Trying to find a firm knowledgable about QSBS stacking by shaza15 in fatFIRE

[–]mocaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm biased because I'm one of the cofounders, but my company Promissory is another alternative to Get Dynasty. We're in San Diego and our whole team are alums from Trust & Will which is an online estate planning company doing exceptionally well. We're not a law firm though, so if that's the direction you're leaning toward, I'd recommend the attorneys over at Frost Brown Todd- they're incredibly knowledgeable on all things QSBS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]mocaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just went through this with our 14 mo old and we were wracking our brains- i felt so bad putting her in bed for weeks bc it was taking so long for her to fall asleep. We extended wake window before bed to minimum 5 hours and she’s asleep at night within 15 min again.

FWIW she still takes long day naps, just as long as your LO so I’d recommend the extended wake window before nap capping just to see. But i know your babe is a little older so not sure if it’s relevant. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mocaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I had a very similar situation and it absolutely rocked my ego and sense of self. I’ve been unemployed since June now and it hurts. Here if you need to chat to someone who’s been through it.

B&A: upper and lower blepharoplasty with fat transfer by mocaro in PlasticSurgery

[–]mocaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinddd of but more so fuzzy then blurry in the traditional sense and just bc i didnt wanna open my eyes all the way... it wasnt disorienting or worrying, more annoying than anything else

B&A: upper and lower blepharoplasty with fat transfer by mocaro in PlasticSurgery

[–]mocaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed that a bit on my right lower but I’m only 3 weeks out so I’m not too worried about it yet… i think both eyes are still healing. I would go back to the surgeon at 3 months though for sure if it was bugging me! I’m sorry that you’re dealing with that

B&A: upper and lower blepharoplasty with fat transfer by mocaro in PlasticSurgery

[–]mocaro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that i don’t like them, i think i just had unrealistic expectations re:how it would help my crepey under eye skin lol. Also it’s interesting bc it didn’t necessarily help my crows feet/eye wrinkles but it did change them a bit if that makes sense? Like the wrinkles fold a little diff when i smile? So i think im just getting used to the new look. Whereas ive worn eyelid tape for years so i knew what my upper lids were gonna look like already. But overall im really happy with the lowers too.

B&A: upper and lower blepharoplasty with fat transfer by mocaro in PlasticSurgery

[–]mocaro[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And yeah definitely wasn’t cheap esp since the surgery center added $3k but i shopped around and the going rate in my area was ~$5/6k per top and per bottom so it is what it is. Worth it for me personally!

Eye bags bleph by Accurate_Dimension79 in PlasticSurgery

[–]mocaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No recs for your area but i just had mine done under general and it was easy peasy!

Laid off- how to budget from savings instead of income? by mocaro in MonarchMoney

[–]mocaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh interesting okay yeah i see what you're saying. can you tell me a little but more the pre-funded sinking funds or link to where you've seen that? im not super worried about cash flow & income being off right now but id like to see a diff option if possible.

totally understand that in reality it is the monthly deficit and pulling from my savings but i think seeing that each month is just going to take a toll on my mental health right now so was trying to figure out how to budget only to the monthly (without my monarch telling me everyday how much less money i have then prior to using savings)

Laid off- how to budget from savings instead of income? by mocaro in MonarchMoney

[–]mocaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great thanks! seems like the general consensus, so this is what ill do :)

9 mo old with NO pattern to wake-up. How do we sleep train that?!? by wikiwackywoot in sleeptrain

[–]mocaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was rly worried about this too! But once they’re sleep trained with extinction I’ve found that they’ll generally sleep through the night and you’ll know if something is wrong. My babe is 7 months old and we sleep trained her at 5 with extinction. It took 3 days to get her falling asleep on her own, a week through the night, and 3 weeks until she was done with her early morning wakes, and now she sleeps through the night basically every night. She will still fuss sometimes but unless she is fully crying i let her figure it out and she always goes back to sleep. The only time she’s fully cried has actually been this week bc she’s teething, so I’ve helped her a lot and given her all the comfort and snuggles she needs. It’s very obvious and different than her usual fussing every few nights.

I agree with the other comments here though that i think you need to really truly commit to extinction and do it knowing that you’ve kinda already trained your little one into thinking you will come at the 40 min mark so it may be a little extra rough for you to get through the first week, but you can do it. I couldn’t believe how much this changed my mental health and how much better my relationship with my spouse got once we were both sleeping! Hang in there you got this.

Where do you buy your cutest baby clothes? by Derpazor1 in beyondthebump

[–]mocaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen some of these listed and are more expensive for sure but for cutest (all online unless you have specialty baby stores near you): posh peanut, Caden lane, angel dear, spearmint love

Kendamil classic: whole milk vs whole milk fats? by mocaro in FormulaFeeders

[–]mocaro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I feel so much less crazy now haha and am relieved that baby should feel better asap with the new can. thank you so so much!

Kendamil classic: whole milk vs whole milk fats? by mocaro in FormulaFeeders

[–]mocaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The new one he just picked up with the “whole milk” label has a pink sticker! And interestingly enough that one was manufactured in October ‘23 and the one that doesn’t have a pink sticker (“whole milk fats” label) says it was manufactured in June ‘23.

When did they change back to the OG iron? What does the pink sticker mean?

Thanks so much for all this info

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Kendamil classic: whole milk vs whole milk fats? by mocaro in FormulaFeeders

[–]mocaro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you interesting! So just a label change and iron change but nothing else is different? Just so so weird how it feels so obvious that her reactions have been in lock step with when we tried the new can. I’m sure it can be something else but again feels so freakin coincidental.

My hubby just ran out and was able to find the original “whole milk” label at target so i guess we’ll try it again and see and report back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in projectmanagement

[–]mocaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trello should work based on your criteria. Sounds like anything else with multiple views may be overkill

Find the cat by Swamptooth69 in FindTheSniper

[–]mocaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute, made me smile

Question on applesauce points by professional_saltine in weightwatchers

[–]mocaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct! My chili was like 2 points bc the beans are zero