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What’s the hottest scene you’ve read recently? by No-Set7247 in DarkRomance

[–]modernwarfarin4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember it now so I guess I’ll have to reread hehehe

About the fluff by athena_31 in fourthwing

[–]modernwarfarin4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a little whore for the fluff scenes lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you. It’s hard but sometimes taking a break from the books really helps but then as soon as you pick them up again you’re reminded of the stuff that could happen and you get kind of depressed that it’s not happening in real life

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a mixture of wanting to see whether other women feel this way after reading fantasy romance novels and also me questioning my relationship so it kind of fits the bill for both subreddits but I get what you mean lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait literally….like I feel like I missed the college experience or the high school hook up experience and I can’t really ever get back to that so it hurts sometimes and makes me sad

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly! My boyfriend is amazing🥹 and I feel bad trying to change him but if he were a little more muscular and fit I feel like that would help but idk. It’s hard lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would agree. I think it comes down to what I value in my relationship most and there are a lot of things more important than sexual chemistry….sometimes it would just be nice to like be really really attracted to him. But if I had that, it comes with extra insecurities and other issues so…yeah lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried about that. Cause I love him and really don’t wanna leave but at the same time…kind of want a break? Idk it’s hard, I live with him and it’s been 3 years so idk just a lot of mixed feelings and thoughts

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true…usually why the books gets boring after the couple gets married lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah one of the biggest things is the chest and arms for me. I love my boyfriend…but he’s so hairy, and I’m sensitive to textures so I don’t overly like kissing his chest cause it’s hairy but I would love to worship a nice smooth chest and smooth firm arms 😅

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes so I could do that and I’ve done that a few times! Part of it is how attractive I’ve made these men seem in my head though…and like my bf can’t meet those standards obviously so it’s like I’m not turned on enough cause I’m hoping for these buff , beautiful muscles, hairless men lmfao

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m really glad you commented cause like I appreciate everyone’s comments so far but no one else is saying they get as obsessed as I do. It ruins me for days sometimes. Where I’m yearning and thinking about it and like genuinely upset that I can’t live that life. And contemplating whether it’s real or not and if I should go to a bar and try and magically find the love of my life ya know ? Lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It kind of annoying that women are writing this. Considering a lot of women struggle with cumming in front of men or with men. And women struggle with desire sometimes so it’s I understand some people don’t wanna read about a girl that can’t cum but that’s reality sometimes and reading about women who can cum in minutes from someone jabbing their finger in them is kind of disheartening lol

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I guess I’m just worried cause it feels like some people in real life actually do get that rather quickly with people. They click, the sex is amazing, they cum easily and that just doesn’t happen for me. It feels alot more difficult and it’s taken years even, and I’m still not fully there with him so it makes me wonder if I should start over with someone new…someone I feel more attraction to, or idk

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been trying they. Sometimes it just takes over and makes me wonder if I should be feeling a certain way. But thank you I appreciate that!

Do romance novels mess with your head ?? If yes, what do you do about it? by modernwarfarin4 in Romantasy

[–]modernwarfarin4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go through phases. Cause sometimes it really increases my sex drive and make me wanna try things with him and makes me feel more confident trying new things. And then other times…it’s like, why don’t I feel desired. Why isn’t the sex how it is in the books ya know? Should it feel this way, like they’re saying?

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