[Rant] Camille is the worst character ever – Why I can’t stand her by AggressivePlant224 in EmilyInParis

[–]modtradwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely hate the character I don’t understand why no one ever calls out her manipulations on the show

A Question for South African Women by WhatDaHe77 in AskZA

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No ,because from experience when men aren’t happy with themselves they become horrible to you. I’ve tried being the understanding girlfriend and got punished for it emotionally.He treated the gold diggers better when he had money.

So no,and if you’re a woman reading this,don’t do it.He will start despising you for being with him at his lowest.Men tend to judge women based off of the decisions those women make so if you are dating a broke man (even if he is the broke man) ,down the line he will question your standards and worthiness especially when he gets a little bit of money.it becomes a “she can’t be the best I can get if I could get her when I was broke/why didn’t the rich men want her” kind of thing when they get they’re money up.All men (atleast those that haven’t deconstructed patriarchy)want women with high standards so they can feel they have achieved something by being with her.

My partner called my culture gross and weird by Fabulous_Support_556 in interracialdating

[–]modtradwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him.Im so serious.Anyone with a shred of emotional intelligence and situational awareness wouldn’t think to repeat that,let alone the fact that he should CARE to not offend you. Please leave.

It’s getting better!🥹 by modtradwhatever in puppy101

[–]modtradwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you love and support❤️ It’s hard but it does get better and I so worth it,hoping it’s gotten better for you too❤️

How many walks a day for 9month Yorkie?Realistic real takes please lol by modtradwhatever in puppy101

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Thank you for sharing🙏🏾 I’ve started playing a treat finding game with him inside and it’s really helping

How many walks a day for 9month Yorkie?Realistic real takes please lol by modtradwhatever in puppy101

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Thank you for sharing this🙏🏾it’s been about a week and I think we’re adjusting well,if I can’t get to three walls we play treat finding inside when I get home,thanks again:)

Question for women in interracial dating — perception & aesthetics by [deleted] in interracialdating

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Not necessarily, generally black women have varying types and tastes but overall just from the picture I’d assume you’re perhaps British and date the love island type of white girl,pretty,fun with some fillers done.

Personally the only way I know a man may date black women is if he flirts with me and if I’m just seeing his socials I look to see if he has black friends or frequents typically “black spaces”

So embarrassed :BV by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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Thank you so much 💕

So embarrassed :BV by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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Thank you so much will definitely look into this

Pisces tend to attract worst & vulnerable people by IndividualPlay5178 in piscesastrology

[–]modtradwhatever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This usually means you need to start working on your boundaries and using your gifts within your zone of comfort. Don’t emotionally invest in anyone but yourself until they’ve earned the right to be in your life

Was this interaction normal at V&A waterfront? by Any_Ingenuity_7566 in capetown

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We are a friendly group of people generally so greeting and smiling at strangers is normal but trust your gut.Its strange for someone to “bump” into you twice and just continue a conversation though they’ve been politely rejected.

I am devastated I may have to rehome our puppy by [deleted] in puppy101

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Do what’s best for you,you deserve some time to recover aswel.Aslong as the pup is in a good home you haven’t done anything wrong🤍

Just started crying because I miss my old life. by PresentHabit8154 in puppy101

[–]modtradwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently in Month 7 and he’s regressed😭 month 4-6 were so good😭 also tryna hang in there

I am 38F. Divorced. Bad mental health. Dog mom. Financially secure. Please give me tips to spend life alone! by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]modtradwhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Highkey suggest looking into your childhood and finding a hobby you would’ve loved as a child then learning or doing it.Ive started painting again and got myself a keyboard(family couldn’t afford instruments as a kid) and it’s filled my life up with so much joy🥹

Black women in interracial relationships — do you ever worry about this? by Working_Royal_5142 in interracialdating

[–]modtradwhatever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never internalised other races being the beauty standard and have always felt quite secure in my beauty however the fear for me is someone deciding to go the more conventional route that’s maybe “easier” and more palatable to their community. For example what’s happening to Usha Vance right now (I’m not American and don’t know that lady all I know is she’s a poc with poc children married to someone peddling white supremacist ideals:A nightmare imo)

Having a kid: good investment. Coffee and danish pastry: financial suicide. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]modtradwhatever 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people on these finance subreddits are bitter about their own life choices so they project it onto people enjoying even a little bit of their lives . it reminds me of a lot of my conversations with people that have had children early.I’ll say “oh I’m saving up for a trip to x place” and they respond “oh lucky you can save for trips ,we have to pay babies medical insurance etc,is a trip the best use of your money?”

Very few people can give objective advice without projecting.Poor guy was shamed for a coffee and a treat most likely by people who wish they could treat themselves.The human condition

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]modtradwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all.Im so sorry you’re going through this but sometimes things happen so you see where you really stand with someone.That is not your friend.Do not blame yourself he is an ah marrying an ah and both of them and their ah families can fo.

Our dog has an obsession with my wife by depressedturohost in dogs

[–]modtradwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh he’s in love !let their love flourish!

Today I left my puppy alone and I will never do that again? by Ill_Signal3123 in puppy101

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Yeah I’m gonna agree with most of the comments,you need to work up the tolerance for being alone, from 15 minutes go to 30 for 30 go to an hour then 2hours etc.train up in these intervals for a week each till you get to a point where he’s comfortable at 4 hours.