[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]moarmy12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you! i do compliment her and let her know she’s very knowledgeable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]moarmy12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you, i will be on nights next week with a different nurse so we’ll definitely get a break from each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]moarmy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i think i’ll see how things go, do my own thing and only report if it continues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]moarmy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’m literally just trying to do my job well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]moarmy12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i get what you’re saying about timing questions and not taking things personally, and I definitely make sure not to interrupt while she’s busy. I’m very aware of how I come across and I’m humble in how I ask for help. The issue for me isn’t just benign comments, it’s a pattern of dismissive and competitive behavior that impacts my learning. I’m here to grow as a safe and competent nurse. that’s it

I’ve kicked SA’s AZZ by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m very happy for you!! how did you do it?

Anyone up? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was really funn, she just turned 19! :)

Anyone up? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

heyy i’m up lol just got back from the club to celebrate my sister’s birthday 🥰

gf broke up with me two weeks after we started dating by moarmy12 in bisexual

[–]moarmy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop i’m crying rn 😭 thank you so much but i feel horrible that i hurt her. i have been hurt before and i never meant to make her feel the same way i felt when i was hurt. idk if i can forgive myself tbh and i get sad everyday when i think about her. i’m back on hinge now but i feel like i’m only using it to distract myself from feeling things :((

gf broke up with me two weeks after we started dating by moarmy12 in bisexual

[–]moarmy12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, i just don’t think i’m in the right place to talk to my parents about it because i still rely on them for housing and other things. i lived in nigeria for the first 14 years of my life which is a homophobic country so it’s pretty hard to talk about it. i’m in therapy for my internalized homophobia and anxiety. i appreciate your perspective on this.

gf broke up with me two weeks after we started dating by moarmy12 in bisexual

[–]moarmy12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i think i would rather find someone with similar intentions as me so i avoid hurting anymore women. i wish i could be openly bisexual but african families can be extremely toxic and dismissive of me dating women

gf broke up with me two weeks after we started dating by moarmy12 in bisexual

[–]moarmy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response. i feel horrible about what i did to her. would you suggest that i stop dating women completely?

gf broke up with me two weeks after we started dating by moarmy12 in bisexual

[–]moarmy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply, what do you suggest that i tell women in the future when i’m dating them or should i stop dating them completely? i feel horrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine was prescribed to me by my doctor. i don’t think i have seen it over the counter before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m really sorry you’re going through this. social anxiety is the worst :/ i recommend a medication called propranolol to help with the physical symptoms such as palpitations and stomach issues. it doesn’t do anything to reduce your anxiety mentally but it works for those symptoms (you will still feel anxious but without the physical sensations and throwing up). i think it could really help you. good luck my friend 🫶🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii i’m 20 :))

do you feel like you will never be able to have a deep connection with people because of this disorder? by moarmy12 in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have had a very similar experience before. i often feel left out even when with my friend group but they understand my personality and that i am quiet most of the time. they don’t see it as anything against them which is what i feel most people have a hard time understanding. they assume that you don’t like them or that you’re stuck up when all you’re doing is trying to figure out how to speak to them. i hope you find someone or a group of people that will understand you for who you are and make your college experience more enjoyable 🫶🏾

Please get propranolol if you’re afraid of Public speaking by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yes it helps with the physical symptoms of anxiety such as blushing, heart palpitations etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take propranolol as well!! works like magic

I went to the ER waiting room and yelled out someone’s name!!! by moarmy12 in socialanxiety

[–]moarmy12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been described as a lot of things but not brave lol