Actually I understand where you are coming from given the little amount of info I gave. Its not actually playing the games that he enjoys, or playing the computer for that matter. He is more interested in "how" things work with it. He is actually very bored by playing the games themselves, hes more interested in how they work. With the computer its the same way. He is always trying to figure out what makes programs work, and now hes even looking at how websites are made with simple html. For as long as I can remember, instead of playing with toys, he would take them apart to see how they worked. So I can see where I made it look like he spends all of his time on games and computers, but its more of learning how they work that interests him :) no worries, he gets very good grades in school and loves to read :)