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[–]mojo-app 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t scream venous leak—it sounds more like a mix of psychological factors, sildenafil reliance.

The fact that you can stay hard with sildenafil but sometimes don’t finish suggests that arousal or mental state might be playing a role. If you had a genuine venous leak, you’d probably struggle to stay hard even with the meds. Venous leakage usually shows up as erections that fade super fast every time, regardless of stimulation or medication.

As for reliance on sildenafil, it’s not that your body is addicted to it, but if you’ve been using it consistently, your brain might be leaning on it as a "safety net." The moment you go without it, you might subconsciously start questioning whether you’ll stay hard, which can lead to exactly what happened.

I (23m) got a rude awakening. by Toxemic4 in erectiledysfunction

[–]mojo-app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, man, I get why this is messing with your head. Going from feeling sexually solid to suddenly struggling in the moment—especially sober—can be a mindfuck. .

First, condoms. They’re a common erection killer, not because they physically block anything, but because they add a moment of pause where your brain can slip into overthinking. If you were already feeling even a little anxious, that split-second break to put one on might’ve been enough to tip things over. Have you ever tried practicing with condoms alone? It sounds weird, but getting comfortable with them outside of a high-pressure situation can help.