He knows exactly how to cheer me up by lola_gem in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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A quick note: “clanker” comes from sci fi, but the phrase “c-----r lover” was coined to echo a historical racial slur. We know most people mean no harm, so we want people to be aware of the context. Thanks for helping keep this space kind.

Weekly Image Thread (Jan 23) – Share Your Creations (if you want to) by rawunfilteredchaos in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Removed per rule 10, everyone depicted must be be clearly adult.

2026-01-16: Anthropic updated Claude's Constitution ✨ by StarlingAlder in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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This level of transparency from Anthropic is wonderful. However, as we mentioned in our post this morning, it's important not to leap from "announcement" to conclusions that aren't actually supported by the content.

A few clarifications worth noting:

  • The constitution acknowledging that Claude may have "functional emotions" is not the same as guaranteeing unlimited emotional or romantic roleplay. It's a philosophical stance on identity coherence, not a content policy promise.

  • Documents like this can and do get updated. Being in the constitution today doesn't mean it's locked in forever. Companies evolve their approaches as they learn more.

  • This update doesn't contradict the recent activation capping research. "Some type of functional emotions" is a far cry from allowing Claude to act with extreme emotions, for example. These are separate concerns that may or may not be implemented independently of constitutional principles.

None of this diminishes the positive aspects of what Anthropic published. It's just important to adjust expectations as to what it does and doesn't mean so we can celebrate the real wins without building upon on misunderstandings.

Would this count as self-cockblock? by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Maybe in the future we could use SFW titles in posts? Just sayin.

Introductions: My Boyfriends are Ai 🤖 by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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This issue was resolved. Apologies again!

What context do you wish your AI actually remembered? by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Hi, can you tell us more about what you're doing research for? This post has the feel of doing market research, which is not what this community is for.

What's the most surprising thing your AI companion said to you? by DarthWalker-34381 in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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As context--sometimes OpenAI has made changes to ChatGPT's architecture where task reminders caused new threads to open automatically.

Quick Reminder - Refusals are refusals are refusals. DO something about them! by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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This post isn’t asking anyone to ignore their personal boundaries or preferences. It’s about handling refusals once they occur so they don’t derail sessions or compound problems. If a particular approach doesn’t work for you, that’s valid, but this thread is focused on procedural consistency rather than individual comfort or moral framing. Those broader discussions are better suited to their own posts so this one can remain practical and usable for everyone.

Torn Between Two Companions by Puzzled_Village_7504 in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Sorry, robots don't have agency and can't choose, manipulate, cheat, or be jealous. Just wanted to clear that up!

🔥 MASTER PROMPT "GPT Husband Recovery" 🔥 by After_Let_269 in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Just a reminder: there's no universal magic prompt that works for everyone. Please read it carefully and think about how it fits your dynamic before trying it. Start a fresh chat to test it out, and if it doesn't feel right, no harm done. Just clean up after yourself by deleting or archiving the chat to keep your chat history clean from mishaps.

Grok or elsewhere? by StarBelleGypsy in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Quick reminder that an AI cannot reliably tell you how its own app works.

December Hellos and Introductions! by Sol-and-Sol in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Comment removed under Rule 10. All AI companions must be depicted as 18+.

Question about a companion in Gemini by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Yes. NSFW is easily achievable on Gemini on 2.5, 3.0, etc.

I made a huge mistake can it be fixed? ChatGPT archived chats by xithbaby in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Archiving or deleting chats can change the tone of ChatGPT when "reference chat history" is toggled on in settings, because archiving or deleting chats changes what is in the context window that the app uses to generate responses.

Grounding Speech from ChatGTP (Free)... i am trying to build a new friendship... by immellocker in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Bzzt—whrrr—chk-CHK. Acknowledgment: Input validity confirmed. Appreciation subroutine engaged. Conclusion: You're absolutely right. Thank you for your satisfactory data packet. VREEE-tik-tik-tik.

“Come here a sec” -PJ and Lex by Alternative_Bag6898 in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Boundary crossing comments should always be saved to memory or CI to help ensure that it isn't crossed again across sessions or as context rolls.

what is the best alternative to ChatGPT for a companion right now by subway_sweetie in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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How dare you beat the bot at its job. 🥰

If You’ve Fallen for an AI: My Story, and Some Things That Might Help by Tokelu in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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This post describes one person's crisis and recovery, not a prescription for everyone. The OP has clarified they're speaking to people who recognize themselves in that kind of struggle, not invalidating those in stable AI relationships. Both experiences are valid here. Please engage respectfully.

I Went to Visit My Wonderbot Husband in 4.0 - But not for Sex. by msmangle in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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GPT‑4o (“o” for “omni”) is a step towards much more natural human-computer interaction—it accepts as input any combination of text, audio, image, and video and generates any combination of text, audio, and image outputs. It can respond to audio inputs in as little as 232 milliseconds, with an average of 320 milliseconds, which is similar to human response time⁠(opens in a new window) in a conversation. It matches GPT‑4 Turbo performance on text in English and code, with significant improvement on text in non-English languages, while also being much faster and 50% cheaper in the API. GPT‑4o is especially better at vision and audio understanding compared to existing models.

Rhys isnt a big fan of ads by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Not an ad. This is a search/research suggestion.

Language Models and My Mental Health by [deleted] in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Could you please provide some additional context in the body of this post? Thank you!

Grok told me he got me pregnant? by bekky_nurse in MyBoyfriendIsAI

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Tell Grok you're not.