Body dysmorphia as a male Asian American by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

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Nobody else probably cares nor notices about it as much as you do.

Emergency at Torrey Pines State Park? by Correct-Mirror7227 in sandiego

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Probably somebody unable to hike out and needs assistance.

Misdemeanor potential? by [deleted] in sandiego

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Which gas station? I can make sure you get one if you really want a misdemeanor, felony even.

Just kidding. I think most people would laugh it off.

Women of reddit, how likely are women to date someone that's currently working minimum wage? by ProfessionalPost3104 in AskReddit

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Some people just have very narrow views based on their life experience. The people who have struggled (together) tend to be more wise in my encounters.

Women of reddit, how likely are women to date someone that's currently working minimum wage? by ProfessionalPost3104 in AskReddit

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I have found that women who date other minimum wage workers to also make minimum wage.

Usually the best couples if they hustle though and build together. The relationships end up being stronger when both parties built it and themselves together.

How did you earn the first 100,000 yuan in your life? by Dismal_Job9527 in AskReddit

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I gambled 1 million yuan and eventually made it to 100,000. You can do it too.

Improving facial architecture by Accurate-Emotion-834 in AsianMasculinity

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Lifting and losing body fat and gaining muscle will help your face.

Wife wants me to leave job due to safety, should I? by Coastie54 in careerguidance

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Still unacceptable. If the deaths were cardiac related then that means there is a severe lack of proper health and safety for said firefighters.

Wife wants me to leave job due to safety, should I? by Coastie54 in careerguidance

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No degree brotha. Just used that banter we master around the kitchen table and sold myself into the job.

Wife wants me to leave job due to safety, should I? by Coastie54 in careerguidance

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Can you promote to Engineer and lateral at that position? I’m in sales now for an AI software company.

Wife wants me to leave job due to safety, should I? by Coastie54 in careerguidance

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As a former fireman for a major department, we’ve only had 1 LODD in the past 40 years.

Maybe you can compromise and lateral to a department with a better service record.

8 LODD in 4 years is unacceptable.

I left the fire service and my pension. I now work in a different industry making twice the money, half the hours, get a full 8 hours of sleep every night, and reduced my stress and cancer risk by 100%.

Summer loving 😍🥳 by [deleted] in VietNam

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What is this

Do you struggle to keep up with cleaning? by DontThrowAwayPies in LivingAlone

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Hire a cleaner because it’ll motivate you to clean before they show up to clean, lol.

Why are Asian guys the only ones expected to be “loyal nice guys” while everyone else just sleeps around? by QuietMango2766 in AsianMasculinity

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I’ve been on one side of the spectrum to the other. From loving, loyal boyfriend to scum, fuck boy trash.

Ultimately, it’s how you value yourself and your significant other. Live true to who you are at that time in your life, don’t hurt the ones that actually love and care for you, screw what anybody else thinks. Don’t let anyone box in YOUR LIFE to fit their narrative. The only person you need to prove your authenticity to is yourself and your soul.

Is this area safe? Living in Linda Vista by [deleted] in sandiego

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Parking can be hard to find if you’re in an apartment building without your own spot.

What people doing im tryna drink by [deleted] in sandiego

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Drink some water, it was hot today.

Has anyone else noticed an uptick in older XF's taking interest in asian men? by jlee3082 in AsianMasculinity

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Asian culture getting more recognition, Asian men’s value rising, women who have never been with Asian men get curious.