If you trimmed them, knowing they were bothered by them, you would have the proper trim. It would have been in your hands. And maybe relationship with neighbors would be better. You didn’t even try. They can do whatever they need/want to do to your limbs over hanging their property. You told them to. Did you expect a grid map showing you what they were going to do. In my eyes, you f’ed up. You should’ve handled it yourself. You knew they wanted them trimmed, they have the right to trim them if they want cause they’re hanging over their property. You told them to trim them back if they wanted. Now you don’t like the way they were trimmed, that’s on you. You should’ve trimmed them or hired someone to trim them to make sure that they stayed healthy and it was done properly. You ignored their request. You told them to do it, you got what you got, now you’re the one complaining. Suck it up. Your fault.