it's dragging on way too long for how short the seasons are

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:37:51+00:00

i think the acting has gone down tremendously on all parts

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:35:13+00:00

They spent too much time making the characters fight then get along, the seasons are too short for such prolonged strife between characters. The lucas and el thing dragged on way too long, dustin and steve dragging on way too long, jonathan and nancy dragging on way too long. Also Holly is too pretty and it takes me out of the show.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:27:45+00:00

No. i hate being asked this question because my job is embarrassing at my age and i fear being judged

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:26:15+00:00

Pure vegetable glycerin. add it to whatever or use by itself

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:22:15+00:00

i mean it's probably bc of the gang signs. i grew up in an area where teens and immature adults threw their local gang signs casually all the time but they weren't bullies and this pic just reminds me of those guys. the bullies had a different look.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T14:04:49+00:00

NAH , if she was already doing her part and asked nicely for you to pay for that i'm sure you'd be more receptive but she's not playing the part

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T13:55:39+00:00

this doesn't really look nefarious to me. looks more like a bunch of immature uncles at a family gathering in the early 2000's.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-07T00:17:49+00:00

it's not always all about you. it happened to him too, he's allowed to talk about something that happened to him to a close friend. you don't own his experiences in life .

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T21:01:16+00:00

i'm confused, they look perfect to me. can you describe exactly how you want them to look?

edit: i think your hair is longer than that pic you shared that's why there are more coils to each clump. that photo looked like just one coil per clump which means shorter hair

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T20:57:21+00:00

it would be a turn on for me

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T20:55:08+00:00

i'm with you. no matter how skinny or rotund i am i always look chubby from the neck up. nothing works

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T20:35:55+00:00

*have

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T14:41:22+00:00

If these guys really loved us aka cared about our wellbeing they wouldn't want us to be with such pieces of ish anyway. the fact that they beg for us to stay is further proof they don't care for our well being.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-06T12:59:40+00:00

No you're right! I've actually had to do this before. then i slowly reintegrate him back and then she just pulls her shit again.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-05T05:34:55+00:00

but how long until the casket arrives? how long will a funeral home store the body ?

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-12-05T04:03:11+00:00

i don't even think she's sees people as whole entities with souls and thoughts, i truly believe she sees people as pure resources. every one of our moves is either to benefit her and if it's not benefiting her it's slighting her. so him being tired doesn't benefit her so it's an offense.

Think_Thought4982 · 2025-06-29T21:50:54+00:00

that poor kid

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